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26 Dec 2010, 7:07 pm

A few points of which to be cognizant, though:

1. Fat people may have an impaired circulatory system, which may lead to impotence.

2. Even if rendered potent through the use of modern pharmaceuticals, finding a safe and mutually comfortable position for coitus may be difficult.

3. Some fat people sweat copiously.

Of course, when true love hits, the above points will be of no importance. Ways of satisfying a lover's needs exist outside of standard coitus.



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26 Dec 2010, 7:19 pm

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i've found that the bigger the guy is, the better the hug. :heart:


That's true! As long as they're not so big you can't get your arms around them, bigger people are good for hugging.

A lot of very good points have already been made, so I won't go into all that. For my own preferences, weight doesn't play much of a role in whether or not I'm attracted to a person. Unless he's really, really big (and maybe if he's anorexically skinny--not sure, you don't see many men like this), weight is not a significant factor. Attitude is, though, and it sounds like the OP's is not so good.


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26 Dec 2010, 10:00 pm

With obesity on the rise, the supply of fat people is definitely going up.

Probably we'll eventually be seeing fatter models, etc., as fat continues to become the more predominant phenotype.



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26 Dec 2010, 10:08 pm

Seeing how most of the current models are anorexic and how a woman with a BMI of as low as 22 is considered "fat," I'd really like to see that happen.



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26 Dec 2010, 10:10 pm

menintights wrote:
Seeing how most of the current models are anorexic and how a woman with a BMI of as low as 22 is considered "fat," I'd really like to see that happen.


Same here and a size 10 is "plus size" apparently. :/



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26 Dec 2010, 11:33 pm

Well, you could always refuse to shop at Victoria's Secret.



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26 Dec 2010, 11:42 pm

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Well, you could always refuse to shop at Victoria's Secret.


I don't shop there. I am NOT paying $40 for a bra. Ridiculous. :/



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27 Dec 2010, 12:03 am

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I am NOT paying $40 for a bra. Ridiculous. :/


That's exactly what I thought until I decided to give it a try. A $40 bra, it turns out, is more than twice as comfortable as a $20 one.


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27 Dec 2010, 12:16 am

Kaybee wrote:
Erisad wrote:
I am NOT paying $40 for a bra. Ridiculous. :/


That's exactly what I thought until I decided to give it a try. A $40 bra, it turns out, is more than twice as comfortable as a $20 one.


Lol, I bet. I checked out their website and they don't have anything above a band size of 36 so I'll probably have to lose weight first. Whatever. :roll:

Sorry that this is kind of off topic. D:



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27 Dec 2010, 12:29 am

pandabear wrote:
Well, you could always refuse to shop at Victoria's Secret.

It cracks me up how girls love wearing those god-awful PINK sweatpants around here. It makes me nauseate.



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27 Dec 2010, 1:53 am

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I am fat. I actually was losing weight earlier this year, but ever since Thanksgiving I've gone back to eating too much. Although I resolve to eat less and exercise more this upcoming year, I don't think I'll lose enough weight to stop being fat by the end of 2011 unless I work out to death. I think that my obesity is scaring girls away. Making my problem worse is that I am not attracted to fat women at all. I want my woman to have a much healthier weight than I do, yet I've been told that fat people pair up better with other fat people. Is there any chance that a woman with a healthy weight will fall for me?


No they are not. Keep losing that weight!



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27 Dec 2010, 10:00 am

Be sure to check out the clearance sale at Victoria's Secret around the end of January.

(There. Now I'm also a spokesperson for Victoria's Secret).

You can pick up $16 panties for $1, and then resell them on EBay.



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27 Dec 2010, 10:53 am

pandabear wrote:
Be sure to check out the clearance sale at Victoria's Secret around the end of January.

(There. Now I'm also a spokesperson for Victoria's Secret).

You can pick up $16 panties for $1, and then resell them on EBay.


Lol, I'll be back at school by then and the only way to get to a Victoria's Secret is to have my bf drive me. I don't know if he'd be comfortable shopping there with me. XD



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27 Dec 2010, 12:50 pm

Erisad wrote:
Lol, I'll be back at school by then and the only way to get to a Victoria's Secret is to have my bf drive me. I don't know if he'd be comfortable shopping there with me. XD


Are you kidding? Just let him sit in a corner and hold your purse for you.

Don't go there the first day, or even the first week, of the annual sale. The crowds will be atrocious, and the prices are not marked down anywhere near their full potential. Definitely wait until the end of January. No crowds, but there are tubs of high-quality undergarments at rock-bottom prices.

At least offer to let you boyfriend come with you into the changing room, so that you can try things on for him and get his opinion.



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27 Dec 2010, 1:26 pm

pandabear wrote:
With obesity on the rise, the supply of fat people is definitely going up.

Probably we'll eventually be seeing fatter models, etc., as fat continues to become the more predominant phenotype.


We are already getting fatter models here as really thin women are seen as unhealthy



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27 Dec 2010, 4:55 pm

Yeah a aspiring biological anthropologist with Asperger's Syndrome who loves to draw dinosaurs, ancient warriors, and hot black women in his spare time, women just DIG that. hahaha