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04 Sep 2012, 6:21 am

BigBossMSF wrote:
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Sometimes people cheat for other reasons than they aren't in love. It's possible to be deeply in love with someone who for some reason cannot give you what you need emotionally or physically.

It's not always about them not being as high and mighty as you are.


There's no excuse. It's wrong...end of story.


Easy to sit in judgement when you haven't been in every situation.

I hope your all or nothing worldview keeps working for you.


I challenge you to present me with a reasonable excuse to cheat on someone.


Honestly, probably nothing would be reasonable to you, considering your judgemental and condescending tone. Good luck with that in the future.

Also, remember this; nobody is obligated to justify themselves to you. You live your life, others live theirs. All that dissapproving of them will get you is frown lines.


There's no tone, I just think it's wrong. Why are you afraid to debate it?


I'm not "afraid to debate it", I just don't see how debating other people's personal lives is anyone's business.


So do you think it's right to tell someone you love them and they are all you need and they make you happy while you are out f***ing some other person at the same time without them knowing?


Well lets see, maybe after a long marriage when one partner just will not meet the emotional or physical needs of the other, even after years and years of discussion over it and knowing how important it is to her, and he has cheated on her as well many times and gotten caught, yet she does still love him and she has no way of actually leaving him without just living in a cardboard box in the woods because there are no resources where she lives and women shelters won't help her because she's not abused, maybe, just maybe, somebody comes along who gives her that little emotional thing she needs (not love at all, just feeling desired and attractive) and the best sex she's ever had, rather than the 6 minute once a month sex that her husband gives her, then maybe, just maybe, it's how she manages to stay.
you should not stay in this situation(sounds like you're in it for the cash). If you can have the best sex ever with a guy you don't love and the sex with a man you claim to love is 6 minutes and only once a month then perhaps you don't love him. Love is more than emotional..it is a combination of emotions and physical attraction.
I can eevn simplify it by using my dog as an example. I love my dog not only bc he is a great dog, but he looks so cute and Ilove his fur and his size. I would not be attracted to owning a small or ugly dog. Physical connection is as important as emotional..or close.
(no bestiality)


What cash? ROFLMAO! Considering that I have been married longer than you have been alive, I think I know my level of love for my husband. Love is a lot more than sex, my friend.


Haha oh wow I thought you were speaking hypothetical. Thats just....wow. Why don't you get some respect and learn to take care of yourself rather than riding off this guy's money while you are f***ing other dudes. See that's the problem with women, they think they are entitled to be taken care of while at the same time expect all the rights like they are independent people. You can't have it both ways and not look like a complete hypocrite.
lol nah I could tell it was about her bc she was getting vry upset lol..she also had a specific example.
anyway, on a related note I only pay for dates bc it is required(like tipping) I dont believe in paying for a girl's food or tipping a waiter unless the service was better than it should have been

olive if love is more than sex than you should be able to not cheat on your husband ust bc he isnt fucing you erry night lol.


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04 Sep 2012, 6:23 am

BigBossMSF wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
OliveOilMom wrote:
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OliveOilMom wrote:
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Sometimes people cheat for other reasons than they aren't in love. It's possible to be deeply in love with someone who for some reason cannot give you what you need emotionally or physically.

It's not always about them not being as high and mighty as you are.


There's no excuse. It's wrong...end of story.


Easy to sit in judgement when you haven't been in every situation.

I hope your all or nothing worldview keeps working for you.


I challenge you to present me with a reasonable excuse to cheat on someone.


Honestly, probably nothing would be reasonable to you, considering your judgemental and condescending tone. Good luck with that in the future.

Also, remember this; nobody is obligated to justify themselves to you. You live your life, others live theirs. All that dissapproving of them will get you is frown lines.


There's no tone, I just think it's wrong. Why are you afraid to debate it?


I'm not "afraid to debate it", I just don't see how debating other people's personal lives is anyone's business.


So do you think it's right to tell someone you love them and they are all you need and they make you happy while you are out f***ing some other person at the same time without them knowing?


Well lets see, maybe after a long marriage when one partner just will not meet the emotional or physical needs of the other, even after years and years of discussion over it and knowing how important it is to her, and he has cheated on her as well many times and gotten caught, yet she does still love him and she has no way of actually leaving him without just living in a cardboard box in the woods because there are no resources where she lives and women shelters won't help her because she's not abused, maybe, just maybe, somebody comes along who gives her that little emotional thing she needs (not love at all, just feeling desired and attractive) and the best sex she's ever had, rather than the 6 minute once a month sex that her husband gives her, then maybe, just maybe, it's how she manages to stay.
you should not stay in this situation(sounds like you're in it for the cash). If you can have the best sex ever with a guy you don't love and the sex with a man you claim to love is 6 minutes and only once a month then perhaps you don't love him. Love is more than emotional..it is a combination of emotions and physical attraction.
I can eevn simplify it by using my dog as an example. I love my dog not only bc he is a great dog, but he looks so cute and Ilove his fur and his size. I would not be attracted to owning a small or ugly dog. Physical connection is as important as emotional..or close.
(no bestiality)


What cash? ROFLMAO! Considering that I have been married longer than you have been alive, I think I know my level of love for my husband. Love is a lot more than sex, my friend.


Haha oh wow I thought you were speaking hypothetical. Thats just....wow. Why don't you get some respect and learn to take care of yourself rather than riding off this guy's money while you are f***ing other dudes. See that's the problem with women, they think they are entitled to be taken care of while at the same time expect all the rights like they are independent people. You can't have it both ways and not look like a complete hypocrite.


Grow up sweetie. You don't know what you're talking about. What money? Let me ask you that? What freaking money am I "riding off"? You must be looking at this from your own personal past experience. But hey, why would anybody cheat on such a "respectable gentleman" as yourself? I mean what gal wouldn't love to be judged by a self righteous dude?

Again, without knowing the entire story, you know nothing.

I also have plenty of respect for myself and I know how to take care of myself. Not dudes, dude. And you have no idea what all I've been through in my marriage and how much I do love my husband. Trust me, he doesn't "take care of me". I manage the money as best I can and stretch it as far as I can so our kids have what they need and our bills get mostly paid. I'm NOT sitting in the lap of luxury playing some poor guy for a fool, no matter what you think.

Just because you had bad experiences (and with such a nice personality, I can't imagine why) doesn't mean that everyone's situation is the same.

Hey, maybe you can also find a way to blame this on guys with self confidence. I bet you could!


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04 Sep 2012, 6:24 am

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2. If all they do is talk then it's not cheating, they are not involved on a sexual level so sleeping with someone else is like me being friends with a girl but having an actual GF as well.

your definition of cheating doesn't necessarily align with other people. cheating doesn't have to involve sex.


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04 Sep 2012, 6:27 am

Also, as hard as it may be to understand for you, but sometimes an affair is what enables a person to stay in a marriage. Especially if the person loves their spouse. Sex isn't love.


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04 Sep 2012, 6:31 am

and.... now i got to the end of the thread. BigBossMSF, this is a sexist remark:

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See that's the problem with women, they think they are entitled to be taken care of while at the same time expect all the rights like they are independent people.


knock it off. i was going to remove your post but it was quoted twice. keep the sexism off the forum as it violates the following rule:

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rule of thumb: anytime you are blaming an entire gender for the bad behaviour of a limited subset, you've gone too far.


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