sociable_hermit wrote:
snake321 wrote:
No, your putting words in my mouth. I'm not a control freak because I want access to a basic need.
I was talking to Litiguous, but never mind.
Sex is NOT a basic NEED. You do not NEED to have sex. Even if it WAS physically essential, you could always relieve the strain by having a w*k.
More importantly,
WOMEN WERE NOT CREATED SOLELY TO PLEASE YOU. Ever considered that?
Even if we were all still walking around naked, I can guarantee that unless you were an Alpha male there would still be attractive women telling you to f*** off. That's natural selection for you. Deal with it.
It is not physically essential to have sex, yes you can live your life without it, but there are emotional and social and fundamental(!) reasons why there is often a very strong need to have it in your life. I think the word 'initimacy' strikes the chord I'm trying to go for rather than just sex or adding another mark on the bedpost -- the process of becoming so closs to someone, and also having sex, is I would say particularly important to have in your life, at least once.
snake321 wrote:
And yes, women dress like that explicitly to provoke men. Not just me, any man.
This is somewhat true - some women like to appear their best to appeal to men. As do some men indeed. But unless it's 11pm on a friday night on the dance floor, they do not dress with the sole intention of turning on men to get laid, it's to appear good.
I mean, you can't blame a guy for trying - but if one get's rejected then they aren't looking for your type I guess.