What type of people from the opposite gender do you usually

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mostly younger women (though recently have been talking to more range of women).
but beside that. I have no idea. Women that seem cool to me. Be my best guess

Asian nerds mostly, umm probably aspies, if there not aspie then it'll typically be guys that are a little socially awkward. There range from moderate to intelligent with interest in video games, anime, japanese stuff. Online dating will bring a slightly greater variety or white guys in the mix. But swear that every guy who I originally met in person that has liked me (or I suspected) has been asian and nerdy. I dont mind *shrug*, my bf is asian and nerdy.

(mind you, I am in high school)

What I seem to attract: (as both friends and people that may be attracted as more than friends)
- geeky/nerdy boys
- video game addicts
- artsy types
- very unpopular people (often with a mental or medical diability; EX: one of them wears adult diapers...)
- "wanna be" cow boys/girls (I have horses, was raised on the farm)
- a lot of gay/bi people
- a lot of the popular kids will talk to me and tell me their secrets, however, they also call me "the secret keeper". so I figure this only happens because I don't talk, therefore their secrets are safe with me, and they don't know my actual name (dawning of the "secret keeper" title...) so even if I did tell, no one would believe the kid that no one knows..?
- punk/grunge people; they seem to take me as "one of their kind" for my AS "aloof-ness" (too nervous to really speak), my clothes with holes(no money+prefer to keep the same old things), and my anxiety (too much adrenalin/nervousness around people making my eyes always VERY dialated) to be punk/grunge like them...

What I am attracted to:
- seemingly VERY extroverted, loud, and somewhat obnoxious people... (come on, everyone at some point wanted to be one of the popular kids)
- musicians
- art people who will talk art to me
- geeky boys. EX: one of them is covered with acne, all he can talk about is photography, he has glasses from the 90s, etc. the other is a ginger who has more freckles than I do(in the spring/summer it looks like a kid took a crayola marker and poked freckles all over me), again with glasses from the 90s, socially awkward, etc.
- I guess, with the exception of the first bullet point, I am attracted to people "in my league"...?

(this mostly takes place online)

Girls with low self-esteem and guys with boundary issues. orz

Someone like this! [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ClDTkYqKP8M[/youtube]

It is ALWAYS
Nearly 6ft tall (or would have been without stunted growth)
38DD-38DDD/E
Brunette
Anti-Feminist
Abuse Victim
Bisexual
Nymphomanic
Gamer
Likes cooking
Very little artistic interest
IQ 130-145 (or would have that much if they didn't do ridiculous amounts of drugs when they were younger)
Usually they are girls who are mistreated in the workplace by their employers
Usually their parents tried to push manners on them as a kid but got lax about it in their teenage years (or weren't involved much in their teen years)
Pronounce words differently than the rest of the state/nation(saying court-eous instead of curt-eous)
I'm sure there's more that I'm forgetting...most of the girls I date end up being friends with each other if they talk and if they don't only because they are jealous of the other one.

Can't say I'm complaining but I'd like a little more variety (it's the spice of life right?)

Older men

Guys who want to have sex with me. All races, ages shapes and sizes. Very rarely do I think they are interested in a relationship.

Drunk guys
People with "issues"
IQ 70-80 (or at least I guess their IQ's to be in that range)
Computer/gamer geeks
Low self-esteem
Bullied in school
Lone wolves

People are rarely attracted to me on first encounter offline. This is just a sample of guys I've interacted with on dating sites etc.

Personable thrill seekers.
Guys who find remoteness a challenge.
Bi-curious women and lesbians.
Guys looking for a second mommy