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20 Sep 2011, 9:02 pm
i wanted to post again right after you to make a sandwich. 
so now i need to make another post... hmmmm.... anime, dating, something.... oh my daughter used to cosplay and lots of her male friends had girlfriends. and they were into anime. but that is entirely anecdotal.
20 Sep 2011, 9:05 pm
Gifted-Monster wrote:
It's a common misconception.
Anime presents an ideal in terms of personality and body time. Tsundere's are typically slim whilst the "moe" characters are curvy as all hell. So when we try to apply that to real life, we find that the really cute girls are slim whilst the tsundere's are curvy.
Fortunately, we have conventions to go hunti...I mean browsi...I mean...f**k. >.<
Try and find conventions and go to 'em. If you can find a girl that loves anime, games or sci-fi books or even tentacle porn as much as you do, she's the one.
Anime presents an ideal in terms of personality and body time. Tsundere's are typically slim whilst the "moe" characters are curvy as all hell. So when we try to apply that to real life, we find that the really cute girls are slim whilst the tsundere's are curvy.
Fortunately, we have conventions to go hunti...I mean browsi...I mean...f**k. >.<
Try and find conventions and go to 'em. If you can find a girl that loves anime, games or sci-fi books or even tentacle porn as much as you do, she's the one.
Anyone who likes or is turned on by tentacle porn has got issues. At least that's my opinion.
20 Sep 2011, 9:35 pm
hahaha, I just like meeting new people now I don't care about dating. 
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20 Sep 2011, 10:35 pm
CaptainTrips222 wrote:
Chummy wrote:
The correlation is that there is no correlation. You think people who love anime has no GF/BF?? wrong. From personal experience. Besides the whole goddam world loves anime. And geeks can get girls. Heck if they can get some in "The Beauty and the Geek", why can't other geeks in real life get some too? 
Depends on the geek. If they look normal, have normal social skills, and have a normal social life, yeah, why not. If they act like big kids, spend 14 hours a day on the PC, and wear Voltron shirts, most women wouldn't go near them. Which leads me to this next point I'd like to make!
There was one HUGE exception I saw, and I swear to god this is true. There was this pod of computers at college some years back, and a group of gamers sat there all day, every day, all semester, playing some MMO. Among them, there was a guy/girl couple. The dude looked like a real life, mentally stunted version of 2-D from Gorillaz. It seemed like he had almost no personality, and when he talked, he sounded... well I could impersonate him, but not describe him. He sounded half dead, there you go. His girlfriend, in my opinion, was just so cute I couldn't believe it. I'm not the only one who thought so. She was half way between average and plus size, very healthy looking, long gold brown hair in pony tail, and had these huge blue-green eyes. She was a gamer herself, always laughing and joking (but not "holler" laughing) and was really sweet and personable. She wasn't stereotypically beautiful, but she was still very attractive, and like I said, a decent person. That's normally not the kind of thing I see though. I don't know what she saw in him, but he was lucky to have her, IMO.
Granted but you don't have enough info about this couple to assume anything. You can't know whether he's just sick or has a condition like aspies have. And if you want girls to date you even that you have AS, maybe it's the same for him. And besides you met him just for a sec. Perhaps he's a really sweet guy and if he makes his girl happy, why would they not be together?
20 Sep 2011, 10:48 pm
Chummy wrote:
CaptainTrips222 wrote:
Chummy wrote:
The correlation is that there is no correlation. You think people who love anime has no GF/BF?? wrong. From personal experience. Besides the whole goddam world loves anime. And geeks can get girls. Heck if they can get some in "The Beauty and the Geek", why can't other geeks in real life get some too?
Depends on the geek. If they look normal, have normal social skills, and have a normal social life, yeah, why not. If they act like big kids, spend 14 hours a day on the PC, and wear Voltron shirts, most women wouldn't go near them. Which leads me to this next point I'd like to make!
