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Bopkasen
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27 Sep 2011, 12:55 am

AsteroidNap wrote:
Bopkasen wrote:
AsteroidNap wrote:
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That is the reason i am here and looking some one to help me...


It still naive to think that she stop loving other guy and instantly marrying you.

However, there is a ancient secret love potion that I can make.


Amortentia?


LOL! I googled it. You made a reference to the Harry Potter book.


Yeah, ;) Some people say I'm a wealth of useless information, haha.


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27 Sep 2011, 1:00 am

Thom_Fuleri wrote:
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Your options are:

1. Do nothing. Write bad poetry about unrequited love -- that's an add-on and not required.
2. Grow up. (Recommended.)
3. Kidnap her and throw her in a pit. Make sure "it puts the lotion on". (Not legal. Not advised.)
4. Good-bye cruel world. (Not advised, but as a libertarian I'd never tell you outright to not do it.)

Anything else is just being histrionic.

Take a look at the list. Growing up is the only viable option.


QFT.

I'd put it to you that you do not love this girl. You never have. Love is based on shared experience and mutual understanding, and you have neither - this is an obsessive desire for something you can't have. Do you actually want this girl at all, or are you using your "love" as an excuse not to look for something real?


There is a person that I am confirming whether she committing her love to that person or not. For all I know, she could be just a friend. If she stop her attention and focus on me, it is done. She likes me more.

However, reading the guy's forum comment might be troubling as if she is "the only girl on the planet". This could means a possible high profile risk that may involve with kidnapping and raping unless the person is emotionally exaggerated like most people on the internet do.



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27 Sep 2011, 1:22 am

OP is unknown age, and imo Harry Potter isn't going to help

If you really care for her your going to have to step back. She may or may not realise why she likes him, she might change her mind, but she does and you must respect her wish's ! !!. Friend or lover....either if you really care let go.


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If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was
Never meant to be.I saw this one and I asked myself,
If I were to let u go, would you come back?
If I were to let you be free, not keep you restrained to only me,
Would you still want us to be?
If I were to let you go, would you come bac?
If I were to tell you your single, so that you could be happy,
Would you be happy, now that your free?
Or would you come back to me,
Know that I am yours and you are mine
Because our love is to sweet and oh so divine.
Would you actually leave me behind
And put me in the back of your mind?
Was our love not so true
That I was not worth it to you?
I hope we mean something to you
And let our love be meant to be
Because I no thats how it is for me.


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27 Sep 2011, 4:02 am

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I'm the same way. Telling me to "get over it" is useless. I can't, except in my own time, which can be YEARS! And I have TRIED! I am *still* wishing for a delete button for my memory!

This reminds me of the line in Gilbert and Sullivan's operetta The Mikado, where Katisha, an extremely physically unattractive woman, is proposed to out of the blue and she says, disbelievingly, "It takes YEARS to train a man to love me!! !" :lol: :lol: