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I am posting here because most people with Asperger have a gift of sorts be it a high IQ, a very good memory or an ability to solve mathematical equations and such. I am pretty certain that at least 3/4th of the Asperger population would be eligible to join Mensa and as such they are vastly superior to any normal person.



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13 Feb 2011, 3:18 pm

'superior' and 'normal' are subjective.



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13 Feb 2011, 4:14 pm

I have an IQ of "superior intelligence". It doesn't make me superior. It doesn't make you superior either. Learn to love and respect the people in the world around you. That's the most valuable of qualities one can possess.



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13 Feb 2011, 5:03 pm

If most people where you live think you're superior, then you're in good shape. OTOH, if you're the only one who thinks so, then it's pretty irrelevant. That's the trouble with self-determined superiority.



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14 Feb 2011, 2:33 am

Aspocrat wrote:
I am posting here because most people with Asperger have a gift of sorts be it a high IQ, a very good memory or an ability to solve mathematical equations and such. I am pretty certain that at least 3/4th of the Asperger population would be eligible to join Mensa and as such they are vastly superior to any normal person.


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14 Feb 2011, 2:50 am

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When I was 7 years old I had an IQ of 140 on the Wechsler Scale, I come from a very good background, I have perfect manners, I don't wear brown in town, I stand up when women come or leave the table etc... Yet all the girls I have come across thought I was an arrogant matcho. What have I done to deserve this? Sure I set a line between me and those of lesser intelligence or manners, sure I think that I am better than them but that is because I am. And there is no way I can change that because I behave the way I was born. As long as I am courteous and treat these girls properly, why would they be angry at me for treating a stranger poorly? A man runs into me in the middle of the street, why am I not allowed to call him what he is, a worthless scumbag and throw him against a wall for daring to bump into ME? These people are inferior, have no manners and descend from nameless peasants for the most part, why should they have a right to be rude to me, when I am so much more superior to them?

I know this will sound arrogant to some people but I can not change the way I think and I am only saying what is true; that I am superior to 99% of the world population. I always treat women with the greatest respect but yet they hate me because I despise those who are inferior to me. What am I doing wrong? My first and only almost girlfriend told me I was a psychopath. Am I a psychopath for being different and superior?

Society likes the idea of all people being equal, and therefore the concept of superior and inferior is not one that is typically used by people as you are finding out. People who hold these views typically seem to have a character trait referred to as narcissm. Perhaps you have that?



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14 Feb 2011, 6:39 am

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When I was 7 years old I had an IQ of 140 on the Wechsler Scale, I come from a very good background, I have perfect manners, I don't wear brown in town, I stand up when women come or leave the table etc... Yet all the girls I have come across thought I was an arrogant matcho. What have I done to deserve this? Sure I set a line between me and those of lesser intelligence or manners, sure I think that I am better than them but that is because I am. And there is no way I can change that because I behave the way I was born. As long as I am courteous and treat these girls properly, why would they be angry at me for treating a stranger poorly? A man runs into me in the middle of the street, why am I not allowed to call him what he is, a worthless scumbag and throw him against a wall for daring to bump into ME? These people are inferior, have no manners and descend from nameless peasants for the most part, why should they have a right to be rude to me, when I am so much more superior to them?

I know this will sound arrogant to some people but I can not change the way I think and I am only saying what is true; that I am superior to 99% of the world population. I always treat women with the greatest respect but yet they hate me because I despise those who are inferior to me. What am I doing wrong? My first and only almost girlfriend told me I was a psychopath. Am I a psychopath for being different and superior?

I think that I'm like you. My life experience says-"Don't have friends who are not intelligent and are not soft mannered." Just be formal with them and don't be too judgemental regarding their I.Q.



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14 Feb 2011, 6:59 am

Please be trolling. Please.


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14 Feb 2011, 7:15 am

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Please be trolling. Please.


I don't see why he can't be for real.

People with NPD do exist in this real world.



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14 Feb 2011, 7:26 am

MCalavera wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Please be trolling. Please.


I don't see why he can't be for real.

People with NPD do exist in this real world.


NPD? More like membership in the NSDAP.



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14 Feb 2011, 7:59 am

TechnicalPacifist wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Please be trolling. Please.


I don't see why he can't be for real.

People with NPD do exist in this real world.


NPD? More like membership in the NSDAP.


NSDAP is not something you have. It's something you're a part of.



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14 Feb 2011, 9:14 am

Aspocrat wrote:
I am posting here because most people with Asperger have a gift of sorts be it a high IQ, a very good memory or an ability to solve mathematical equations and such. I am pretty certain that at least 3/4th of the Asperger population would be eligible to join Mensa and as such they are vastly superior to any normal person.


Whether a person likes you or not is an emotional decision and a social issue. How does high IQ, a good memory and mathematical abilities within a population of people who have difficulty in social situations help you with finding the answer to your question? Most of the people who are turned off by you most likely are NT, so why are you not asking NT's this question? You may find you will get a better answer.

My take? I'm glad you are so confident in yourself, but you're judgemental, and I'm sure that comes across in everything you do and say. Nobody likes to be judged. If you want to tell me that bumping into you is rude, that's fine, it's factual, and I would deserve to be called on it if I didn't offer an apology, however calling them a worthless piece of crap is judgemental and unfair. You say in your original post that you have perfect manners, yet you feel justified throwing a worthless scumbag into the wall for bumping into you and can't understand why YOU can't do that. You may define superiority by intelligence, but you have no class. I'd take the village idiot who has class and character over someone like you any day. But hey...I'm part of the 99% :wink:



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14 Feb 2011, 9:39 am

MCalavera wrote:
TechnicalPacifist wrote:
MCalavera wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Please be trolling. Please.


I don't see why he can't be for real.

People with NPD do exist in this real world.


NPD? More like membership in the NSDAP.


NSDAP is not something you have. It's something you're a part of.


Yeah, I know. I was making a pun towards the OP's superiority complex. :lol:



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14 Feb 2011, 2:22 pm

MommyJones wrote:
Aspocrat wrote:
Most of the people who are turned off by you most likely are NT, so why are you not asking NT's this question? You may find you will get a better answer. :


Problem is NTs do not understand their own motives. And it can also be like getting advice from politicians on how to lie.
Ask what an NT would find in a ideal man, it would point to the majority of aspies, not quite the same in real life.



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14 Feb 2011, 2:45 pm

How do I contact a moderator? Some pig is sending me scam mails on the site.

I want to change but it is hard, my education, added to my status and my pride makes things bad. When I was little I was bullied a lot and so I promised to myself that from now on I would be the one who would humiliate and crush people. But I am a worse person now...