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27 Oct 2011, 8:33 am

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Planet Earth; I heard they have plenty of girls.

Thats just a lie Alphas told you to keep you here while they have relationships on other planets :).


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27 Oct 2011, 8:48 am

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Whoa there - those 'physical' things are NOT dirty!

Having a full sexual relationship with someone you love is one of the most wonderful things in the world.


I know that they are not really dirty, I just don't feel very comfortable with them and I'm a little bit disgusted by genitals.
To me the female body is the most beautiful appearance in this world, only some aspects are not....

But maybe someday when I'm grown used to a person I really love... then I would be able to go further.


Well, genitals, on both sexes, are not the prettiest things in the world! It's just something you have to cope with.

I remember when I lost my virginity I could barely even bear to look at his willy, let alone - touch it!! Ugh!!

You get used to it, and after a while, you actually start to enjoy it! :D And you'll probably forget what lady-gardens look like, when you realize how they can make you feel ;)


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27 Oct 2011, 8:57 am

Rubydoobs wrote:
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Whoa there - those 'physical' things are NOT dirty!

Having a full sexual relationship with someone you love is one of the most wonderful things in the world.


I know that they are not really dirty, I just don't feel very comfortable with them and I'm a little bit disgusted by genitals.
To me the female body is the most beautiful appearance in this world, only some aspects are not....

But maybe someday when I'm grown used to a person I really love... then I would be able to go further.


Well, genitals, on both sexes, are not the prettiest things in the world! It's just something you have to cope with.

I remember when I lost my virginity I could barely even bear to look at his willy, let alone - touch it!! Ugh!!

You get used to it, and after a while, you actually start to enjoy it! :D And you'll probably forget what lady-gardens look like, when you realize how they can make you feel ;)


I hope so. I'm of course still not convinced to accept a person being that close to me in this weakest situation of all but I accept that I'm able to get used to it. I mean my subconscious is not convinced. anyway, first of all I'd have to fall in love^^


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27 Oct 2011, 12:00 pm

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Church maybe? Perhaps a support group?

I'm not even in a position to practice talking to the ladies..I try not to dwell on it


Churches aren't meat markets, the focus shouldn't be on pulling women but they can be a good place to develop friendships and socialize.

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I don't think work or college have been mentioned.


Work and college are something you have to be sure because if it goes wrong, it may not look professional and you'll have to face that person every single day day. At least with a random girl, he will never have to see her if it doesn't work out. I would only suggest dating someone from work both share a mutual respect and understanding of feelings.



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27 Oct 2011, 12:08 pm

Does it really matter? I never met any girl anywhere.



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27 Oct 2011, 12:11 pm

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Churches aren't meat markets, the focus shouldn't be on pulling women but they can be a good place to develop friendships and socialize.



lol@"meat market"



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27 Oct 2011, 7:19 pm

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Churches aren't meat markets, the focus shouldn't be on pulling women but they can be a good place to develop friendships and socialize.


I'd imagine churches to be a decent place to start if you like grannies but are otherwise a bit useless for everyone else?



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27 Oct 2011, 8:00 pm

Tequila wrote:
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Churches aren't meat markets, the focus shouldn't be on pulling women but they can be a good place to develop friendships and socialize.


I'd imagine churches to be a decent place to start if you like grannies but are otherwise a bit useless for everyone else?


No, modern American churches with a youth pastor that rides a motorcycle and plays electric guitar and is always excited all the time tend to have lots of high school and college age girls. This type of church is generally lumped under the "emergent church" label. Or "Charismatic" or "nondenominational."

The most old people-esque churches I think are Orthodox, Catholic, and Lutherans. Unfortunately, the problem with many nondenominational churches in my opinion is they tend to degenerate into social clubs, at least that was my opinion on what happened at my old church. It was very socially focused and seemed deadset on having all it's members do stuff with each other and turning people into social extroverts. Yeah...



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27 Oct 2011, 10:09 pm

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No, modern American churches with a youth pastor that rides a motorcycle and plays electric guitar and is always excited all the time tend to have lots of high school and college age girls.


I see. Much of the UK (with the possible exception of parts of Scotland and Northern Ireland) is determinedly secular and church-going has been rapidly falling for decades now, making it a minority sport. Many churches are closing through lack of attendance and not being able to pay the bills.



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27 Oct 2011, 10:45 pm

Yeah, a similar trend of what you're describing is happening in USA, secularization, etc, but what I described is counteracting it. How much, we'll have to see.

So yeah, in America, Christianity for "the youth" is looking like this:
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and then there's the boring old people churches like this:
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28 Oct 2011, 12:23 am

I dunno....now that they are allowing "female" altar servers.....

You know what, I prolly shouldn't be having those thoughts in church.



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28 Oct 2011, 12:32 am

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I dunno....now that they are allowing "female" altar servers.....

You know what, I prolly shouldn't be having those thoughts in church.


Like VHS and the internet, the religions of the world will inevitably turn to porn as their tool of conversion :P


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28 Oct 2011, 6:07 am

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Like VHS and the internet, the religions of the world will inevitably turn to porn as their tool of conversion :P


Nun porn FTW!



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28 Oct 2011, 6:15 am

Tequila wrote:
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Like VHS and the internet, the religions of the world will inevitably turn to porn as their tool of conversion :P


Nun porn FTW!

Dont start giving them ideas, otherwise we are doomed.


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28 Oct 2011, 6:40 am

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Dont start giving them ideas, otherwise we are doomed.


Well, the Catholic Church themselves getting involved in its production would make me smile. However it would most likely lead to the destruction of that church. Which is no bad thing.



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28 Oct 2011, 10:15 am

Tequila wrote:
spongy wrote:
Dont start giving them ideas, otherwise we are doomed.


Well, the Catholic Church themselves getting involved in its production would make me smile. However it would most likely lead to the destruction of that church. Which is no bad thing.


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What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun.
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They already did that. In the middle ages, there were literal brothels operated by monks and nuns. This was during the time of the plague, so the old clergy just died off, and needed to be replaced, so basically anyone could become clergy.

This here, it's somewhat hard to prove or disprove, as the church will argue they didn't sanction and the brothels were only like, paying rent to the church or whatever.

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The necessary evil concept and the Magdalene model had paved the way for an intimate association between Church and whore that would have been inconceivable in either ancient Israel or in St Augustine's time. In the high Middle Ages some extraordinary examples of this association existed. The Bishop of Winchester rented rooms to prostitutes in Southwark under an ordinance of the English King Henry 11 which lasted 400 years (Burford 1976, pp. 41-2). In 1337 the nuns of Stratford opened a brothel for business to support their convent (Burford 1976, p. 75). In 1347 Queen Joana of Naples opened a brothel in Avignon next door to the Pope's residence, and gave the control of it to the nunnery on the other side (Scott 1968, p.68). In Toulouse a brothel known as "the Grand Abbaye" served as a source of revenue for the university for 200 years (Cleugh 1970, p. 138). Early in the 16th century Pope Julius 11 was so inspired by the success of the Avignon brothel that he established one in Rome (Tannahill 1981, p. 264).


Also, during the time of the plagues, men who kept their sexual desires to adult women were considered living saints. Yep...