Ageing and Attraction: How to get attractive skin
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There are ways to increase natural hormones like exercising and getting the right diet.
Ahh, totally ok with that.
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How is that going to help the guy like MR20 or Brianruns well they have to make a statement to the girl first that they are of better value physically than others guys whether it's by pumping iron in the gym, wearing smart clothes, having a fashionable haircut or even taking care of their skin which would be the first step.
It's definitely charm and humour. Consider that I have some people tell me now that they find it easy to listen to every word I say... positive energy is the reason why too.
You don't need to centre anyone out. I know exactly the types of people you are referring to without mentioning anyone's names. I don't think it's fair to those guys to point them out in the forum. But I do understand that you are trying to encourage people to help themselves and that is my goal here as well.
I believe the best way to get help for anyone complaining about their lack of dating experience is to first change the way they view themselves, and it doesn't necessarily have to be physical fitness to start with, or change their wardrobe. I would personally recommend self-help books or spiritual enlightenment myself as it has done wonders for me. Once you can reflect positive energy, others will take note of it. Of course, I can't tell a person to do any of this, they have to want to do this on their own.
And rabbitts- the solution for your acne problem is written in your post. Maybe stop thinking about it altogether and it will go away. You might think it's a long shot, but go for it.
That can work but how do you project that if you can't grasp it? These are simple methods that people can grasp and looks do matter to some degree. As we have discovered in threads, it's about how you convey yourself and how you come across that is important but looking younger or smoother will help to an extent because it can represent someone that takes care of themselves and that can be attractive to a woman as well.
I know that from my experience, it was next to impossible to get a date unless I changed the way I viewed myself. I didn't view myself in a positive light. Once I became enlightened, I realized the truth about myself. I only recall once where I got rejected because of autism or aspergers. I believe lack of people skills were the main reason as to why I got rejected often and maybe an unnattractive addiction to smoking.
Furthermore, appearance may mean attraction to women, but truthfully, the most attractive quality a person can have is good people skills. One might want to reflect on how they treated the waiting staff at a restaurant on a date if they want another idea as to why they might have been rejected.
When it comes to enlightenment, I prefer people to PM me and I can point them in that direction. People don't like me being pushy with them, so PM me and I will offer some assistance. Otherwise I would suggest people in the forum to:
Read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie for soemthing non-spiritual. The book has some very good points on how to be friendly and respectful towards others and make them genuinely like you better.
I know that from my experience, it was next to impossible to get a date unless I changed the way I viewed myself. I didn't view myself in a positive light. Once I became enlightened, I realized the truth about myself. I only recall once where I got rejected because of autism or aspergers. I believe lack of people skills were the main reason as to why I got rejected often and maybe an unnattractive addiction to smoking.
Furthermore, appearance may mean attraction to women, but truthfully, the most attractive quality a person can have is good people skills. One might want to reflect on how they treated the waiting staff at a restaurant on a date if they want another idea as to why they might have been rejected.
When it comes to enlightenment, I prefer people to PM me and I can point them in that direction. People don't like me being pushy with them, so PM me and I will offer some assistance. Otherwise I would suggest people in the forum to:
Read How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie for soemthing non-spiritual. The book has some very good points on how to be friendly and respectful towards others and make them genuinely like you better.
You're still not getting the point, for some it's not always about attitude and mentality, I believe you can make positive changes to yourself with the right attitude, yes but will simply having the right attitude make someone successful? No, it's good that you are making observations but you have to remember people on the spectrum are individuals and varies. What worked for you might not work for someone else and so on.
You could believe you are the best darts player in the world and that might edge you on a bit but you still aren't going to be as great as people who are naturally talented in playing that sport.
Honestly the only times my acne really clears up is when I spend time (a week or more) in places which are cool and damp.. so Northern Europe.. the Pacific Northwest.. and I presume if I ever make it up to the Maritimes in Canada or maybe Maine it might be the same thing. I'm not sure if this is entirely psychological (because that is my favorite climactic type, thus I feel more comfortable there) or if it's actually an environmental cause..
Ah, if only that was true for me! xD I live in Washington state and my skin is anything but nice! I do think climate type has some correlation to skin condition, though. Well, a dry climate would definitely take a toll on your skin, and I'm sure traveling to damper climate would give your skin some much needed hydration.
Honestly the only times my acne really clears up is when I spend time (a week or more) in places which are cool and damp.. so Northern Europe.. the Pacific Northwest.. and I presume if I ever make it up to the Maritimes in Canada or maybe Maine it might be the same thing. I'm not sure if this is entirely psychological (because that is my favorite climactic type, thus I feel more comfortable there) or if it's actually an environmental cause..
Ah, if only that was true for me! xD I live in Washington state and my skin is anything but nice! I do think climate type has some correlation to skin condition, though. Well, a dry climate would definitely take a toll on your skin, and I'm sure traveling to damper climate would give your skin some much needed hydration.
I live in the south, so we have plenty of moisture in the air, it's just got a high ambiant temprature.. so just as with hot showers, it kind of opens up all your pores and lets all sorts of crap get into them.
Holy hell. I was madly in love with that man as a teen. DAMN. \m/
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Simple. Be a dodgy goth for 20+ years, never go in the sun, and wear sunscreen every day.
In all seriousness, I have zero wrinkles at 45, smooth, flawless skin, and nary a line on my face (or anywhere else, for that matter). It also helps to have good genes...
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Googled him, I knew he looked familiar. I'm Sur the real reason is more not sharing his 80s musicians drug habits helped him retain both his looks and voice.
Googled him, I knew he looked familiar. I'm Sur the real reason is more not sharing his 80s musicians drug habits helped him retain both his looks and voice.
If he is 54 and has never used botox/had surgery (including that skin peeling thing) he is looking damn good. But I'd say it's less to do with not taking drugs (after all plenty of people don't take drugs and they still age) and more do to with genetics. Having a good diet probably helped too but again there's many other factors, the main one being genetics. In all honesty he looks kind of odd to me. I mean yes it looks pretty good in that photo but when you say he's 54 it doesn't sit right with me because he looks like he's not aging gracefully and still trying to kick about like he's in his 20's or something. The male version of mutton dressed up as lamb.
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Keanu Reeves is another example of someone who's ageing well.
http://www.eatliver.com/i.php?n=5833
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O_O We have immortals.
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Ahhh...and there's yet another one I used to swoon over, back in the day. Muahahahaha! Perhaps there's a pattern, here.
Incidentally, Johnny Depp's aging pretty well, too, imho.
I'm guessing it's all that blood drinking/bathing in the blood of virgins that's keeping*them* young, as well.
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And here's more proof that these tips work, 48 messages I have received in the past 12 hours of mainly girls that range from 7-10 in the looks factors. If you have the presentation, you have an opening and the opening is like an audition, guys who struggle to benefit from dates on here would benefit from these tips. I'm not saying these tips are going to be the determining factors in a relationship but what they do is open you up to a wider audience.
Now I can be more selective in which women I choose to reply to.
It's like finding a job, the more responses and offers you receive, the more that you are able to have freedom of choice in what women you want to pursue.
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