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05 Jan 2013, 1:07 am

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Ive already talked about your specific pictures. Hire a better cameraman than michael j fox


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Hey, I don't think it's too polite to make fun of Parkinson's disease. I had an aunt who had been suffering from it and passed away a month ago.


There we have it, folks, MXH is just a c**t who makes fun of disabled people. Man, I can see why you don't have any friends, in fact, you are glad Lilya has the patience and a kind heart..



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05 Jan 2013, 1:16 am

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Well at the end you don't even have a picture uploaded, you haven't met any girls from OkCupid. I have met girls from OkCupid, had sex, oral sex with them and met some great people. My photos have hundreds of likes on Facebook and thousands on Instagram so my photography skills must be a bit better than yours.

You speak as if you are going to join a dating site and be Russell Brand but the only reason you're not going to be him is because of money? Really? why don't you show us all how successful you are before being a critic?


Ive seen how these discussions with you go. This is the "im better than you because i have sex with anything that moves" part. Which would be impressive if it werent that even when people ask you about it you simply retract the statement from shame. The next reply is going to be giving me more physical threats, and the following one to trying to find someone you can hope is against me as your friend. Please try to be less predictable. Hell, you can even see how much less attention people pay you now a days when theyve finally read through you.

Anyways, back to your post. Sure, someone whose entire life consists on okcupid can have some "success" there (And considering how much you use it to justify yourself I do believe it is all your life is about) compared to someone that in 3 years has done a total of 15 messages and ignores most i receive. Why is this? Because I have no real intention of meeting someone from okc, see theres this thing called real life. and in the real life (you might have heard it by the acronym irl) people act differently. For example people are more willing to not say stupid things and be publicly shamed for it. Others might actually be able to seize moments better. But in the end, talking irl and talking in okc have the difference than in irl you already in step 1 achieved what you try to achieve in total from okc. Which is meeting up with someone.

Ive said it before, and ill say it again. If I or anyone else here invested as much time/money/effort as you do into getting some from any girl saying yes thered be success everywhere. And before you say its all a lie lets not start on how much those suits and the steroids are costing you.

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There we have it, folks, MXH is just a c**t who makes fun of disabled people. Man, I can see why you don't have any friends, in fact, you are glad Lilya has the patience and a kind heart..


Not at all, I was making fun of you. though by now id expect better attempts at turning a topic against me than this. Surely you can do better? Ohh, but then again you cant even read the multiple times you're told by someone to stop using her as a tool in your bro-downs. I cant tell why its not getting to your brain, thick head or small target.



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05 Jan 2013, 1:39 am

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Well at the end you don't even have a picture uploaded, you haven't met any girls from OkCupid. I have met girls from OkCupid, had sex, oral sex with them and met some great people. My photos have hundreds of likes on Facebook and thousands on Instagram so my photography skills must be a bit better than yours.

You speak as if you are going to join a dating site and be Russell Brand but the only reason you're not going to be him is because of money? Really? why don't you show us all how successful you are before being a critic?


Ive seen how these discussions with you go. This is the "im better than you because i have sex with anything that moves" part. Which would be impressive if it werent that even when people ask you about it you simply retract the statement from shame. The next reply is going to be giving me more physical threats, and the following one to trying to find someone you can hope is against me as your friend. Please try to be less predictable. Hell, you can even see how much less attention people pay you now a days when theyve finally read through you.

Anyways, back to your post. Sure, someone whose entire life consists on okcupid can have some "success" there (And considering how much you use it to justify yourself I do believe it is all your life is about) compared to someone that in 3 years has done a total of 15 messages and ignores most i receive. Why is this? Because I have no real intention of meeting someone from okc, see theres this thing called real life. and in the real life (you might have heard it by the acronym irl) people act differently. For example people are more willing to not say stupid things and be publicly shamed for it. Others might actually be able to seize moments better. But in the end, talking irl and talking in okc have the difference than in irl you already in step 1 achieved what you try to achieve in total from okc. Which is meeting up with someone.

