Hi ApsieGuy! You look fine. I think you're concern is mostly on still being single or can't find a date. The question is, have you let the world or people know you're looking for one? Dates don't just come to you even if you're very good looking, rich or stable and what not. Those maybe are pluses in attracting potential dates, but dating or finding a date is conscious effort too, like expose yourself out there. let people know you're in the market, be in the dating market, so people know they could buy. you know what i mean?
And yeah don't think you can't find anyone to date, you will. maybe you're just not looking or not looking enough.. maybe your actions or priorities is leading you to a different direction, so try change it up a bit. and yeah don't be negative and hopeless, there's always a bright side in everything and there's always hope. believe and focus that you'll find a date and you will, that would lead you to what you're looking for. dont think that you have to be so many great things that you are not to attract people, you are somewhat rejecting yourself that way. you are great and lovable in your own way. show and share that with people. working yourself to riches, working out to hunkify yourself out is not exactly sharing yourself with anyone, dating is sharing yourself to someone. so share. i hope you get what i mean..
anyway.. good luck..

Well, as you can see I am in decent shape in that picture. However, I was really scrawny prior to working out. I noticed it's easier to get women to talk to you when your in decent shape. So, I kind of assumed the same with a decent job?