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RICKY5
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15 Apr 2012, 10:42 am

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Do you find yourself to be approached or getting the attention by girls that are like waaay too damn young to have a relationship with?

Like when you are 24 for example and you get approached by 12 f***ing year olds? :help:

Is this because most of us look "young" or what? :?


It is all about status differential and how you appear. Are you in a position of authority or do you dress the part of someone who is successful?



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15 Apr 2012, 11:22 am

I'm reminded of this old italodisco song right now...
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gZRAeuOWtXk[/youtube]



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15 Apr 2012, 11:40 am

Oooh do like a bit of Italo.



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15 Apr 2012, 10:05 pm

I don't get approached by women partly because I don't really put myself in a position to be approached. Do women really randomly approach men say at the grocery store or the mall?,It has never happened to me .



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17 Apr 2012, 5:25 pm

-Weeks ago, i am being obviously approached by a barely-17 years (just had a bday a few weeks ago) old girl :-/ - I made the mistake before by assuming she's around 19-20 but she turned out to be still in school.

Today she entangled my arm after her 25-yo sister asked me to escort her to the her because she wanted to bring a stuff she forgot there.

O_O Weird how her older sister is setting things up and pushing me to talk with her! I mean, hello? you have me on my FB, you know my age, you know your little sister age, I mean...hello? I am THIRTY damn it! She's just newly 17, Duh!! !

-Yesterday i was asked out for a little drink nearby by a barely-18 years old girl but she's 3 times my size. Her = 2 x Face of Boo in weight + 1.5 Face of Boo in height. O_o. Oh well...I really look tiny besides her!

- Today i was asked by a coworker for a walk ...... it never happened before during the three years she was there -__-.



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17 Apr 2012, 7:19 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
-Weeks ago, i am being obviously approached by a barely-17 years (just had a bday a few weeks ago) old girl :-/ - I made the mistake before by assuming she's around 19-20 but she turned out to be still in school.

Today she entangled my arm after her 25-yo sister asked me to escort her to the her because she wanted to bring a stuff she forgot there.

O_O Weird how her older sister is setting things up and pushing me to talk with her! I mean, hello? you have me on my FB, you know my age, you know your little sister age, I mean...hello? I am THIRTY damn it! She's just newly 17, Duh!! !

-Yesterday i was asked out for a little drink nearby by a barely-18 years old girl but she's 3 times my size. Her = 2 x Face of Boo in weight + 1.5 Face of Boo in height. O_o. Oh well...I really look tiny besides her!

- Today i was asked by a coworker for a walk ...... it never happened before during the three years she was there -__-.


sounds like all this being a jerk is paying off :wink: though shoulda started 10 years ago



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17 Apr 2012, 9:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
-Weeks ago, i am being obviously approached by a barely-17 years (just had a bday a few weeks ago) old girl :-/ - I made the mistake before by assuming she's around 19-20 but she turned out to be still in school.

Today she entangled my arm after her 25-yo sister asked me to escort her to the her because she wanted to bring a stuff she forgot there.

O_O Weird how her older sister is setting things up and pushing me to talk with her! I mean, hello? you have me on my FB, you know my age, you know your little sister age, I mean...hello? I am THIRTY damn it! She's just newly 17, Duh!! !

-Yesterday i was asked out for a little drink nearby by a barely-18 years old girl but she's 3 times my size. Her = 2 x Face of Boo in weight + 1.5 Face of Boo in height. O_o. Oh well...I really look tiny besides her!

- Today i was asked by a coworker for a walk ...... it never happened before during the three years she was there -__-.
Feast or famine ,I guess.Are you going to go for a walk with your coworker?.What's your secret ,you stud!



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17 Apr 2012, 9:54 pm

I'm never approached. I have only been approached once in 7th grade, and I harshly declined him by saying "Heck no" and walking away. I hated the dude.



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18 Apr 2012, 3:50 am

MXH wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
-Weeks ago, i am being obviously approached by a barely-17 years (just had a bday a few weeks ago) old girl :-/ - I made the mistake before by assuming she's around 19-20 but she turned out to be still in school.

Today she entangled my arm after her 25-yo sister asked me to escort her to the her because she wanted to bring a stuff she forgot there.

O_O Weird how her older sister is setting things up and pushing me to talk with her! I mean, hello? you have me on my FB, you know my age, you know your little sister age, I mean...hello? I am THIRTY damn it! She's just newly 17, Duh!! !

-Yesterday i was asked out for a little drink nearby by a barely-18 years old girl but she's 3 times my size. Her = 2 x Face of Boo in weight + 1.5 Face of Boo in height. O_o. Oh well...I really look tiny besides her!

- Today i was asked by a coworker for a walk ...... it never happened before during the three years she was there -__-.


sounds like all this being a jerk is paying off :wink: though shoulda started 10 years ago



Yea, I started late, very late, maybe too late for anything now. :-/

But yes, being little assertive (and ass) does really pay off somehow.

For instance, there's the single mom woman that i was supposed to had a lunch (during the lunch break!) with on Thursday, I kept waiting and she she didn't show up, i contacted her and said she forgot about it!! ! and this wasn't the first time she doesn't come for a set up lunch...

So in return, I stopped calling/contacting for the rest of day, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and the whole Monday day, and on the Monday-Tuesday midnight she sent me a text saying "where are you? I miss you a lot. Why you're not contacting me?", I replied "I got busy", and later in the convo she was like 'got busy with some girl perhaps?" , "no, not this time, why asking?" .....and now we're talking again.

With little cold treatment, when necessary, you make them chase you instead of chasing them.



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18 Apr 2012, 7:59 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yea, I started late, very late, maybe too late for anything now. :-/

But yes, being little assertive (and ass) does really pay off somehow.

For instance, there's the single mom woman that i was supposed to had a lunch (during the lunch break!) with on Thursday, I kept waiting and she she didn't show up, i contacted her and said she forgot about it!! ! and this wasn't the first time she doesn't come for a set up lunch...

So in return, I stopped calling/contacting for the rest of day, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and the whole Monday day, and on the Monday-Tuesday midnight she sent me a text saying "where are you? I miss you a lot. Why you're not contacting me?", I replied "I got busy", and later in the convo she was like 'got busy with some girl perhaps?" , "no, not this time, why asking?" .....and now we're talking again.


Reciprocity isn't being a jerk or disrespectful, it's just self-respect.



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19 Apr 2012, 3:39 am

edgewaters wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Yea, I started late, very late, maybe too late for anything now. :-/

But yes, being little assertive (and ass) does really pay off somehow.

For instance, there's the single mom woman that i was supposed to had a lunch (during the lunch break!) with on Thursday, I kept waiting and she she didn't show up, i contacted her and said she forgot about it!! ! and this wasn't the first time she doesn't come for a set up lunch...

So in return, I stopped calling/contacting for the rest of day, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and the whole Monday day, and on the Monday-Tuesday midnight she sent me a text saying "where are you? I miss you a lot. Why you're not contacting me?", I replied "I got busy", and later in the convo she was like 'got busy with some girl perhaps?" , "no, not this time, why asking?" .....and now we're talking again.


Reciprocity isn't being a jerk or disrespectful, it's just self-respect.



I'll reply this in the nice guys thread.