Ive said it before, and ill say it again. If I or anyone else here invested as much time/money/effort as you do into getting some from any girl saying yes thered be success everywhere. And before you say its all a lie lets not start on how much those suits and the steroids are costing you.

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There we have it, folks, MXH is just a c**t who makes fun of disabled people. Man, I can see why you don't have any friends, in fact, you are glad Lilya has the patience and a kind heart..


Not at all, I was making fun of you. though by now id expect better attempts at turning a topic against me than this. Surely you can do better? Ohh, but then again you cant even read the multiple times you're told by someone to stop using her as a tool in your bro-downs. I cant tell why its not getting to your brain, thick head or small target.


The people who pay less, don't experience. Boo inspired me and look I've given advice to guys like IrishTurk and now look at them, they are banging chicks, maybe not swimming p**** but they are getting some action which like Boo said is more than most on here get.

A. I hardly log into OkCupid anymore because I simply don't need to, I have met enough people to be inactive from there and I am meeting on a regular basis.
B. I spend a lot of time making ends meet, training and studying so again, ironic that coming from someone with over 10'000 posts.
C. If people aren't willing to make the effort, they shouldn't expect the results.
D. I do a lot more training than you and I am friends with most of the powerlifters on WP, I'm 220lbs, you are 120lbs, what do you think the outcome will be?
E. You're lucky that Lilya has told me to be more patient with you but as I said, you can sit on WP and be king of whingers, the darksiders and I will be moving in a forward motion.


As I said, I now have to go to training, I know how you sit here waiting for my response so you can give an instant reply.



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05 Jan 2013, 1:44 am

I've never understood guys with Arnie like muscles. Don't you only wanna work out enough to look good? Any further than that to me is a form of body dysmorphia.



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05 Jan 2013, 1:52 am

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The people who pay less, don't experience. Boo inspired me and look I've given advice to guys like IrishTurk and now look at them, they are banging chicks, maybe not swimming p**** but they are getting some action which like Boo said is more than most on here get.

A. I hardly log into OkCupid anymore because I simply don't need to, I have met enough people to be inactive from there and I am meeting on a regular basis.
B. I spend a lot of time making ends meet, training and studying so again, ironic that coming from someone with over 10'000 posts.
C. If people aren't willing to make the effort, they shouldn't expect the results.
D. I do a lot more training than you and I am friends with most of the powerlifters on WP, I'm 220lbs, you are 120lbs, what do you think the outcome will be?
E. You're lucky that Lilya has told me to be more patient with you but as I said, you can sit on WP and be king of whingers, the darksiders and I will be moving in a forward motion.


As I said, I now have to go to training, I know how you sit here waiting for my response so you can give an instant reply.

That sounds great, if you measure your life by how many random women you trick into bed, or how many people follow you even though you make fun of them. Not so much if you measure it with other things.


yep, thats why you kept flirting with girls while you had a gf. And then dare say its you're too cynical about relationships when reality is they dont work because of you.

10k posts with years to do it, our averages are pretty much the same. Difference is mine were being fun, friendly, and joking around with others. Its why ive managed to make dozens of friends from here. And by that I mean real friends, not the only friends cause they want some quick advice type and then turn against you type.

funny coming from a guy taking steroids. Why dont you cut those off and try doing some real effort in your workouts?

ohh look at that, predictables gonna predictable. And then you wonder why nobody takes you serious. You cant even hold an argument. Whats the excuse this time, test boosters? No wait you already used that one up. Roid rage? no impossible, its been proven by *insert unheard of study group* that theres no effects what so ever. Well, maybe its just you're seeking attention and ive made people not give it to you. That works.

lol, what she has told you is to stop using her as your tool against me. Yet you cant seem to get that in your head no matter how its said.


sadly I have an 11 hour shift tomorrow so i wont be able to enjoy another civil conversation with such an intellect. But Ill take a rain check!



