How can I get women to notice me?

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Needs are for survival. In an age where survival is next to no longer being an issue, nobody really needs anything. Desire and passion are completely different.

This article, or the idea that you "need" anything promotes selfishness and instant gratification. Both are saying it's completely ok to use people, and if they don't like they must be doing nothing with their lives. Sounds pretty dickish to me.

Well if you want a girl to notice you, im assuming that you want her to try to approach you? This is rare. However, its not impossible and doing some of these steps will make you more approachable.

Remember, if you want to be approached by a girl make yourself approachable.

1.Make yourself available
If you're with a group of other guys, separate from them. Women are more likely to approach you if you're by yourself.

2.Don't be so subtle or low key.
While it’s certainly true that subtlety is a major aspect of the flirting process, this is one situation where you may want to risk more overt behavior. If the two of you have already locked eyes, this means you’ve already “marked” each other. You are familiar with this step -- it’s when you’re both aware of where the other is, and you will continually seek out signs of possible interest. Usually, this is where the man considers his approach without entertaining the other option. Instead, try something new. Make her approach you by trying a few big smiles, raising a glass in a simple salute, hinting with a wink, or if you want to get brazen, you could simply wave her over. Besides a quick shake of the head in a negative reply, what are you really risking?

3.Try to stand out.
Remember there are tons of other guys and more competition. What separates you from the other guys? Are you really muscular, can you play a guitar? Do you have any talents? Use these talents to your advantage to try to get her to notice you.


4.Stand up straight.
Slouching too much is a stay away from me signal.


5.Don't be shy or nervous. Don't make talking to a girl a big deal in your head. You will get yourself nervous. Instead, relax- no big deal.

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I agree with Ruckus.

Most men on here seem to be utterly convinced that they have women sussed out. They make grumpy statements about us, saying: "women want this. Women don't want that," and most of their statements are wrong. For example, an awful lot of the threads on here consist of men with AS telling one another that they have to go to the gym and get big muscles. No matter how many times the AS females respond by saying "hey, hold on. Women feel about muscles the way men feel about boobs. Our tastes vary. We don't all like men with big ones," the men on here will simply not believe us. They think they know women better than we know ourselves. And they also seem to think that all women want men who are rich.

I personally have been in relationships with several men who were poor, Fnord. I was also in a relationship with a man who was literally homeless, and living in a tent.

Nowadays, the majority of people (both men and women) are superficial. You are right to believe that money will attract superficial freeloaders. But not all of us are superficial. If you have never met any genuine people, who love others because of who they are and not because of what they have, then I feel sorry for you. I hope you meet some one day soon.

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

You don't regard other people based on what they can offer you, or at least I hope you don't. Imagine if people treated pets that way; animals have absolutely nothing to offer and yet people still take them in. Same for children - they are not capable of offering anything. But we don't consider either to be worthless or inferior. To judge people on arbitrary needs rather than for who they are as a person is not right.

Totally says it all. All of you guys who whine about being virgins at 20, 30, 40+. Read this and you will know why.