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12 Dec 2010, 5:54 pm

I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


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14 Dec 2010, 12:45 pm

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Is this the site? http://www.aspieaffection.com

Is this the kind of thing where you register, spend ages doing your profile only to realise that you have to pay to contact someone?


I have contacted people without paying, but of course, the problem is that there are far more men than women, as there are far more men that have the diagnosis. The site is probably a very good dating site for aspie women, though.



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14 Dec 2010, 1:09 pm

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I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


I am curious, what "live bait" did you use? :P


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14 Dec 2010, 5:26 pm

Wallourdes wrote:
Moog wrote:
I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


I am curious, what "live bait" did you use? :P


Caterpillars. Aspie chicks love 'em.

It's a secret, just between me and you, sssssh! :wtg:


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14 Dec 2010, 5:34 pm

Moog wrote:
Wallourdes wrote:
Moog wrote:
I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


I am curious, what "live bait" did you use? :P


Caterpillars. Aspie chicks love 'em.

It's a secret, just between me and you, sssssh! :wtg:


It's true! Who can resist a caterpillar?

I like the fuzzy ones.
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14 Dec 2010, 6:11 pm

Kaybee wrote:
Moog wrote:
Wallourdes wrote:
Moog wrote:
I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


I am curious, what "live bait" did you use? :P


Caterpillars. Aspie chicks love 'em.

It's a secret, just between me and you, sssssh! :wtg:


It's true! Who can resist a caterpillar?

I like the fuzzy ones.
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He's gorgeous ^_^


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14 Dec 2010, 6:22 pm

Moog wrote:
Kaybee wrote:
Moog wrote:
Wallourdes wrote:
Moog wrote:
I use live bait, a long pole, and patience. Lots of patience.


I am curious, what "live bait" did you use? :P


Caterpillars. Aspie chicks love 'em.

It's a secret, just between me and you, sssssh! :wtg:


It's true! Who can resist a caterpillar?

I like the fuzzy ones.
Image


He's gorgeous ^_^


:o hehe, definitely a looker! 8)


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16 Dec 2010, 7:16 am

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1. Get to know people on aspie sites
2. Go to aspergers support groups
3. Meet as many people as possible
4. Learn to determine "aspie traits" without having to be notified that the person is diagnosed
5. Go to hobby groups for your own interests
6. go to aspie affection


Yup, all this is very good advice.


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18 Dec 2010, 5:05 pm

I think I'm just going to contact an AA girl if I like the sound of her and she is within a hundred miles!

It would help if Aspie Affection actually worked though, this is probably the most buggy site I've ever seen.

Edited: How about Aspie girls home delivered, comes with meal allowance and er... range of outfits?



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19 Dec 2010, 5:48 am

I wish you big luck if you will try aspieaffection, because you will need it. Since there are far more men than women that are diagnosed there are also far more men than women on aspieaffection



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17 Jun 2011, 5:03 pm

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This site is quite dodgy. I registered and logged in but then the site echoed the db queries on the page. I would be careful, on a practical note it could disclose your email and personal details. I'd be happy to offer assistance into fixing it as I have a lot of knowledge in this area, but don't use Pear too much. Is this Alex's site?


Yeah that site seemed a bit dodge. Arrrrrrrrrrrrrh it's hacking my computer and stealing all my personal info, those damn russians and soviet union haha



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19 Jun 2011, 6:26 pm

We tend to be pretty underground, so good luck, first of all.
Secondly, do you want a real life or online relationship? That's important to consider.

Finally: The diagnosis isn't everything. Not only are there fewer Aspie girls, but there are loads of undiagnosed ASD girls as well. You might be setting your expectations a little too high. Be open minded! If you like a girl and she likes you back, does the diagnosis really matter? If it's the mutual understanding that you want, there are plenty of neuro-atypical girls out there, who can sympathize with you. You'll find someone eventually, trust me. :thumleft: