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Phenom
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28 Jan 2013, 12:45 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Phenom wrote:
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Nooo, join the dark side! Follow the source of power!

I need followers. :skull:

More like what you perceive to be the source of power. I am my own man, I follow NO ONE. I though It was funny though. :lol:
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I'm not sure, but doesn't this occur even more often to girls?

Yes.
georgiacbsmith wrote:
But they shouldn't be claiming you're gay because of it. That's just them being bitchy because their feelings got hurt, don't take it personally!

This is probably very true.



كن ذئباً و إلا أكلتك الذئاب

"be wolf otherwise the wolves will eat you" - Arab proverb, one of the first things boys are taught here.

So my advice to you stays still, don't be p****, not even with a woman since she already has her own loool.

Hmmm....This mentality is what's ruing the world I feel.

Now don't get me wrong, I am actually incredibly aggressive when it is necessary, but in everyday situations this type of mentality is overkill.

Another thought, if one is always following, how does anything new be created?

Thanks for your input.



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28 Jan 2013, 12:48 am

It's always been that way, my friend.



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28 Jan 2013, 12:50 am

MCalavera wrote:
It's always been that way, my friend.

What has always been what way? Your being a little too general, please be a little more specific.

It's interesting how I get these take advantage or be taken advantage of solutions, But yet aspies want NT to understand or incorporate the needs of Aspies into society. From a NT perspective, using this mentality, would you give a damn about an Aspie, because this insinuates that you wouldn't and IMO this is very hypocritical. Let's not spread what we are trying to fight.

I do understand the frustration though, but lets keep everything in perspective.



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28 Jan 2013, 6:36 am

Lol don't listen to these guys, they've been encouraging PUA since the beginning! :lol: :wink:


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28 Jan 2013, 6:37 am

Nah, I'm referring to the harshness of the world.

I'm saying the mentality the OP is referring to has always been there. It's nothing new.



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28 Jan 2013, 6:56 am

i guess the many ruin it for the few...or maybe the few that ruin it for the many?
all i know is i used to take friendliness and kindness from the opposite sex as genuine gestures of ...friendliness or kindness. Only to find out further down the track that wasn't the intention at all.
Now I just assume that there's a double meaning to these things, not because i'm distrusting of guys but mostly because i don't want to get hurt and feel foolish..again.