I've got a hot date tomorrow/hope for guys struggling

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It is the same thing, it's just more socially acceptable. The women I saw were all independent escorts who run their website/business themselves. I've never been with a "prostitute" in the traditional sense.

I know what you're saying. Through a process of attrition, I've reached similar conclusions about myself. I am looking for a long term relationship with a women, however the difficulties that come with AS have made we wonder if there is someone suitable for me long term. I can't have kids/don't want to have kids, and therefore don't see marriage as important at this stage in life. Sleeping with different women is fun, but I am trying to get a regular partner, and what I often get is a series of one night stands with women (they use ME for sex) where they won't call after or want to move on. 9/10, the women in my relationships have been the one who end it.

For the record, we had a great night last night. And yes we did make love. And no, I didn't leave after. I stayed the night, and we went out for breakfast. I really enjoy her company, and hope that our relationship continues and becomes something extraordinary.

If women don't give guys the chance to get someplace in a relationship and the guy wants sex, then its perfectly understandable for the guy to look in the sex classifieds and ring up a callgirl for sex.

There are also males in the classifieds promoting sex for women who are looking for some fun. There shouldn't be a problem, both sexes pay for sex.

They say "free" sex is the most expensive. I agree.

I agree too, "free" sex only happens in relationships. You have to spend a fortune on someplace to live, wining and dining and a possible marriage and kids!

All for what, so some woman can dominate and moan at you day and night and dictate when you'll be home from the pub! NO THANKS.

Only in relationships?

You clearly don't get out much. There were plenty of people I knew were having casual sex with people they barely met was an intricate part of their lifestyle.

Its either something your game for or your not.

Those are pretty much free

Swinging - aka, "The Lifestyle". PART OF THEIR LIFESTYLE, SOMETHING YOUR GAME FOR, PRETTY MUCH FREE.

Like the place up in Sheffield and the one in Nottingham that only caters for women and couples.

Oh the worst was those little communities out in the countryside. There are all shacked up with each other in those little yorkshire towns and villages. I guess after you've exhaused the sheep theres no other alternative then your neighbours really.

Then theres Mansfield, where everyones at least your second cousin.

Way to go Space. Age is just a number. I've been with women much older and much younger than myself. I am currently with someone the same age as me. Dating really is a numbers game and that is just a fact of life. Sounds to me like you are getting the hang of this dating thing. Now if the whiners who complain about your methods would just shut up and follow your advice then they too can get a girlfriend.

you want a girlfriend and yet you don't...

No, society makes me think I need a partner.

you've said a lot how you want and need one...I donno
and its really not my concern

Human behaviour through the ages makes having a partner the normal thing to have. Its society that interprets how you behave and feel.

And what of character and conviction?

well I don't feel the need to have a partner
in the end I decide what I do, what I want
people can try and make you think something, but at the end of the day its just you

Exactly! If a woman I was with ever tried to change me, I would show her the door. I will NOT be controlled by any woman, no matter how nice she is or how cute she is, I am my own man, I will not be abused, dominated, assaulted and robbed by any woman.

I meant society not women
I think change is needed in both sides in a relationship for the relationship to thrive
I would change, because I care about her