Guy doesn't want to 'risk' having a kid with me.
Okay, I hate this thing of "let's make our children healthier".
But I'm afraid to have children, partially because I'm afraid of them having my genes.
Not the autistic ones, if they are, but the ones connected to depression.
My mother wouldn't say that she wouldn't have me because I'm either autistic or depressed, but while I don't being autistic should mean being sad necessarily, I'm afraid of having my son or daughter depressed. And perhaps even if I would want kids, it would be better to have them adopted - and help kids with no parents. I don't think my depressive genes are inferior, but I don't want my children to have them.