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16 Aug 2012, 11:35 am

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it bothers me a lot. I want to mkae out, get oral, have sex...the whole shabang. It is not just the hedonic pleasure of kissing a girl that I desire but it is the eudaimonic meaning of it. Right now noone has evvr wanted to kiss me! Although I look in the mirror and see a 6 foot 2 tall white decently built 22 yr old with a college degree, I often wonder if I have a facial deformity or something! I wonder this bc I cant imagine a normal looking guy going 23 yrs without one french kiss! Getting a kiss for me would mean that I have the ability to be desired, and I have the ability to have sex.

Mike_Garrick wrote:

Almost 25 without so much as a kiss on the cheek.

We're missing out on a lot Makayla.

Its not as much about the physical kiss, at least for me, then it is about feeling so undesirable a woman won't even kiss you.
Whats so horrible about me that the slightest hint of romantic interest from me sends a woman running?
I'm not ugly, but I sure feel like I must be.

I don't know how close that is for everyone else but its my surface thoughts on it.

read my quoted post above yours

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16 Aug 2012, 11:37 am

GiantHockeyFan wrote:

Mike_Garrick wrote:

Its not as much about the physical kiss, at least for me, then it is about feeling so undesirable a woman won't even kiss you.
Whats so horrible about me that the slightest hint of romantic interest from me sends a woman running?
I'm not ugly, but I sure feel like I must be.

I don't know how close that is for everyone else but its my surface thoughts on it.

What I find frustrating is that I'm not ugly and I get along GREAT with female co-workers (most are about 10 years older). Just yesterday I was talking to a group of 4 of them and all of them can't understand why ladies wouldn't be fighting over me. I'm in good shape, very tall, well liked, am great with children and have an extremely stable, full time job. At least if I was ugly I would know why but I honestly have no idea why I'm so apparently unattractive. If I'm quiet they aren't interested, if I'm aggressive they get scared and if I don't give a $#@^ they aren't interested either and if I'm friendly I'm friend-zoned. I've literally tried every strategy (and yes, I've just been myself for many years) and women have assured me there is nothing I do that would turn women away and it's very hard to understand why there isn't a lineup of women chasing me.

I know the obvious answer is "Aspergers you idiot!" but unless you know me well you would never suspect it at all. If relationships didn't last I would agree but I can't even get them off the ground! I know I only need one but I'm starting to doubt if one even exists.

perfect post man! I agree

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17 Aug 2012, 8:39 pm

Mike_Garrick wrote:

PastFixations wrote:

Mike_Garrick wrote:

Don't try and understand women.
Normal men can't even understand them, how could we ever have a chance? :roll:

We aspies don't even understand anyone but ourselves.

You've got one up on me then, I can't understand a thing going on in my head.

Nor me. I don't even understand myself, let alone anyone else.

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19 Aug 2012, 10:44 am

I'm 23 and I've never been kissed, never had sex, but I've gotten as close as holding hands. Not ashamed to admit it, just not proud of it.

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25 Nov 2012, 12:09 pm

I'm 24 and never been kissed either.

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25 Nov 2012, 12:11 pm

Vintagegirl wrote:

I'm 24 and never been kissed either.

why not?

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25 Nov 2012, 12:18 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

Vintagegirl wrote:

I'm 24 and never been kissed either.

why not?

I don't know

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26 Nov 2012, 2:42 am

Never been kissed either~

It's fun to surprise girls with it and it's quite fun to watch them try to hint about hoping I'll get it soon :3

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26 Nov 2012, 3:10 am

Well, now 30, have been for a few months, and never so much as a peck on the cheek. Nada. The only thing I've ever got from a girl is a non-romantic context hug.

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26 Nov 2012, 10:24 am

Adam82 wrote:

Well, now 30, have been for a few months, and never so much as a peck on the cheek. Nada. The only thing I've ever got from a girl is a non-romantic context hug.

now23

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26 Nov 2012, 10:25 am

BrokenEnvoke wrote:

Never been kissed either~

It's fun to surprise girls with it and it's quite fun to watch them try to hint about hoping I'll get it soon :3

sounds like yours is by choice

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26 Nov 2012, 11:06 am

I've been kissed twice.

Now wait, before you throw tomatoes at me, let me say this. Neither one counted. The first was from a girl I couldn't stand in first grade. First grade! The second one was when I was pushed into a girl back in high school. The girl spread the word that I was a "pervert" because this guy pushed me into her and we kissed. The guy who pushed me into her got thrashed by me later, needless to say....which led to me getting suspended for two days.

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26 Nov 2012, 9:11 pm

23 and never kissed either and a virgin, but I have did other 'things' with women before.

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26 Nov 2012, 10:09 pm

I wish I could say I've never been kissed before. My first one was horrible.

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26 Nov 2012, 11:17 pm

Kissing is overrated. You're going to find it's not as great as you imagine it to be. I personally don't like kissing women with thin lips.

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27 Nov 2012, 1:52 am

39, nearly 40, and never ever been kissed.

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