Describe incidents where someone flirted with you.

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MrSinister
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26 Dec 2006, 12:49 pm

I flirt all the time with a gay girl I know in an online capacity, and with a woman in her forties at work. In both of those instances I know exactly what the deal is, and so I'm quite happy to go along with it and be as dirty as I choose (which is quite a lot, from what I can gather).

If I'm unsure, then I draw a complete blank a lot of the time. Which is never a good thing, it has to be said.


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26 Dec 2006, 2:46 pm

I remember as far back as 7 yrs old having old men flirt with me at stores because I had developed a large bust so early. My mom would have to give them dirty looks and tell them to buzz off.

Even though I'm lesbian I have guys come onto me all the time (and other dykes never do). There has been a number of grocery store bagger boys that became infatuated with me. There's this waiter guy at a cafe I used to frequent and he used to flirt with me every time and he would spill things from being nervous. He finally asked me how old I was and when he found out I was 37 and he is 23 he quit flirting. I also have a guy who was probably 20 yrs older leave a love note for me on my dryer at laundrymat. I figure he had Aspergers. Its just damn upsetting when only guys flirt with me and I have no use for them. Only one girl has flirted with me and that was right after I broke up with my girlfriend and stupid me forgot I was now available again and blew off the girl's questions of what I was doing for Christmas. Course she was way younger than me, but still we could have had some fun.

I also for some reason seem to attract a lot of Mexican and Black men so not sure if they just flirt with everything or what.



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27 Dec 2006, 10:52 pm

myeyesseekreality wrote:
It sucks. I can't tell at all when I'm being flirted with. Of course I even have a hard time with facial expressions. The worts part is I'm 29. :oops:


Try to match facial expression to voice tone. If both do not match then whoever's hitting is faking & only wants to take advantage of you.



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28 Dec 2006, 4:00 pm

I've had girls stroke my face and pinch my arse, which I ignore.

A girl tried flirting with me once, but she was fat and ugly, and I ignored her and she eventually walked off.



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28 Dec 2006, 5:33 pm

Alternative wrote:
A girl tried flirting with me once, but she was fat and ugly, and I ignored her and she eventually walked off.


I had the problem which lasted six months during seventh grade. A really fat & ugly girl was brainwashed by my classmates into making her believe I had a thing for her, which I did not! Eventually her stalking led to the s**t hitting the fan one day in Social Studies.



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29 Dec 2006, 12:01 am

From 7th-8th grade I was being hit on by this one girl I was attracted to. I didn't even know she was hitting on me though until in 8th grade she became really angry with me for having "ignored" her "signals for sex". I was kinda shocked to find out what a whore she was. Later on that year, she did her friend's bf.

If it wasn't for AS, I could've been a dad right now...



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29 Dec 2006, 1:09 am

I was a sophmore in high school and at a party in the Hollywood Hills. This girl and her best friend walked over to me and plainly said "I want you" and grabbed me in the private parts in front of a crowd of party goers.



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29 Dec 2006, 1:32 am

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He has been emailing me every other week since April. I have told him that I am not gay & that I have a GF, which I do not. Your input is most welcome.



easy, just ignore his emails. Don't open them, send directly to trashcan.

he'll get the idea.



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29 Dec 2006, 1:34 am

Well, I just remembered this one:

I worked as a manager in a big store, I was the boss of about 80 people! (go figure!) 8O scary, I know.

While working there, I invited a girl who also worked there to my house a few times, she met my mother.

I remember one time when she even came in to my room, I felt tired that day and I used to take naps before I returned to work, so there she was, sitting in a chair in front of me, while I tried to take a nap! :oops:

Anyway, one day I invited her again, and we where arriving at my home when I told her:
- My mom asked me if we are dating.
- And what did you told her.
- That we are friends.

she stopped walking, said that felt very embarrased because of my mom thinking that, and excused herself and said that she needed to go.

she married a guy about 8 months later...


man I was dumb...




I was trying to be "professional", by not dating any of the girls who worked there


(but later I dated a girl who also worked there, hehe)



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29 Dec 2006, 2:08 pm

computerlove wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
He has been emailing me every other week since April. I have told him that I am not gay & that I have a GF, which I do not. Your input is most welcome.



easy, just ignore his emails. Don't open them, send directly to trashcan.

he'll get the idea.


That is what I have been doing & it is not working. :evil:



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29 Dec 2006, 2:48 pm

I just remembered another one:
Back in June, when I was on my boring-as-Hell Summer Break, my mom & I were heading up to OHSU for my annual checkup. We took the #8 up the hill & when we passed by Portland State University, a really cute NT girl from school hopped on & I saw her wave at me. I waved back & she sat in an empty seat in front of me & my mom. We started talking & eventually, she had to get off.

I like her even though she is a senior. We are very good friends but the kicker is that after she got off the bus, my mom started yelling at me! :evil:

Even though the #8 was crowded, what can I do?

Your input is very welcome.



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29 Dec 2006, 3:09 pm

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Well...there was this one time where a female commented on my glasses by stating they were cute. Does that count? :lol:


I do not think that counted, she was just complimenting you.



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29 Dec 2006, 3:18 pm

Cyanide wrote:
From 7th-8th grade I was being hit on by this one girl I was attracted to. I didn't even know she was hitting on me though until in 8th grade she became really angry with me for having "ignored" her "signals for sex". I was kinda shocked to find out what a whore she was.


Owch. In middle school, a lot of girls tried hitting on me because I was slightly obese & vulnerable to any insult given. They thought they could protect me, which was not the case! :lol:

Now, I do not get hit on as much but since most of the girls at my HS are either lesbian or bi, I have no problem at all.



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29 Dec 2006, 5:21 pm

ROFL, Hilarious. Never happened to me.


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29 Dec 2006, 7:11 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Cyanide wrote:
most of the girls at my HS are either lesbian or bi.



*BLINKBLINKBLINKBLINK*

WHAT???? :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D


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30 Dec 2006, 12:55 am

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
computerlove wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
He has been emailing me every other week since April. I have told him that I am not gay & that I have a GF, which I do not. Your input is most welcome.



easy, just ignore his emails. Don't open them, send directly to trashcan.

he'll get the idea.


That is what I have been doing & it is not working. :evil:



make a filter:
"send mails from [email protected] directly to trashcan"