Women are not attracted to me because I'm not 'masculine'?

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Maybe I'm special, but personally, I've always been far more attracted to slightly feminine guys rather than typical "masculine" guys. For instance, I strongly dislike any facial hair and too bulky build in a guy and tend to prefer "beautiful", more androgyne men.




Then again, I am openly bi, so maybe that has an effect, too

Anyhow, each for their own: I wouldn't be too worried about what other people say about your appearance. I do know as a fact that a lot of girls prefer less masculine look.

Masculinity isn't about not being able to grow a beard or being short or tall. Sure, women tend to be attracted to the physical signs of masculinity, just as men are attracted to the physical signs of femininity. What women are attracted to more is confidence, ability, decency, and a level head. Carry yourself like a man, and that'll do more for you than any beard. Shoulders back, chin up, all that.

And there's also a huge community of women who are obsessed with "pretty boys". I blame Yaoi. So if you can make that work for you, do so.

I'm attracted to androgyny and love skinny pretty boys, they're my favorite eye candy. Especially if they have nice eyes, longer hair, sleek dress style, little broody looking. Eyeliner is nice too.

Confess: Was a teenage goth, I guess it stuck. Pleading fifth on the yaoi.

wow you have such lovely helpful friends. what a sweetheats and what AMAZING feedback they give. I dont think i´ve seen anyone give useful tips like those

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i would NEVER consider these people as friends

There's almost a hyperfocus on your physical "flaws". I wonder if those are the same goggles you look through when searching for dating material?

By the way, I like men that are slightly feminine looking. In fact, a lot of women do.

I like men that are tall, slim and not too muscular. I also love it when a guys has half long hair. Full lips are superhot (feminine) and I also like sweet, generous big eyes.





Superhot.

Some girls prefer Androgeny........Look at the vampire from twilight.

Your friends sound really insensitive, as well as shallow when it comes to their choice in men. I can honestly say that there are plenty of women out there who like men no matter whether they fit into a certain type or not, including me! Sometimes I'm their 'type', sometimes not, but personality has to come first for me.

He asked his friends to be honest and they were. I wish I had friends like that. Usually they just disappear and I never find out why.

yes, at least they were honest. i'd rather be around honest but bad people, than nice but backstabbing people.

While I appreciate their honest opinion I think it's incorrect imo. Or rather, not true for all women.