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14 Jan 2011, 4:49 pm

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I have a right to be bitter and angry. I'm sick of seeing other people and former friends that treated me badly have a bunch of friends and girlfriends. It isn't fair. Girls that won't so much as look at me are going out with them. All I've done was try to be nice to people and they still treated me like sh**. It's unbelievable I hate this world so much.

Dude! They treat you like sh** because you do NOTHING but wallow in self pity. If you spend 1/4th the energy on improving your life as you do feeling sorry for yourself you'd have done some pretty cool stuff. No one wants to hear that all the time. A bad day here and there is to be expected, but the non stop "oh poor me" behavior is driving any friends away and would be friends away as well.

This is actually the first time that I've opened up and talked about my problems. I'd been lurking for years until I finally got up enough courage to talk about myself on this site. I've never said anything about my problems to anyone outside Wrongplanet, certainly not to people that I used to hang out with.

They treated me like s**t because I'm ugly, I stink, I'm dumb, and I'm always saying stupid stuff. I dress like I don't care about my appearance, I acted weird, and I'm annoying to hang out for extended periods of time. That's why people don't like to hang out with me.

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14 Jan 2011, 4:52 pm

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This is actually the first time that I've opened up and talked about my problems. I'd been lurking for years until I finally got up enough courage to talk about myself on this site. I've never said anything about my problems to anyone outside Wrongplanet, certainly not to people that I used to hang out with.

They treated me like sh** because I'm ugly, I stink, I'm dumb, and I'm always saying stupid stuff. I dress like I don't care about my appearance, I acted weird, and I'm annoying to hang out for extended periods of time. That's why people don't like to hang out with me.

No it isn't. I remember several threads you've made attacking anyone trying to give you valid advice. If you stink, jump in a lake or something if you have no hot water. I'm not making fun, its the truth - would rather have an ice cold shower or dip than stink.

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14 Jan 2011, 4:53 pm

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You sound like someone who cares too much. Imagine how much other people care about you. Are they writing pages on how sorry they feel about you? If not, then stop worrying so much about fitting in with them.

See that's the problem I do care and I can't stop worrying. I want friends that care about me. Friends to go to different places with. (mall, parties, concerts, road trips, etc) Friends that treat me like their equal and aren't afraid to be seen with me in public.

I also want a decent looking girl who's nice, kind, and have similar interests to me, but I know it's nothing more than dreams.

Because I'm too f**** up and weird for anyone to have anything to do with me.

It's a hopeless situation, and I'm not the only one.

You can't always have what you want. A 5ft tall man with aspirations to play professional basketball could tell you that.

I'm not about to deny how weird you may be. For all I know, you could be the ugliest, strangest, and most obnoxious person ever.

However, complaining will not help with anything. If you want to improve, complaining won't help. If you want to be happier, complainig won't help there either. You're stuck with the hand you're dealt, and it's your life mission to appreciate it and play it the best you can.

Basically, your main concern should not be what you can't do. But what you can.

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14 Jan 2011, 4:57 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

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hyperbole wrote:

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This is actually the first time that I've opened up and talked about my problems. I'd been lurking for years until I finally got up enough courage to talk about myself on this site. I've never said anything about my problems to anyone outside Wrongplanet, certainly not to people that I used to hang out with.

They treated me like sh** because I'm ugly, I stink, I'm dumb, and I'm always saying stupid stuff. I dress like I don't care about my appearance, I acted weird, and I'm annoying to hang out for extended periods of time. That's why people don't like to hang out with me.

No it isn't. I remember several threads you've made attacking anyone trying to give you valid advice. If you stink, jump in a lake or something if you have no hot water. I'm not making fun, its the truth - would rather have an ice cold shower or dip than stink.

Whether it goes back to a few months or today, it's the same. This site is the first time I've openly talked about myself.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:01 pm

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14 Jan 2011, 5:11 pm

You ignore the problems because you love to be miserable.
Which is fine, just don't pretend otherwise.

Anyway - i'm done with the advice.
Have a lovely day!

