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How old were you?
I never had sex, I want to! 38%  38%  [ 88 ]
I never had sex, I don't want to. 8%  8%  [ 19 ]
Under -14 4%  4%  [ 10 ]
14-16 7%  7%  [ 15 ]
16-18 14%  14%  [ 32 ]
18-20 10%  10%  [ 22 ]
20-25 12%  12%  [ 28 ]
25-30 3%  3%  [ 7 ]
30-35 2%  2%  [ 5 ]
35-40 1%  1%  [ 2 ]
Over 40+ 0%  0%  [ 1 ]
Total votes : 229

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05 Jun 2011, 12:22 pm

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bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Time to do more research. They're a lot more effective than that.



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05 Jun 2011, 4:12 pm

harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)



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06 Jun 2011, 4:34 pm

hadrian_f wrote:
harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)


At school they always told us they were 99% effective. :scratch:


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06 Jun 2011, 4:36 pm

MONKEY wrote:
hadrian_f wrote:
harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)


At school they always told us they were 99% effective. :scratch:


Depends for what. Condoms wont stop you from getting crabs.



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06 Jun 2011, 4:37 pm

MXH wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
hadrian_f wrote:
harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)


At school they always told us they were 99% effective. :scratch:


Depends for what. Condoms wont stop you from getting crabs.


I think they were on about effectiveness against pregnancy.


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06 Jun 2011, 4:40 pm

MONKEY wrote:
MXH wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
hadrian_f wrote:
harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)


At school they always told us they were 99% effective. :scratch:


Depends for what. Condoms wont stop you from getting crabs.


I think they were on about effectiveness against pregnancy.

They are very good if used right. They also are good at most STDs, but theres some that can still get through.



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06 Jun 2011, 5:14 pm

MXH wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
MXH wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
hadrian_f wrote:
harry_j_83 wrote:
bear in mind the condom is about 95% effective (i think): in other words 1 time in every 20, it will fail you.


Actually, it's about 1 in 1000, 1 in 100 for the pill. If you want to be really sure, go double dutch ;)


At school they always told us they were 99% effective. :scratch:


Depends for what. Condoms wont stop you from getting crabs.


I think they were on about effectiveness against pregnancy.

They are very good if used right. They also are good at most STDs, but theres some that can still get through.


Fortunately there exists the possibility of testing for these things, i wouldn't know how to ask a girlfriend that though, she might not like the question or what it could infer.

Still, it is always wise to exercise caution in the field of sex.



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06 Jun 2011, 5:18 pm

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Fortunately there exists the possibility of testing for these things, i wouldn't know how to ask a girlfriend that though, she might not like the question or what it could infer.

Still, it is always wise to exercise caution in the field of sex.


testing isnt 100% and takes time. But I tell you this, atleast where I live most women have multiple STDs, most are nothing big but still. I know this as it was a warning in highschool from my mother about most of her teenage patients.



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06 Jun 2011, 7:32 pm

Iwas 25/26... it was actually pretty boring, if I am honest.
I think sex will only be truly meaningful and enjoyable with someone I am truly and deeply in love with/connected to.



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06 Jun 2011, 8:44 pm

in general, men loose it much later. AS men lose it much later then NT men, so on average, I think past 25 for most AS guys.


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07 Jun 2011, 4:40 pm

Nearly 29, and still haven't.



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07 Jun 2011, 5:42 pm

16, and they told me not to tell anyone. there's no emoticon for this.



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07 Jun 2011, 5:53 pm

I was 18, so long ago :)

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09 Jun 2011, 10:10 pm

Still a Virgin at 41, not proud of it but it is what it is, however I am finally dealing with it and getting treatment from the county, for my debilitating anxiety and depression.



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12 Jun 2011, 4:06 am

First time was 16 and extremely lucky. Was hanging out with my friend Jessy, we smoked a joint and we're watching TV, and she was cuddled up against me, and sense I was a virgin just her presence and touch had me aroused. She noticed, started to tease me, and you can figure out the rest.

I love sex hahaha How many Aspies out there have a special interest in girls, kissing, and sex? I'm as obsessed with those things as I am about cooking and ancient Egyptian mythology. XD


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12 Jun 2011, 10:02 pm

15, with someone who pressured me into it. I wouldn't be surprised if he was in jail now.

First kiss was at 14. The guy is married and now has a 4 year old kid. 8O


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