How did first you meet your GF/BF?

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abyssquick, that's such a nice story.

hasn't happend to me yet but it seems like most people meet them through mutual friends

I met my GF as she started getting bigger off of my right wrist as I got older. She doesn't talk, her five sisters adore me, and she knows all the sweet spots.

I met my first boyfriend because he was friends with a guy that was my roommate.
I met my second bf because he was my roommate :/
My third bf was a purely online relationship. We met on a music site.
I met my next bf online (not dating site). He lived overseas but he came to my country to see me and we had an albeit brief but intense relationship which ended when we realised neither of us wanted to move to the other country permanently.
I met my fifth bf online (not dating site) although we decided to meet because it turned out we both went to the same mental health clinic ! (wouldn't recommend this as a basis for anyone else's relationship hah)
I met my next bf originally because he was friends with my second bf however ages after second bf and i broke up, we got together.
I met my next bf at a club next to my work. I would go there after work occasionally. He was a security guard there.
Then I had a bf that was again only online. He lived on another continent. Same with the one after, although he ended up coming to mine, but not before I'd broken up with him.
I met my next and last bf online however again not on a dating site (i've never met a partner on a dating site). We lived close and saw each other frequently, although the relationship ended very very badly 18 months later

IT seems I have most success meeting guys online, probably because I have really bad social anxiety (which doesn't transfer to online luckily).

^ lol

at least they ask if you are on the same wavelength, either directly or through the grapevine.

i've had two GFs to speak of. i dropped alot of weight after turning 18 and got overwhelmed by female attention.
my first lasted 2 years, with on and off, and we were both virgins when we first met. she was into innocence i think, and got bored with me.

my current has lasted 5.5 years now. i got very lucky, and she broke through my social barriers at work and drew me in with shared interests. then we found ourselves crazy compatible. she's genderqueer, with schitzoid tendencies... so two peas in a pod. thank gods she's more social then me and can make phone calls and such.

besides physical compatibility i think she had me for life when we did our first mutual world-building project together. she adds in the social aspects while i do the technical, and everything just meshes great. we each have our obsessions but sharing is really awesome.. it's like finding a missing piece of my brain and hard-wiring it back again. she is very rational and patient and easily as intelligent as myself. i really fell in love with her mind first.

funny thing is that she is highly attracted to aspie traits, in males and females.

Met her on WP <3

Three months come March 8th