Lmfao at this message this girl sent me

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I Googled:
"I WANT A GUY... who would move the hair away from my eyes and then kiss me. hold my hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. Someone who would sing to me at random moments.
Who would let me sleep on their chest. A boy who would get mad at someone if they called me ugly or was mean to me. I want someone who would call me 3 times a day if he went away. Someone who let me gossip to him and would just smile and agree with everything I said.
He would throw stuffed animals at me when I acted dumb and then ",
in quotes and got 16,000 matches. Looks like there's a lot of lonely girls doing Ctrl-c/Ctrl-v....

omg because you're totally better than her right? so you deserve better things
and you know her life and that she could totally get satisfactorily laid whenever ...or it's gender essentialist bs you're peddling because of course there are no trials and tribulations like your's 'cause this is a hero narrative isn't it?

I'm fairly heartened at the negative response you got for this because just imagining the crap I've gotten for a gender reversed post was making my head spin. (rightly so too, we're not here to anonymously mock people's looks)

Is it so hard to not be a douche when online dating? Is it that difficult to if you aren't interested in a message or profile to just ignore it or say "I've really started to hit it off with somebody here. Good luck to you." or something.

also, that profile looks super fake to me, and that message is copypasta (my policy is to never reply to copypasta, either it's a spammer or somebody canvassing)

You like hanging people out on the net, do you, wtfid2? And the rest of you who are building on this thread, in agreement with him, are no better. Utterly shameful. You truly should be ashamed of this. Bullying people like this is NOT okay. How do you think she will feel if she sees this thread? Is it so damn difficult to LEAVE THINGS BE?

Frequently men on here, who hold engaging in sexual relations as a high priority, point out that women have it easier because they can obtain this thing much easier than men. However they overlook that sex is very different for women. It's invasive and she takes on a lot of risk when she engages in it. Women also have lower libidos in general. As such, sex often isn't a priority of women, and many women would generally prefer not to have sex except on occasion. So if someone can get something they don't want, how is that a plus for them?

The key point is that she can't get what she wants. Not that she can't get what you want.

And if you really wanted it, you could get one of the things you want. There are prostitutes in every city and legal brothels in the state of Nevada...not that I advocate such things.

but with a prostitute they don't get the submission or the homosocial status boost

I'd say that's being pretty hypocritical. Obviously prostitutes are not what he's going for or he'd have already done so by now and this thread wouldn't exist. People are always suggesting this as if it's some easy fix and it's incredibly sexist and offensive.

Thank-you!

do you ever give it a rest? swear you are the feminist police. You constantly yell at the bitter virgins on this board, yet you are just as bad. I do respect you for standing up for her though as I was a dousche by saying she was ugly. I probably could have phrased that better.

I never said I was better than her or that I deserve better things. I said that she and I both want love AND sex. The diff b/w her and me iis that she can get one of her desires while I can;t get any of them.
Yes I said it. She has a vagina and Can get sex if that is what se desires Another piece of proof towards this theory is that her longest relationship was over 2 yrs. She can get a guy if she wants. That is a fact.

I wasn't annnymously mocking anyone. I blurred her face and username out. The purpose of this post was that this chick either trolled me or was legitimately nuts.

I do ignore the girls Im not interested in. I don't call them ugly or say nasty things to them. I usually just delete them. Occasionally if the same girl messages me once a month for 3 times or more ill get annoyed and say..''Im obviously not interested please stop messaging me''

To be honest though it is kind of hard to not e a dousche these days. Out of all the girls I talk to, and all the ones I respond to, they seem to all be useless flakes. I had 2 dates lined up with two girls I found cute. They werent amazing but they were cute. I was talking with them on text for a solid week, and I confirmed with each of them that we were meeting on the date we specified we were meetin. One totally ignored me, and when I called hvr out politely on it she said oh im busy gl with your search(this really annoyed me as she just made me hopeful id have a gf for nothing)
The other ignored me as well,and then i called her out on it and she said ''o sorry I had a super busy day this that blah blah'' She didn't even mention the date we were supposed to meet, and so i stopped texting her..and guess what she doesn't care she hasnt textued me since.

The girls on these sites..and hell even real life aren't worth anything.
I am nice to people irl though..i don;t come off as bitter. I hope to someday get intimate with a girl.

Also how did you find her profile??

Then you're probably no better than she is. Chances are, you want someone who looks like britney spears, or whatever other empty headed celebrity douchebag is considered "hot" these days, which is just as unrealistic as what she says she wants. You certainly should avoid a girl like this, but you should honestly not have physical appearance be the deal breaker or the top priority. Get to know someone before you write them off based on looks. How would you like to be judged that way? It's a two way street, buddy. Look for the personality, not the body.

How do you know she can just get laid if she wants to? You obviously won't give it to her...

Yeah man..it;s not even the sex I want it's my first fricking kiss. The sex and kissing will show me that girls are attracted to me and I ca get a girl to WANT me. Honestly I dont even see the appeal in sex...and kissing. How is sucking down a girl's spit pleasurable -_-.

...Or a lot of bots.

Perhaps if you weren't acting like such a dick, you'd find out how it's pleasurable... If you think you're going to hate it, why do you even want it? Screw it, just use your hand for the rest of your life. Also, you said earlier that you want sex and a relationship. Now you say you just want a kiss. Make up your mind.

And you know, there's a reason someone coined the phrase: "don't judge a book by its cover."

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I woudnt give it to her bc that is my personality..but most guys dont give a fuzz who they give it to.

Physical appearance is a deal breaker for intimate relationships for me..it could be taken negatively by you but it is the truth..and I don;t feel it is a wrong or bad stance.

So... what happens, then, when you both become old and grey? What if she leaves you for a younger, more attractive guy? Would YOU leave HER for a younger, more attractive woman? Beauty fades. What remains is the personality.

Way to twist my whole entire post inside out lol. I never said I'd hate it, I just said I can;t imagine what is SOOO good about it. That is perfectly reasonable considering I have the relationship experience of a 5 yr old.
Obviously the part about the kiss went over your head. I said the kiss is the most important thing for me, not ust for the physical act of it but bc of what it means...and sex would ust strengthen the feelings that the iss would initially give.Feelings of desirability.
If I am looking to get intimate with someone I most certainly will judge the by their looks. I am not looking for a model,and would be willing to date a wide variety o physically diverse women, however im not dating anyone that I am not even slightly attracted to.

stadt brings a point along. she totally came for you (albeit not the best of ways), and you duped her because of her looks. Yet you say she can get sex and you cant. Last i checked she wasnt about to go and f**k some male models, and neither are you. You probably had a chance to have sex/kiss/whatever and let it go by. And her alleged easy chance at sex didnt happen either. The difference is one of the two of you probably thinks much higher of themselves than the other

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