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08 Feb 2011, 6:54 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
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granted he was a typical 'bad boy' but those things didn't put me off.
wish they had put me off, because he was a total scumbag. :lol:


Are you implying that i am also a scumbag?


*sigh~ no, of course i wasn't.
and you know full well i wasn't.

last time i try to give my opinion around here.
i'll stick to the people who actually want advice.



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09 Feb 2011, 1:35 am

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There's one problem with that costanza clip that wouldn't happen in real life. If the first thing you say after introducing yourself is "I'm unemployed and live with my parents", I don't think any woman would take you at that point, no matter what "confidence" you have...


ToS, I think you're missing my original point entirely which was to try a new approach.

Rather than finding all of the reasons why something WON'T work, you might be better served by a perspective along the lines of "what the heck do I have to lose, I'll give it a try."

Perhaps your nay-saying should be the first item to change? Just a thought. :D



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09 Feb 2011, 6:19 pm

That sounds like delusional fantasies your having their , and if your not educated you need to go to your emergency department right now.

What are the odds (seriously) about as likely as finding a intelligent and decent morning show presenter on a for profit network television *

*Which is only marginally more likely than wining division one in Tax Lotto.

Seriously do people really people want to wake up to impossibly good looking middle aged (or near) people giggling and laughing like school age children , talking about impossibly uninteresting and boring things, I mean come on :eew:


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09 Feb 2011, 6:28 pm

emlion wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
emlion wrote:
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There's one problem with that costanza clip that wouldn't happen in real life. If the first thing you say after introducing yourself is "I'm unemployed and live with my parents", I don't think any woman would take you at that point, no matter what "confidence" you have...


I think you underestimate women.


Really then... can you even show me one woman in real life that would be attracted to that? Because that would be the kind of person i'd like to meet...


Me? I used to date a guy, who never worked a day in his life and lived with his controlling mother and father. I dated him for 5 months.
Then he dumped me for some pretty girl.


What about having your mother live with you (Seymour Skinner style) that is in having your mother in the house that I own, and yes she to has the big bedroom. :(

I've been told that's sweet more often than not (usually by obnoxious alpha males that's weak and pathetic)*

* I really don't know what it is and to be frank with you I don't care.

BTW your pretty, don't sell yourself short.


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10 Feb 2011, 2:55 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
emlion wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
There's one problem with that costanza clip that wouldn't happen in real life. If the first thing you say after introducing yourself is "I'm unemployed and live with my parents", I don't think any woman would take you at that point, no matter what "confidence" you have...


I think you underestimate women.


Really then... can you even show me one woman in real life that would be attracted to that? Because that would be the kind of person i'd like to meet...



There's a difference in being attracted to something and not being turned off by it.
I'd gladly date a guy who was unemployed and lived with his parents. That's my situation as well, and I'm no hypocrite.


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10 Feb 2011, 3:24 am

Bethie wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
emlion wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
There's one problem with that costanza clip that wouldn't happen in real life. If the first thing you say after introducing yourself is "I'm unemployed and live with my parents", I don't think any woman would take you at that point, no matter what "confidence" you have...


I think you underestimate women.


Really then... can you even show me one woman in real life that would be attracted to that? Because that would be the kind of person i'd like to meet...



There's a difference in being attracted to something and not being turned off by it.
I'd gladly date a guy who was unemployed and lived with his parents. That's my situation as well, and I'm no hypocrite.



Truth. I'm a woman, and I wouldn't give a single thought to whether someone I fell in love with had a job or was successful. Who the hell cares?



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12 Mar 2011, 5:17 pm

Mythricia wrote:
Bethie wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
emlion wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
There's one problem with that costanza clip that wouldn't happen in real life. If the first thing you say after introducing yourself is "I'm unemployed and live with my parents", I don't think any woman would take you at that point, no matter what "confidence" you have...


I think you underestimate women.


Really then... can you even show me one woman in real life that would be attracted to that? Because that would be the kind of person i'd like to meet...



There's a difference in being attracted to something and not being turned off by it.
I'd gladly date a guy who was unemployed and lived with his parents. That's my situation as well, and I'm no hypocrite.




Truth. I'm a woman, and I wouldn't give a single thought to whether someone I fell in love with had a job or was successful. Who the hell cares?


You have no idea how refreshing it is to see that here.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:19 pm

over half the girls around here say that, at least.
love > success/money obviously.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:24 pm

emlion wrote:
over half the girls around here say that, at least.
love > success/money obviously.


I have not noticed.

What I have noticed is a lurking hostility between the genders here. Actually it's just a hand full on each side, but that's what stands out.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:26 pm

you mean the whole 'men/women have it hardest!!' thing?



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12 Mar 2011, 5:33 pm

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you mean the whole 'men/women have it hardest!!' thing?


Yeah. And the subject of money has come up between them, with accusations of women being over concerned with material gains, and men for not having ambition. I think it comes down to anger on both sides, but that's just me.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:34 pm

CaptainTrips222 wrote:
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you mean the whole 'men/women have it hardest!!' thing?


Yeah. And the subject of money has come up between them, with accusations of women being over concerned with material gains, and men for not having ambition. I think it comes down to anger on both sides, but that's just me.


yeah, that and frustration about being single often.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:41 pm

emlion wrote:
over half the girls around here say that, at least.
love > success/money obviously.


I''m afraid that my experience seems to be that many of the girls I've gone out with have been solely interested in personal wealth.



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12 Mar 2011, 5:43 pm

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over half the girls around here say that, at least.
love > success/money obviously.


I''m afraid that my experience seems to be that many of the girls I've gone out with have been solely interested in personal wealth.


hence my saying 'girls around here' :P



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12 Mar 2011, 5:45 pm

emlion wrote:
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emlion wrote:
over half the girls around here say that, at least.
love > success/money obviously.


I''m afraid that my experience seems to be that many of the girls I've gone out with have been solely interested in personal wealth.


hence my saying 'girls around here' :P


Evening, by the way, m'dear!



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12 Mar 2011, 5:48 pm

hello, lovely. :)