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mv
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19 Aug 2011, 12:29 pm

sagan wrote:
So probably 3+ drink rule for dates.


Aha! New rule! Thanks, sagan!
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After all, couldn't do much worse than I already have... :roll: :wink:



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19 Aug 2011, 12:32 pm

sagan wrote:
mv wrote:
spongy wrote:
sagan wrote:
Never date. ;)

Or if you do, drink a tad before, takes the edge off. Although alcoholic here so maybe I am 90% wrong.

This.
Ive also had my problems with drinking so let me add that if you are thinking about it do it with moderation(easier than it sounds, I know but I have to say it) because from my experience unless she is also drunk she's going to run as fast as she can.


I have a one-drink rule (for me) for dates.


I have a 2+ drink for life rule. Don't date, but I feel it would be less awkward to be awkwardly drunk, than awkwardly sober. So probably 3+ drink rule for dates.

Carefull with that.
Last time I was on a date drunk the girl ended up avoiding me for several months(which was odd since we were at the same class)and then she pretended nothing had happened.

one-drink rule seems to be the best way for me as well, I can let go but I can still make sure I dont make a fool of myself.


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19 Aug 2011, 10:31 pm

I should have mentioned I have a high tolerance for alcohol, really tall and eat more than anyone I know. (Well not really)

So three drinks wont to much to me.
Maybe try two instead. Being embarrassingly drunk would be no good either.


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21 Aug 2011, 11:28 am

Buy a good Book on the subject.



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20 Sep 2011, 12:33 pm

talk about masturbation, thatll get her panties wet