Ok I think many people have misinterpreted my situation, thanks for the responses none the less.
simon_says wrote:
When I was very young I would get paralyzed and very quiet if any unwelcome (or welcome) interest was expressed toward me. Later I would ignore it and simply stay on script for whatever i was talking about. Both were pretty rude and eventually led to the girl getting angry with me. At some point I learned to address it by being flattered and claiming to be interested in someone else. Ive never directly told a woman I wasn't interested. I just remove the possibility of success for them if I'm not.
So when the girl would get mad at you, how did you react. Was this very hard for you to handle?
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If he's in the first category it can be hard to tell the difference between interest and disinterest. Assuming that's what you are trying to determine.
Kinda, its a very complicated situation. I think Im gonna go ahead and make a post about this. I just want to know what the hell is driving him crazy. I have some hypothesis. Idk maybe I shouldnt Im thinking too hard about the situation.
Ai_Ling wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
I don't think I would turn down any woman unless she was deformed, obese, over 45, or under 18.
Thats probably not something to really do. If a women did take notice of you and she was way wrong for you and you only went after her cause thats the only attention you could get? It can go bad pretty damn fast.
As bad as being alone all my life?
Yes! Ive been in a few small short relationships that all weren't serious. Trust me, when your with the wrong person, you often want out depending on how desperate you are. A relationship really is not all its cracked up to be when its with the wrong person. Im just saying, you could give the women a try but then if u have a bad feeling about her, dont continue. But its really hard to heed to that advice cause sometimes u just want a gf/bf so badly. But life experiances will teach. My 1st bf was the longest; 7 months and thats only cause we both held too tightly onto the relationship waaay overdue after we should have just ended it. I regret not breaking up with him earlier. Whereas the next couple of guys, were shorter cause I knew it wasnt right so there was no use in prolonging it.
09 Aug 2011, 3:16 pm
