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MissCAP
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06 Jan 2013, 10:06 am

Shelby, thank you very much. I might have that going for me, but all it lands me is sex. I can get all the sex I want from jerk offs who only want that...but there is just so much more to me and I refuse to give pieces of myself away. I'm just being honest here...women ususally hate me and are VERY rude to me. I always hear..."I wish I were tall and thin" then they are vicious to me, it's unreal. In my brain, I am thinking, I can't help the way I was made. :( I have no friends, except the random guy who is hoping to score with me....it's kinda really lonely and crappy. But you're sweet, thank you.



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06 Jan 2013, 10:08 am

Tequila,
First of all, you are freakin hiliarious!! !! ! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! I love it! :D
I love that you are you and you don't give a **** what others think, that's perfect!
And thanks to you also :)



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06 Jan 2013, 3:58 pm

I'm almost there (34); i've given myself 5 more years to find someone who will commit to me, and then I start shopping for burial plots. Why? Because I need physical affection. Not sex, but I cannot live without being held, hugged, etc. Without it, I start acting out. So at this pint I think Kim about two months from flipping out and smashing things just so someone will touch me. It's lonely and painful knowing you don't have anyone to go to for love of any kind. :(
Yes, i've had kids but no, i'm but allowed to see them. And no, I don't have a family.



MissCAP
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06 Jan 2013, 4:32 pm

BIG hugs to you StrayCat!! ! You're not alone. You have us, I will cyber hug you all day because I know how you feel. I have to have affection also. I understand what you're feeling, I really do. If you ever need to chat, I'm here!



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06 Jan 2013, 6:08 pm

a lot of us lonely virgins have the same problems, i just wish more girls could see it in us... i need to feel loved, i need to feel like someone is always there for me


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07 Jan 2013, 1:30 am

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BlueMax,
my ex said I used it as a crutch. But I didn't. I am just me and I am different from most everyone I meet here where I live. Sorry about your ex, I guess it's just too hard for them to comprehend? I hate hints too. I am so direct and to the point and I would love if everyone else in this world was like that. I don't get hints.....just say what you want and what you mean, it's so simple. Are all your kids on the spectrum?


Interestingly, it seems like only my firstborn is (left) and my younger (right) is not. It makes me wonder if the unconfirmed report that my ex had been cheating on me is true... he kiiinda' looks like me though - same head shape. I really wish we'd been able to work on our communication before she gave up and walked away... I can't speak "hinteese" and she refused to speak "dumb direct". I'd barely even heard about Aspergers at that time...

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MissCAP
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07 Jan 2013, 10:12 am

BlueMax,
Awww, what a beautiful family you have, precious!!
I think he looks like you. My sister who has the same dad as me isn't an aspie. She does have a lot of anxiety, but that's about it.
I know where you're coming from. If I would've known about Aspergers back then...what a different life I would have now. I'm sorry she didn't have the patience. I am sure that she will regret it terribly bad in the future...I do.



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08 Jan 2013, 11:45 am

MissCAP wrote:
I have even more of a hard time meeting a good guy, who wants to be with me, for the long run.... I have my kiddos, but I long to be loved. I have so much love to give, so much to offer and yet I feel that I am withering away. Any advice on meeting/dating/talking to others is accepted :)


Given the number of somewhat desperate males who congregate here, I suspect that you will hook up with someone more-or-less immediately. Of course each of us comes with our own bundle of eccentricities and assorted issues, but we're probably very different from folks you've met in Tennesee.