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31 Aug 2011, 11:03 am

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lol wut.


feminazi alert level 5.


waitaminute... a woman wrote that

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31 Aug 2011, 11:06 am

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lol wut.


^^

If asking women out is a "man's job", then what is a woman's "job" whilst dating?



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31 Aug 2011, 11:08 am

AsteroidNap wrote:
emlion wrote:
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lol wut.


^^

If asking women out is a "man's job", then what is a woman's "job" whilst dating?


make the dinner and do the laundry, naturally.



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31 Aug 2011, 11:09 am

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You're right.


Now get out of my face :P.



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31 Aug 2011, 11:17 am

Kind reminder that the rule about sexism applies to females&males and that the way to act when a post like this appears is to approach a mod about it(otherwise things might get serious and some sort of measures may need to be taken).

As for this thread
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWjNFC-FinU[/youtube]

The only thing I can add is that Ive read several blogs about females on a similar situation and the way they improved their situation was by taking the initiative and asking guys out(most of the times it was online so its not like you have to walk up to a guy and asking them on a date they were just the ones that messaged them first).

You arent living on the 18th century and most males expect women to do a bit of approaching, otherwise they assume that you arent interested.


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31 Aug 2011, 9:26 pm

Molecular_Biologist wrote:
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being different is our cross to bare with all the negative aspects of it but we don't have to bare that cross alone. I wish aspie-affection was more affective.


I wonder if that site is doing more harm than good.

It is thoroughly broken, and people see what a sorry state that it is in and think perhaps wrongly that there is no demand for a matchmaking service for such individuals. There is potential with that idea, but it can never be realized with such a horribly bad implementation.


yea... is it linked on WP because of its Asperger focus, or is it a site that is run by WP? It is just terrible as it is!

I, and I imagine, a whole lot of people who frequent the Love & Dating section, could help it with suggestions if it is a WP site...


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02 Sep 2011, 6:00 pm

For the women - wear a brightly coloured, flattering dress. It doesn't have to be revealing - just flattering to your body shape. And have long hair that isn't tied back. You get A LOT more looks and guys talking to you. You have to dress that way all the time for you to realise it's true. Then you'll realise that you actually don't want the attention.