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TeaEarlGreyHot
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22 Mar 2011, 1:24 am

I don't really feel fat. That was a joke. I'm a bit drugged up on account of a migraine. 8O

Also... one less dude talking to my tits is a definitely plus.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:27 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I don't really feel fat. That was a joke. I'm a bit drugged up on account of a migraine. 8O

Also... one less dude talking to my tits is a definitely plus.


Sorry. :oops:

Men TALK to your BOOBIES? :o

Sounds interesting.

I hope you feel better!


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22 Mar 2011, 1:30 am

I am 5"3 and about 140 pounds.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:33 am

And I fail to see why people should be punished for getting fat when we live in a decadent society of plenty, yet without the structure and organised activities that would have kept people fit in past years, coupled with increasingly sedentary job options. And of course other factors such as antidepressants, other medications and health problems.

I love people of all sizes :heart:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDSK91mUNLU[/youtube]


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22 Mar 2011, 1:37 am

zen_mistress wrote:
And I fail to see why people should be punished for getting fat when we live in a decadent society of plenty, yet without the structure and organised activities that would have kept people fit in past years, coupled with increasingly sedentary job options. And of course other factors such as antidepressants, other medications and health problems.

I love people of all sizes :heart:




I BADLY need medication for anxiety, but don't want to risk gaining a bunch.

Thanks for the video! :D


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22 Mar 2011, 1:41 am

YW, I love that song... :)


And I think that natural methods and therapy are far more effective for anxiety. I would stay to stay off the meds if you can. They didnt help me, or my anxiety, and actually contributed to me gaining 25 pounds, I was 115 pounds before taking medication and now 140....


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22 Mar 2011, 1:41 am

the ones in the video look pretty big to me :D

i personally feel 5'6" and 135lbs is ideal for a female, but yet again its how its distributed and how good of shape she is in, weight is just a number lol



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22 Mar 2011, 1:46 am

Bethie wrote:
TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
I don't really feel fat. That was a joke. I'm a bit drugged up on account of a migraine. 8O

Also... one less dude talking to my tits is a definitely plus.


Sorry. :oops:

Men TALK to your BOOBIES? :o

Sounds interesting.

I hope you feel better!


I'll be fine, thanks.

And yeah, men talk to my boobs all the time. They seem to think they can get away with it because I don't look them in the eye. I can still tell.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:46 am

trojan51 wrote:
the ones in the video look pretty big to me :D


Since something like a third of Americans are overweight, and an additional third are obese,
I'd say the women in that video are decidedly average, probably even small, statistically.

trojan51 wrote:
i personally feel 5'6" and 135lbs is ideal for a female, but yet again its how its distributed and how good of shape she is in, weight is just a number lol


I guess height is, too?

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22 Mar 2011, 1:47 am

trojan51 wrote:
the ones in the video look pretty big to me :D

i personally feel 5'6" and 135lbs is ideal for a female, but yet again its how its distributed and how good of shape she is in, weight is just a number lol


Thats the whole point, they are big girls, and they are beautiful.

The thing about weight as well is that it doesnt stay the same thoughout life. Someone could date someone at a societally idealised BMI and that can change due to many things, pregnancy being a big one too, so I am hoping that my next man wont be too hung up on weight =^_^=


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22 Mar 2011, 1:51 am

That's not what you said on page 2.

As far as anxiety goes, I never thought I had an anxiety problem until I got with my girlfriend who has MAJOR anxiety problems. I've come to realize how common it is among aspies and that I do in fact have some fairly big anxiety issues.

I don't understand it completely myself but I've gotten to the point where I'll just listen to a little grunge and country....the more lyrics about booze, broads, and drugs the better and I chill out and quit being a jittery depressed fool. I've never been on medication for anxiety but withdrawals from antidepressants were bad enough for me.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:51 am

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^Thats the whole point, they are big girls, and they are beautiful.

The thing about weight as well is that it doesnt stay the same thoughout life. Someone could date someone at a societally idealised BMI and that can change due to many things, pregnancy being a big one too, so I am hoping that my next man wont be too hung up on weight =^_^=


I'm successfully losing weight in a relatively-healthy way for the first time in my life thanks to the help of medication,
and my fear is that I'll wind up with someone who only approached me because I'm thinner,
whereas with all my boyfriends to date, it was obvious a woman's size isn't important to them, cause...they were with me!

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22 Mar 2011, 1:54 am

Bethie wrote:
Since something like a third of Americans are overweight, and an additional third are obese,
I'd say the women in that video are decidedly average, probably even small, statistically


Read this and weep http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#Prevalence_by_state

90%+ of adults are overweight, meaning if you live in America the chances of you living your whole life at a healthy are slim to none.


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22 Mar 2011, 1:55 am

Pistonhead wrote:
That's not what you said on page 2.

Was this to me? I dunno what it's referring to, if so.

Pistonhead wrote:
As far as anxiety goes, I never thought I had an anxiety problem until I got with my girlfriend who has MAJOR anxiety problems. I've come to realize how common it is among aspies and that I do in fact have some fairly big anxiety issues.


I was on meds for it for a while, but they just made me sleep 20 hours a day. :?
Me having anxiety, coupled with my mother being convinced I was depressed (cause that's the only mental illness she seems to know of)
led to me being labeled bipolar, which is apparently a common misdiagnosis for female Aspies.

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I don't understand it completely myself but I've gotten to the point where I'll just listen to a little grunge and country....the more lyrics about booze, broads, and drugs the better and I chill out and quit being a jittery depressed fool. I've never been on medication for anxiety but withdrawals from antidepressants were bad enough for me.


I like a lot of 90's grunge type stuff, though my true love is freak folk. :D


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22 Mar 2011, 1:57 am

Bethie wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
^Thats the whole point, they are big girls, and they are beautiful.

The thing about weight as well is that it doesnt stay the same thoughout life. Someone could date someone at a societally idealised BMI and that can change due to many things, pregnancy being a big one too, so I am hoping that my next man wont be too hung up on weight =^_^=


I'm successfully losing weight in a relatively-healthy way for the first time in my life thanks to the help of medication,
and my fear is that I'll wind up with someone who only approached me because I'm thinner,
whereas with all my boyfriends to date, it was obvious a woman's size isn't important to them, cause...they were with me!

:D


I guess look for a guy who likes all sizes.

I have lost a little inchage but sabotaged it today by eating a large bar of chocolate, so my weight loss is happening slowly... darned chocolate...


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22 Mar 2011, 1:59 am

Pistonhead wrote:
Bethie wrote:
Since something like a third of Americans are overweight, and an additional third are obese,
I'd say the women in that video are decidedly average, probably even small, statistically


Read this and weep http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_the_United_States#Prevalence_by_state

90%+ of adults are overweight, meaning if you live in America the chances of you living your whole life at a healthy are slim to none.


Interesting to see that (as usual) the Southern states dominate as far as obesity "rank".

EDIT:

http://www.time.com/time/health/article ... 06,00.html

"Why Are Southerners So Fat?"


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