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15 Nov 2011, 2:39 pm

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What is connection based upon. I am male and she is female.

if gender was the only criteria for people to connect, they could simply marry the first person they meet of the opposite sex once they were of age. it would not be necessary to get to know them in any way.

(connection is based on too many factors to list, plus some that are too intangible to name)



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15 Nov 2011, 2:50 pm

I would have to see the front of her.



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15 Nov 2011, 3:25 pm

Lol, the sketch raises too many questions.

If she had a guy would her 'war room' be less of a mess or least be dirty-dish free?
Is she on there because its all she has available to do ATM, perhaps to save money, or because its all she wants to do?
Can she manage her life outside of that room?
Can she have an intelligent conversation?
Can she hold at least equal with me in more areas than not?
Would we be able to stand each other's politics?
Would we be able to stand each other's tastes outside of perhaps not minding the occasional RPG?


Not to be a prude or a stiff here but these questions really inspire me more than anything and, when I'm dealing with the NT world its the same thing - the line between prospects vs. meaningless eye candy has a lot to do with the last five questions.


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15 Nov 2011, 3:26 pm

what.



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15 Nov 2011, 3:28 pm

Of course we forgot one possibility - that she turns around and has an Aphex Twin face. :lol:


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15 Nov 2011, 3:29 pm

I sit like that. Usually not topless except on a few occasions when I lived in the Southwestern US and it was very hot. My boobs aren't that big.

What's the issue? Why wouldn't someone date her? I'm confused as to the point of this picture.


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15 Nov 2011, 3:35 pm

techstepgenr8tion raises an interesting observation here - I don't know if it's just me, but when I'm interested in someone my immediate reaction is wondering "what sort of person is she?" I actually find the prospect of getting-to-know-someone really quite appealing, even though the actual act of interacting with them makes me anxious at first.

As myth said "why wouldn't someone date her?" I see nothing in that pic that would really put me off...she just seems interesting, and the paraphenalia surrounding her got my imagination working (and not in a pervy way either, I hasten to add!).



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15 Nov 2011, 3:37 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Lol, the sketch raises too many questions.

If she had a guy would her 'war room' be less of a mess or least be dirty-dish free?
Is she on there because its all she has available to do ATM, perhaps to save money, or because its all she wants to do?
Can she manage her life outside of that room?
Can she have an intelligent conversation?
Can she hold at least equal with me in more areas than not?
Would we be able to stand each other's politics?
Would we be able to stand each other's tastes outside of perhaps not minding the occasional RPG?


Not to be a prude or a stiff here but these questions really inspire me more than anything and, when I'm dealing with the NT world its the same thing - the line between prospects vs. meaningless eye candy has a lot to do with the last five questions.


Enough bla bla

Would you date her? yes or no?

The question was 'would you date her?" not "would you marry her?".

If you need to know the answers, you should certainly date her.



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15 Nov 2011, 3:39 pm

Only question I have is, does she share an interest in what my new avatar represents? :P



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15 Nov 2011, 3:41 pm

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:lmao:

That's definitely me on a Friday night... Minus the mess, and I wear thongs.

I hear ya, RPGs can get intense: having good breathable theads is paramount. Those fish-net office chairs are always a good buy as well to help avoid that swampy feeling after a hard days work.


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15 Nov 2011, 3:41 pm

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Only question I have is, does she share an interest in what my new avatar represents? :P


She wouldn't, unless she's into ancient Britain's history.



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15 Nov 2011, 3:43 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Enough bla bla

Would you date her? yes or no?

The question was 'would you date her?" not "would you marry her?".

If you need to know the answers, you should certainly date her.

Lol, no, I'm really this bad. :lol: :roll:

If it were a yes or no on the face of it then no. If I had to guess her whole character and personality from that standpoint I doubt we'd be able to stand each other. Lazy couch-potatoe types annoy me and it seems like the feeling is usually quite mutual.


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15 Nov 2011, 3:44 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
Only question I have is, does she share an interest in what my new avatar represents? :P


She wouldn't, unless she's into ancient Britain's history.


You're getting it confused with the wrong Triskele :P



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15 Nov 2011, 3:45 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Enough bla bla

Would you date her? yes or no?

The question was 'would you date her?" not "would you marry her?".

If you need to know the answers, you should certainly date her.

Lol, no, I'm really this bad. :lol: :roll:

If it were a yes or no on the face of it then no. If I had to guess her whole character and personality from that standpoint I doubt we'd be able to stand each other.


Good, Asp-Z doesn't stand a chance in the competition with me.



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15 Nov 2011, 3:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Enough bla bla

Would you date her? yes or no?

The question was 'would you date her?" not "would you marry her?".

If you need to know the answers, you should certainly date her.

Lol, no, I'm really this bad. :lol: :roll:

If it were a yes or no on the face of it then no. If I had to guess her whole character and personality from that standpoint I doubt we'd be able to stand each other.


Good, Asp-Z doesn't stand a chance in the competition with me.


You keep thinking that ;)



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15 Nov 2011, 3:47 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Enough bla bla

Would you date her? yes or no?

The question was 'would you date her?" not "would you marry her?".

If you need to know the answers, you should certainly date her.

Lol, no, I'm really this bad. :lol: :roll:

If it were a yes or no on the face of it then no. If I had to guess her whole character and personality from that standpoint I doubt we'd be able to stand each other.


Good, Asp-Z doesn't stand a chance in the competition with me.

Especially if there's a pine tree flag somewhere in that picture. Like they say in real estate: location, location, location!


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