What am I doing wrong?

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I have no idea

Tim

Maybe it's because that women who are very attractive both physically (and emotionally) will excite me more both emotionally and sexually, and I need that kind of excitement in a relationship. And if she and I also have at least one common interest, that's even more excitement.

Someone who is too conservative, or feels that she has to repress her thoughts, doesn't turn me on.

I don't want just a girlfriend, I want a soulmate. Someone who will turn me on emotionally, mentally, and sexually.

Tim

Listen to some degree what the women on here tell you, but take it with a grain of salt. I know, as a **male** with AS, what your going through. The women don't, because they've always been the chasee rather than the chaser. Meaning they've never really had to starve for it. Note I'm not trying to attack women by saying this, I'm merely stating fact. Women are spoiled, a woman will never go longer than she needs to without sex, because a woman can always find Mr. Right Now, if not Mr. Right, within a given day if she sets her mind do it. AS or NT don't make a different on a woman's ability to attract men, she really only has to look pretty, and even then even if she don't she can find SOMEONE who will do her. Now women will say "yeah but I'm looking for more than sex", well atleast sex is SOMETHING. Note, I'm not attacking women I'm just stating fact.
For some it isn't possible to "live a complete life" without ever getting any and without knowing if you ever will or not. Sex is a biological need, not a want. This is simple evolutionary design, for all life, not just humans. We aspie MALES live a very unnatural lifestyle. And, this is why 1 in 3 aspie males end up taking our lives. The statistics speak volumes.
My advice, hang in there. Private message me dude, I'll let you in on my secret method that is working for me, and has worked for me before. But you'll have to face alot of rejection on the way. You'll kiss a thousand toads over the coarse of the next two or three years before one of them turns into a princess, if you follow my secret method. But you'll also hafta be willing to make some sacrifices, which might mean leaving your state (if your in america) and starting over new somewhere else. I've never really had a problem with this because I am always distant from most of the people in my family because they clearly don't get me and don't want to get me. But yeah, private message me and I can help you.

Wish I had something of value to contribute, but I got empty pockets. Maybe I can provide a negative example.

According to the story, somebody told edison he was wasting his time trying to come up with a filament that would glow, but not melt or burn up. Edison replied, "I'm not wasting my time, I've found a thousand things that don't work."

I'm not edison, and I never found anything that glows without melting or burning up. I've lived in a lot of places, more than I could recall without a map and a calendar. For me, they were all the same except for the scenery.

Hope you do better than me. With that I'll shut up.