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18 Jul 2011, 2:11 pm

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18 Jul 2011, 2:12 pm

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I say it once and I'll say it again. Everyone pays for it.




as to the OP, I think you should go for it. I'm only talking for myself but I'd much rather have sex with a guy who sleeps with hookers than with one who only masturbates to porn.


But why?



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18 Jul 2011, 2:23 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
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I say it once and I'll say it again. Everyone pays for it.




as to the OP, I think you should go for it. I'm only talking for myself but I'd much rather have sex with a guy who sleeps with hookers than with one who only masturbates to porn.


But why?


read up on long-term effects of porn + masturbation combo in guys. sexual dysfunction, inability to get aroused with a real woman, unrealistic expectations etc.

then there's of course the issue of practice :->

I'm not anti-porn by any means, just being realistic here. I don't consider sexuality to be a moral issue so I don't see any value in "saving oneself". just my opinion though.


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18 Jul 2011, 2:30 pm

anna-banana wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:

I say it once and I'll say it again. Everyone pays for it.




as to the OP, I think you should go for it. I'm only talking for myself but I'd much rather have sex with a guy who sleeps with hookers than with one who only masturbates to porn.


But why?


read up on long-term effects of porn + masturbation combo in guys. sexual dysfunction, inability to get aroused with a real woman, unrealistic expectations etc.

then there's of course the issue of practice :->




Well, maybe you're right about the experience and practice, but those who sleep only with escorts and hookers would also develop unrealistic expectations, most women don't look like escort women, neither they can do what they do.


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I'm not anti-porn by any means, just being realistic here. I don't consider sexuality to be a moral issue so I don't see any value in "saving oneself". just my opinion though.


I find this concept silly as well, but I never had an interest in escort....not due to a moral issue (I am atheist, duh!) but I am just...not interested in pursuing sex like that, the puzzle of my life.



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18 Jul 2011, 2:39 pm

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Women want extroverted, domineering men, plain and simple. Yeah, it's easy for them to say differently on the internet, but I know what I see and hear in REAL LIFE.



I agree with that, what I see in real life is girls wanting assertive guys, I never heard a girl (in real life, Internet not counted) saying that she wants a "shy guy', never, not even once. Shyness is never good for guys, it's often seen as weakness, shyness for guys is even worse than weight for girls.



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18 Jul 2011, 3:04 pm

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Well, maybe you're right about the experience and practice, but those who sleep only with escorts and hookers would also develop unrealistic expectations, most women don't look like escort women, neither they can do what they do.


lol wut

first of all - prostitutes ARE real women. they are not supermodels. if they looked like supermodels, they would've been supermodels and not prostitutes (this is a generalisation so no need to point out the playboy mansion material as it's only a very narrow margin).

second of all - they don't have any sexual super powers. whatever a woman is ready to do to you in bed is all down to motivation ;)


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18 Jul 2011, 3:15 pm

This thread is more proof that I will never understand women and should give up



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18 Jul 2011, 3:19 pm

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This thread is more proof that I will never understand women and should give up


What was said in this thread that is confusing? Some people don't mind prostitutes, others endorse them and others find them a total turn-off. Different strokes for different folks. :)



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18 Jul 2011, 3:25 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Women want extroverted, domineering men, plain and simple. Yeah, it's easy for them to say differently on the internet, but I know what I see and hear in REAL LIFE.



I agree with that, what I see in real life is girls wanting assertive guys, I never heard a girl (in real life, Internet not counted) saying that she wants a "shy guy', never, not even once. Shyness is never good for guys, it's often seen as weakness, shyness for guys is even worse than weight for girls.


Being an aspie man is a bit like being a doormat while proving you are no doormat. Can't challenge the church, have an opinion about sciences but you are suppose to get with NT petty fights.



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18 Jul 2011, 3:28 pm

Erisad wrote:
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This thread is more proof that I will never understand women and should give up


What was said in this thread that is confusing? Some people don't mind prostitutes, others endorse them and others find them a total turn-off. Different strokes for different folks. :)


In olden day sex was sacred. It become that way because it was the process that brought a child into this world. And it took love to see that child to adulthood.

I don't think prostitutes give children as a part of the deal.



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18 Jul 2011, 3:30 pm

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Pretend that your life experiences have shown you that absolutely no girl is interested in you because of your aspergian characteristics. Well, that's not strictly true BUT rather, it's that SO FEW girls in real life are interested in you that doing the "searching process" is not sufficiently efficient like it is for your everyday NT such that it's kind of impractical. So, what do you do when you have a sex drive? Get a prostitute! Simple, quick and far less costly.

This seems totally rational to me. What's your take?

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18 Jul 2011, 3:32 pm

anna-banana wrote:
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Well, maybe you're right about the experience and practice, but those who sleep only with escorts and hookers would also develop unrealistic expectations, most women don't look like escort women, neither they can do what they do.


lol wut

first of all - prostitutes ARE real women. they are not supermodels. if they looked like supermodels, they would've been supermodels and not prostitutes (this is a generalisation so no need to point out the playboy mansion material as it's only a very narrow margin).

second of all - they don't have any sexual super powers. whatever a woman is ready to do to you in bed is all down to motivation ;)



It's not a matter of super powers......you are ridiculing the matters. :? Some women for example aren't ready to give head or doing anal. Prostitutes usually do everything without constraints because ...well...they are paid for to do these stuff.

Prostitutes are real women...true, I didn't say they're men or aliens...they're real women except that they usually undergo dozens of plastic surgeries in order to look like perfect dolls, maybe they don't look as "gorgeous" as supermodels (due to lack of height and other model requirements) but they're pretty close , at least based on what I witness in my country (most prostitutes here are from eastern Europe btw, Romanians, Ukrainians, Russians...).

Besides, prostitutes in many countries are usually foreigners and therefore are seen beautiful with exotic features by the local men, I heard countless of men saying that these Eastern European prostitutes are way hotter than the local girls, I heard countless of times saying that the local beauty is way inferior, whether this is true or not, it does make its fair amount of damage when those same men sleep with local women, as they won't see them as attractive as them, and the local women would feel insecure as well.



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18 Jul 2011, 3:35 pm

I could never get past the disease issue. I've gone carousing with guys who were looking for professionals and walked away before purchase every time. Not my cuppa. Though they can be fun to chat with.



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18 Jul 2011, 3:35 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
Erisad wrote:
MXH wrote:
This thread is more proof that I will never understand women and should give up


What was said in this thread that is confusing? Some people don't mind prostitutes, others endorse them and others find them a total turn-off. Different strokes for different folks. :)


In olden day sex was sacred. It become that way because it was the process that brought a child into this world. And it took love to see that child to adulthood.

I don't think prostitutes give children as a part of the deal.


Um...I guess so? How olden are we talking about? I'm sure that not everyone was a pure snowflake until marriage in most eras of history. Prostitution was almost always a part of society. We're just more open with sexual stuff these days. :/



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18 Jul 2011, 3:37 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
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Well, maybe you're right about the experience and practice, but those who sleep only with escorts and hookers would also develop unrealistic expectations, most women don't look like escort women, neither they can do what they do.


lol wut

first of all - prostitutes ARE real women. they are not supermodels. if they looked like supermodels, they would've been supermodels and not prostitutes (this is a generalisation so no need to point out the playboy mansion material as it's only a very narrow margin).

second of all - they don't have any sexual super powers. whatever a woman is ready to do to you in bed is all down to motivation ;)



It's not a matter of super powers......you are ridiculing the matters. :?

Prostitutes are real women...true, I didn't say they're men or aliens...they're real women except that they usually undergo dozens of plastic surgeries in order to look like perfect dolls, maybe they don't look as "gorgeous" as supermodels (due to lack of height and other model requirements) but they're pretty close , at least based on what I witness in my country (most prostitutes here are from eastern Europe btw, Romanians, Ukrainians, Russians...).

Besides, prostitutes in many countries are usually foreigners and therefore are seen beautiful with exotic features by the local men, I heard countless of men saying that these Eastern European prostitutes are way hotter than the local girls, I heard countless of times saying that the local beauty is way inferior, whether this is true or not, it does make its fair amount of damage when those same men sleep with local women, as they won't see them as attractive as them, and the local women would feel insecure as well.


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18 Jul 2011, 3:47 pm

Your silly photo doesn't prove me wrong, it's just a one photo. :roll: I bet there are even more porn stars who look like them.

Btw, you might like this thread: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt162642.html ;)