MXH wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
-Weeks ago, i am being obviously approached by a barely-17 years (just had a bday a few weeks ago) old girl :-/ - I made the mistake before by assuming she's around 19-20 but she turned out to be still in school.
Today she entangled my arm after her 25-yo sister asked me to escort her to the her because she wanted to bring a stuff she forgot there.
O_O Weird how her older sister is setting things up and pushing me to talk with her! I mean, hello? you have me on my FB, you know my age, you know your little sister age, I mean...hello? I am THIRTY damn it! She's just newly 17, Duh!! !
-Yesterday i was asked out for a little drink nearby by a barely-18 years old girl but she's 3 times my size. Her = 2 x Face of Boo in weight + 1.5 Face of Boo in height. O_o. Oh well...I really look tiny besides her!
- Today i was asked by a coworker for a walk ...... it never happened before during the three years she was there -__-.
sounds like all this being a jerk is paying off
though shoulda started 10 years ago
Yea, I started late, very late, maybe too late for anything now. :-/
But yes, being little assertive (and ass) does really pay off somehow.
For instance, there's the single mom woman that i was supposed to had a lunch (during the lunch break!) with on Thursday, I kept waiting and she she didn't show up, i contacted her and said she forgot about it!! ! and this wasn't the first time she doesn't come for a set up lunch...
So in return, I stopped calling/contacting for the rest of day, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and the whole Monday day, and on the Monday-Tuesday midnight she sent me a text saying "where are you? I miss you a lot. Why you're not contacting me?", I replied "I got busy", and later in the convo she was like 'got busy with some girl perhaps?" , "no, not this time, why asking?" .....and now we're talking again.
With little cold treatment, when necessary, you make them chase you instead of chasing them.