Aspergians in Love...Not a Pretty Picture

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Hello. I am an aspergian.

Everyone who meets me disbelief that I have aspergers if they know what it is and somehow hear that I got it.
Everyone who hears about aspergers or looser "experts" who think they know about it
instantly describe us in as predjudicious and extreme terms as possible.
But they aren't very smart, (aren't you?).

I have have had the joy to meet alot of aspergians , in my experience the normals love to tell us
how we are or not are and becouse they cant be wrong we cant have aspergers if we arent
the idiots they want to make fun of.
them = ( you are sadistic beings when I think about it.).

My sexuality is all the rage, yet I don't spend any time at all dating becouse of different reasons
and it makes the poor normals confused.
They like quick explainations of my beheavours that are always silly and extreme.
If they find out I am as sexual as anyone I must be a pervert THATS WHY I AM SO RESERVED AND SCARY.
.. or I must be asexual and prude and totally unaware of anything outside my special interests ( that are quit broad thank you)..

Rejected women or scared women often create thise fantasies, either I don't have time for them or
I am not comfortable with strangers.
Most often I reject women becouse I am simply not in the right mood and most attractive women
expect a healthy male to suddenly adjust.
I am not that flexible, in fact I never had a woman at all.
It just to complicated, and I rather prefere to be just nice and polite.

I would just like to point out something.

The results of accidental car crash: serious damage to vehicles costing a great deal of money, serious injuries/death.
The results of accidental harrassment: scared 'victim', unnerved 'harrasser' (especially in the case of an aspie).
The results of intentional car crash: serious damage to vehicles costing a great deal of money, serious injuries/death.
The results of intentional harrassment: freaked out/traumatised victim, amused/uncaring harrasser (assuming here an intentional harrasser would go considerably further than an accidental one).

The results of a car crash a far more serious than that of harrassment, though if it is intentional that may be somewhat arguable (don't know why anyone would want to intentionally crash a car though).

I've heard of suicidal people doing that.