So, what do you consider to be romantic?

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I don't have any idea what is to be romantic. I don't think love exist for me at all. I have a idea of my ideal partner but not a idea for love model. I don't understand love...i'm really lost about that. Plus him too boring for others because of my special interests

Anytime you spend some of your own personal time and energy to prepare a meal for someone that you appreciate - it 'usually' comes across as loving - but for Romance, you need that little special something. I think the trick to romance lies in the deception, because a dash of confusion can really add to the appreciation and delight of your date when she realizes what your really up too

Many of the experiences that I've had have been romantic in a non-sexual way, if that makes any sense. They've been with friends, families, and even animals. For example, watching a meteor shower with my family at five in the morning felt "romantic". I can only imagine how much more magical it would feel if I did it with a girlfriend. Other things that have felt "romantic" to me were playing in the snow with my childhood friend, exploring a cemetery with some other friends, and being comforted by a friendly stray dog when I was locked out of the house and it was raining. In these contexts, "romantic" means magical and worthy of nostalgia. My romantic experiences of the conventional definition have been few. One time I got an unexpected goodbye kiss from a girl, and another time a beautiful stranger tried to lure me onto the dance floor at a party. I don't know what else I consider to be this type of romantic because I have had so few experiences with it.