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15 Feb 2013, 7:50 pm

I've had the odd obsession with fave celebrities and I'm wearing a low cut top! Could I.....be a psycho? 8O



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15 Feb 2013, 8:19 pm

why you say psycho girlfriend, i think of this

[img][800:765]http://images6.fanpop.com/image/photos/32800000/creepy-overly-attached-girlfriend-32818606-1086-765.jpg[/img]


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15 Feb 2013, 8:30 pm

When she trys to stab you with a knife because the voices in her head told her so.


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15 Feb 2013, 8:33 pm

blue_bean wrote:
Could I.....be a psycho? 8O


Yeah, you are, but that's cool. :P



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15 Feb 2013, 9:28 pm

Dillogic wrote:
blue_bean wrote:
Could I.....be a psycho? 8O


Yeah, you are, but that's cool. :P


Don't you know it!

I think I was a female abattoir worker in a past life :P



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15 Feb 2013, 9:31 pm

There's no such thing as "psycho" in the DSM anyway.

But, regardless, some of the traits depicted (some not all) are red flags to look out for.



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15 Feb 2013, 9:35 pm

blue_bean wrote:
Don't you know it!


Fear not pretty blue, for I was [and am] an obsessive monster! Obsessozilla!

I was a bean counter in my previous one (ha, "bean"). :P



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16 Feb 2013, 4:50 am

hyperlexian wrote:
that video was kind of mean. and it misused the word psycho.


You dont get it do you?
As long as it doesnt use the phrase nice guy nobody cares about a video labelling others in a mean way for no real reason.
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16 Feb 2013, 5:03 am

spongy wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
that video was kind of mean. and it misused the word psycho.


You dont get it do you?
As long as it doesnt use the phrase nice guy nobody cares about a video labelling others in a mean way for no real reason.
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:lol: yeah, that sort of joke is lost on me.


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16 Feb 2013, 6:25 am

Explain it to me, philosophers, why the video is mean?



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16 Feb 2013, 6:42 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Explain it to me, philosophers, why the video is mean?


I wouldnt say the video is mean.

However we have had every video about nice guys with complaints about how mean the video is because its stereotyping real males and this video is doing something similar with females.


Also: I happen to point out hypocrisy whenever I see it and actively complaining about threads with videos stereotyping males while making threads with videos stereotyping females is a perfect example of that



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16 Feb 2013, 6:52 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Explain it to me, philosophers, why the video is mean?

"in the end, most guys will tell you that even the most lovable women in the world are just the tiniest bit crazy."

what is a better word than "mean"?


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16 Feb 2013, 6:55 am

Because it takes seemingly innocuous and regular activities like wanting to look good when going out, being obsessed with celebrities, and getting upset when the [controlling] bf tries to dictate who the gf can and cannot flirt with (read: speak to) and turns them into hallmarks of someone that is actually an 'psycho-killer'.



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16 Feb 2013, 7:01 am

periphery wrote:
Because it takes seemingly innocuous and regular activities like wanting to look good when going out, being obsessed with celebrities, and getting upset when the [controlling] bf tries to dictate who the gf can and cannot flirt with (read: speak to) and turns them into hallmarks of someone that is actually an 'psycho-killer'.

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16 Feb 2013, 7:23 am

periphery wrote:
Because it takes seemingly innocuous and regular activities like wanting to look good when going out, being obsessed with celebrities, and getting upset when the [controlling] bf tries to dictate who the gf can and cannot flirt with (read: speak to) and turns them into hallmarks of someone that is actually an 'psycho-killer'.


Does this sort of comment ring a bell boo?

Its the standard reply on those threads you despise so much if you tweak some of the specifics



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16 Feb 2013, 9:06 am

periphery wrote:
Because it takes seemingly innocuous and regular activities like wanting to look good when going out, being obsessed with celebrities, and getting upset when the [controlling] bf tries to dictate who the gf can and cannot flirt with (read: speak to) and turns them into hallmarks of someone that is actually an 'psycho-killer'.


Except that's not what the video implied. Slapping another guy's ass despite your boyfriend's request not to be flirty with others is a sh*t move. Sure, the video is done with some humor and exaggerates things for the sake of humor, but many girls (specifically with HPD) do tend to be uncomfortably flirty with other guys even in front of their shocked and confused boyfriends, and I think that should be condemned and discouraged rather than enabled.

If the boyfriend doesn't have a problem with his girlfriend flirting with others, that's fine. But if he does, then such a request ought to be respected by a girl who considers herself to be decent.