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14 Jan 2011, 5:13 pm

MR20 wrote:

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This is actually the first time that I've opened up and talked about my problems. I'd been lurking for years until I finally got up enough courage to talk about myself on this site. I've never said anything about my problems to anyone outside Wrongplanet, certainly not to people that I used to hang out with.

They treated me like sh** because I'm ugly, I stink, I'm dumb, and I'm always saying stupid stuff. I dress like I don't care about my appearance, I acted weird, and I'm annoying to hang out for extended periods of time. That's why people don't like to hang out with me.

answer me this.... why talk about the problems if you will not at least attempt to try to act on the advice some of the people here are giving? I do not understand what the purpose of the complaints are if you reject every bit of compassion people are directing toward you.

I was suicidal not long ago and a few people shared some sound advice with me..... which was basically change my attitude and I've worked hard to do it. Things haven't so much changed, but maybe I have.

Open yourself up to the damn possibility. That's all, just try.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:15 pm

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I asked the same question and hypothesized several pages back. I don't get it.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:16 pm

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You can't always have what you want. A 5ft tall man with aspirations to play professional basketball could tell you that.

I'm not about to deny how weird you may be. For all I know, you could be the ugliest, strangest, and most obnoxious person ever.

However, complaining will not help with anything. If you want to improve, complaining won't help. If you want to be happier, complainig won't help there either. You're stuck with the hand you're dealt, and it's your life mission to appreciate it and play it the best you can.

Basically, your main concern should not be what you can't do. But what you can.

I can play video games well. I can watch anime, the Disney and Nickelodeon channel, and listen to Christan and grunge music for most of the time throughout the day.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:28 pm

hyperbole wrote:

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MR20 wrote:

This is actually the first time that I've opened up and talked about my problems. I'd been lurking for years until I finally got up enough courage to talk about myself on this site. I've never said anything about my problems to anyone outside Wrongplanet, certainly not to people that I used to hang out with.

They treated me like sh** because I'm ugly, I stink, I'm dumb, and I'm always saying stupid stuff. I dress like I don't care about my appearance, I acted weird, and I'm annoying to hang out for extended periods of time. That's why people don't like to hang out with me.

answer me this.... why talk about the problems if you will not at least attempt to try to act on the advice some of the people here are giving? I do not understand what the purpose of the complaints are if you reject every bit of compassion people are directing toward you.

I was suicidal not long ago and a few people shared some sound advice with me..... which was basically change my attitude and I've worked hard to do it. Things haven't so much changed, but maybe I have.

Open yourself up to the damn possibility. That's all, just try.

I have tried, check the post I made a few months back about that;

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I've tried changing, I've tried to do that for better part of the past 8 years. I've tried to fake interest in the stupid pop culture sh** people are into, I've tried at one point into time to dress with the latest fashion. It's never worked. No matter hard I tried I never fit in. So after awhile I said f it, I'm going to be myself and if people aren't going accept me forget them.

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Looking back on it was pretty stupid. I don't like mainstream music, I don't watch MTV, Jersey Shore VH1, etc. And I think buying new clothes just impress people is pretty stupid, especially when I could spend the money on fun stuff that I enjoy. I don't like drinking, making fun of and talking down to people, talking behind folks back, and just being plain rude to people when all they've done was just be nice.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:41 pm

@hyperbole - I really like your posts and you made such a great choice for your avatar!

Sorry guys, I just felt the need to say something nice in this thread :oops: .

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14 Jan 2011, 5:42 pm

I've read them. I remember reading and thinking that changing the superficial things isn't going to help.

Changing your attitude is. Contacting social services is.

So what is the game? You don't want change.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:43 pm

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@hyperbole - I really like your posts and you made such a great choice for your avatar!

Sorry guys, I just felt the need to say something nice in this thread :oops:

Thanks.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:48 pm

Pstt pretending to like pop culture is not changing, it's faking.
And you know that.
Excuses, excuses.

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14 Jan 2011, 5:53 pm

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Pstt pretending to like pop culture is not changing, it's faking.
And you know that.
Excuses, excuses.

THEY ARE NOT EXCUSES. Stop chastising me, you're just like every other girl I've met. Get out of my thread and live me alone

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14 Jan 2011, 5:53 pm

Then change your attitude. Attacking people isn't how you do that.

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