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05 Jan 2013, 2:02 am

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Girls, I think you're missing the point of this thread.

This thread is NOT about the OP. It's an advice thread for other guys. ;)


yes, but whats the point of taking dieting advice from someone that weighs 500 lbs? Same concept applies to other types of advice


Facetious was what my comment above was. You, of all the members here, should've noticed.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:03 am

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Girls, I think you're missing the point of this thread.

This thread is NOT about the OP. It's an advice thread for other guys. ;)


yes, but whats the point of taking dieting advice from someone that weighs 500 lbs? Same concept applies to other types of advice


Facetious was what my comment above was. You, of all the members here, should've noticed.


i noticed, but i also noticed others hadnt. So I clarified with more humorous analogies.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:13 am

HEY MXH AND WOLFHEART let's not get another topic locked shall we? Do take it to PMs if you just can't resist, by the Gods.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:17 am

I'd rather these discussions carry on here in public. They are good to strengthen one's observation and judgement.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:25 am

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I'd rather these discussions carry on here in public. They are good to strengthen one's observation and judgement.

Exactly why I keep it all public. Sadly I have limits to what I use as fodder. Damn you ethics!



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05 Jan 2013, 2:35 am

MXH wrote:
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Girls, I think you're missing the point of this thread.

This thread is NOT about the OP. It's an advice thread for other guys. ;)


yes, but whats the point of taking dieting advice from someone that weighs 500 lbs? Same concept applies to other types of advice


Facetious was what my comment above was. You, of all the members here, should've noticed.


i noticed, but i also noticed others hadnt. So I clarified with more humorous analogies.


If you don't like these threads, don't read them but there are others who have like IrishTurk and they are now experiencing success on OkCupid. Every case has a different specific and that's why we have to approach these things individually, that's why people message me personally, my private messages are open.

To be honest, good luck to you and what happens between my girl is personal stuff, to be honest I confessed to her that I had sex and oral sex with another girl and it has been resolved. I have nothing to hide from anyone and there's nothing you can exploit, people make mistakes, people aren't perfect and I'm willing to admit that about myself instead of standing on a high throne and judging people like you but that's why people ask me for the advice.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:42 am

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I'd rather these discussions carry on here in public. They are good to strengthen one's observation and judgement.

Exactly why I keep it all public. Sadly I have limits to what I use as fodder. Damn you ethics!


I could understand if you were Russell Brand or the reincarnation of Casanova and why would they judge someone with a social disability anyway? you're not so I don't know why you act all high and mighty, have you had a girlfriend before?

First you take the mick out of disabled people, now you are acting all high and mighty but carry on and leave Lilya out of this, she said she doesn't want to be involved!



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05 Jan 2013, 2:44 am

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As I said, I now have to go to training, I know how you sit here waiting for my response so you can give an instant reply.


That was a very quick training.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:45 am

Jeez, why's everyone care so much. If you don't like Wolfheart's advice, make a snarky comment about it or something and move on with your life. There's no reason to make it some personal vendetta about Wolfheart attacking random unrelated aspects of his life. If you wanna be like "Hey Wolfheart ________ you're doing is unwise" then send him a PM. But this here seems quite less genuine concern and more just haterade, so to speak.

Besides, with his advice, as with any advice you can "take what is useful and discard what is not." And it certainly seems much is useful, based upon evidence. Also, I don't see the big deal here, all he's telling you here is not to take dark brooding depressing pictures and take a picture outside doing something. Hardly anything PUA "Alpha" whatever, it pretty much falls under common sense.



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05 Jan 2013, 2:54 am

MXH wrote:
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I'd rather these discussions carry on here in public. They are good to strengthen one's observation and judgement.

Exactly why I keep it all public. Sadly I have limits to what I use as fodder. Damn you ethics!


As I said, you're a funny little fella and I'm sure you're a lovely lad but if you keep bringing Lilya into this and making out I'm using her for some vendetta, you are more ridiculous than I thought, I have never judged Lilya once and she is a good friend of mine.