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05 Oct 2011, 10:22 am

though there are some good tips here, the actual catagory most of this stuff falls under is "what to avoid if you never want to get laid again" :D


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05 Oct 2011, 1:32 pm

Is obsessed with money



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05 Oct 2011, 1:33 pm

hurts you on purpose.



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05 Oct 2011, 2:48 pm

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From my experience... deep seeded emotional issues... its something you find out in time... not exactly a big red flag that you can be aware of... but yes... relationship should be taken no further when you discover the girl has emotional "issues"... they become your issues... where they really should be the issue of a proffesional to treat...

also... (have a feeling someone will take this the wrong way for some reason)


Well I see why that could be an issue for some people...but are you suggesting females with emotional 'issues' should not have relationships.



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05 Oct 2011, 2:53 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Dingo7 wrote:
From my experience... deep seeded emotional issues... its something you find out in time... not exactly a big red flag that you can be aware of... but yes... relationship should be taken no further when you discover the girl has emotional "issues"... they become your issues... where they really should be the issue of a proffesional to treat... also... (have a feeling someone will take this the wrong way for some reason)
Well I see why that could be an issue for some people...but are you suggesting females with emotional 'issues' should not have relationships.

It might be more accurate to suggest that if a woman has emotional issues, men would be better off to avoid her.


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05 Oct 2011, 3:42 pm

We all have emotional issues.

My List:

1 Doesnt 'believe' astrology or the ancient sciences, shows a poor intellect that has been screwed over by the man
2 Eats factory farmed meat with glee
3 Always wants to eat at MacDonalds
4 Loves social networking far too much
5 Watches mainstream television shows
6 Doesn't swim or like the beach
7 Loves cats
8 Says in a dating profile 'likes pubbing and clubbing'



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05 Oct 2011, 3:55 pm

Fnord wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Dingo7 wrote:
From my experience... deep seeded emotional issues... its something you find out in time... not exactly a big red flag that you can be aware of... but yes... relationship should be taken no further when you discover the girl has emotional "issues"... they become your issues... where they really should be the issue of a proffesional to treat... also... (have a feeling someone will take this the wrong way for some reason)
Well I see why that could be an issue for some people...but are you suggesting females with emotional 'issues' should not have relationships.

It might be more accurate to suggest that if a woman has emotional issues, men would be better off to avoid her.


I think it would be more accurate to say if a woman has emotional issues, some men would be better off to avoid her...and in reverse if a man has emotional issues some women would be better off avoiding him.

There is no one size fits all with these sorts of things.



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05 Oct 2011, 4:11 pm

Red flags on a woman.

May attract bulls.


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05 Oct 2011, 4:42 pm

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Red flags on a woman.

May attract bulls.

MOOG! i was finally on the same page as you, with this bit of literal thinking. when i read the title i honestly wondered why a person would walk around wearing red flags lol.


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05 Oct 2011, 5:11 pm

They might be communists?


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05 Oct 2011, 5:18 pm

Hammers and sickles on a woman.


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05 Oct 2011, 5:26 pm

More Red-Flag Woman Signs*:

You may be in the presence of a Red-Flag woman if she:

81. Wants a man that will resolve all of her issues for her.
82. Wants a man that will take all of her abuse without a whimper.
83. Tries to psychoanalyze everyone, including herself, even though she has no formal training in mental health issues.
84. Will never admit she is mistaken, or that she even could be mistaken on any given subject.
85. Can not understand why anyone would believe anything other than what she believes.
86. Would rather be believed that actually tell the truth.
87. Declares or implies that all men have the same foul and undesirable qualities.
88. Has a meltdown whenever someone suggests ways that she could improve herself.
89. Refuses to accept an apology without a lot of bargaining, begging, or self-humiliation from the person making the apology.
90. Becomes angry with you for something that you could do to injure or offend her sometime in the future, but that you have never actually considered doing.
91. Will not answer "Yes", "No", or "I don't know" to a direct question.
92. Answers a direct question with a lengthy, convoluted speech that does not address the question itself.
93. Raises her standards whenever someone manages to meet or exceed her current standards.
94. Assumes that any accident that results in injury or embarrassment to her was actually intentional.
95. Insists that you stop seeing your friends or your family (or both).
96. Implies that your family members or your best friends (or both) are immoral, unethical, or that they are all conspiring against her.
97. Dismisses the favors you do for her by calling into question your motives for doing them.
98. Repeatedly claims that you said something when you did not say it, or that you did not say something when you did.
99. Treats everything you say as assumptions and lies, yet will accept the word of a perfect stranger as truth.
100. Blames you for all of the injury and pain that she causes you.

(*These would actually be numbered 101 through 120 on my original list, where it not for the fact that the original 81 through 100 would likely be considered "sexist" by some.)


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05 Oct 2011, 5:39 pm

Moog wrote:
Hammers and sickles on a woman.
o lordy that gave me some violent images. literal aspie hyperlexian needs a nap lol


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05 Oct 2011, 5:52 pm

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1 Doesnt 'believe' astrology or the ancient sciences, shows a poor intellect that has been screwed over by the man


So you are wanting somebody who accepts astrology.

Having a belief system that is not evidence based (with willingness to continue observing/learning) would be a red flag for me.



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05 Oct 2011, 5:54 pm

You know, reading these lists, makes me less willing the persue any relationship, so......... thanks.



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05 Oct 2011, 6:03 pm

people are just listing things they don't want :?