There was one HUGE exception I saw, and I swear to god this is true. There was this pod of computers at college some years back, and a group of gamers sat there all day, every day, all semester, playing some MMO. Among them, there was a guy/girl couple. The dude looked like a real life, mentally stunted version of 2-D from Gorillaz. It seemed like he had almost no personality, and when he talked, he sounded... well I could impersonate him, but not describe him. He sounded half dead, there you go. His girlfriend, in my opinion, was just so cute I couldn't believe it. I'm not the only one who thought so. She was half way between average and plus size, very healthy looking, long gold brown hair in pony tail, and had these huge blue-green eyes. She was a gamer herself, always laughing and joking (but not "holler" laughing) and was really sweet and personable. She wasn't stereotypically beautiful, but she was still very attractive, and like I said, a decent person. That's normally not the kind of thing I see though. I don't know what she saw in him, but he was lucky to have her, IMO.
Granted but you don't have enough info about this couple to assume anything. You can't know whether he's just sick or has a condition like aspies have. And if you want girls to date you even that you have AS, maybe it's the same for him. And besides you met him just for a sec. Perhaps he's a really sweet guy and if he makes his girl happy, why would they not be together?
I never said I only met him for a sec. I knew him for a semester. I went to his apartment across the street a few times. I didn't know either of them that WELL, but from the outside looking in, it just seemed unusual.
Who the f*** are we kidding, women usually don't go for men like that, especially ones considered attractive!
20 Sep 2011, 10:55 pm
CaptainTrips222 wrote:
Chummy wrote:
CaptainTrips222 wrote:
Chummy wrote:
The correlation is that there is no correlation. You think people who love anime has no GF/BF?? wrong. From personal experience. Besides the whole goddam world loves anime. And geeks can get girls. Heck if they can get some in "The Beauty and the Geek", why can't other geeks in real life get some too?
Depends on the geek. If they look normal, have normal social skills, and have a normal social life, yeah, why not. If they act like big kids, spend 14 hours a day on the PC, and wear Voltron shirts, most women wouldn't go near them. Which leads me to this next point I'd like to make!
There was one HUGE exception I saw, and I swear to god this is true. There was this pod of computers at college some years back, and a group of gamers sat there all day, every day, all semester, playing some MMO. Among them, there was a guy/girl couple. The dude looked like a real life, mentally stunted version of 2-D from Gorillaz. It seemed like he had almost no personality, and when he talked, he sounded... well I could impersonate him, but not describe him. He sounded half dead, there you go. His girlfriend, in my opinion, was just so cute I couldn't believe it. I'm not the only one who thought so. She was half way between average and plus size, very healthy looking, long gold brown hair in pony tail, and had these huge blue-green eyes. She was a gamer herself, always laughing and joking (but not "holler" laughing) and was really sweet and personable. She wasn't stereotypically beautiful, but she was still very attractive, and like I said, a decent person. That's normally not the kind of thing I see though. I don't know what she saw in him, but he was lucky to have her, IMO.
Granted but you don't have enough info about this couple to assume anything. You can't know whether he's just sick or has a condition like aspies have. And if you want girls to date you even that you have AS, maybe it's the same for him. And besides you met him just for a sec. Perhaps he's a really sweet guy and if he makes his girl happy, why would they not be together?
I never said I only met him for a sec. I knew him for a semester. I went to his apartment across the street a few times. I didn't know either of them that WELL, but from the outside looking in, it just seemed unusual.
Who the f*** are we kidding, women usually don't go for men like that, especially ones considered attractive!
You still seem to not know him very well. Did he open up to you? shared secrets with you? yup, we aspies also seem a bit "weird" and quirky and in some cases you can see something is wrong with them when you get to know them but you don't know what. You still don't have enough info again maybe he makes his girl happy. Maybe he's very caring towards her and take her places she likes. You know love exists anywhere, no-one is unworthy of love! so don't underestimate someone based on outside looking because true beauty comes from the inside, not the outside.
Women might surprise you. Have you been in a relationship once? because know that. If you love someone, it's as if you see him without his flaws. He becomes the most beautiful person to you even if he's average looking. You dream about him/her and want to be with each other because something bonds you together. This is true love and sure I too can't tell to much by the description of this couple you gave me bbut don't interrupt lovers in love
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