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15 May 2013, 4:38 pm

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[I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I just think people are wired differently, and maybe you are not wired for commitment at all, just like Kjas (maybe) or me. I definitely agree with the "f**k their morals" sentiment. I like your perspective on "entitlement." I have never thought of it that way, but it's maybe just a different version of what I do feel.


I am emotional. I am wired for commitment - just wary of it. I *cannot* do one night stands, I tried once and failed... spectacularly. :lol:

It just seems that people with their head screwed on straight and who won't leave as soon as it's convenient for them are extremely rare... and if I am going to commit, I would rather commit to someone who is worth committing to - and a viable part of that is them having their head screwed on straight, who won't leave at the drop of a hat.


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15 May 2013, 4:53 pm

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[I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I just think people are wired differently, and maybe you are not wired for commitment at all, just like Kjas (maybe) or me. I definitely agree with the "f**k their morals" sentiment. I like your perspective on "entitlement." I have never thought of it that way, but it's maybe just a different version of what I do feel.


I am emotional. I am wired for commitment - just wary of it. I *cannot* do one night stands, I tried once and failed... spectacularly. :lol:

It just seems that people with their head screwed on straight and who won't leave as soon as it's convenient for them are extremely rare... and if I am going to commit, I would rather commit to someone who is worth committing to - and a viable part of that is them having their head screwed on straight, who won't leave at the drop of a hat.


How can one fail in a spectacular way? :p



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15 May 2013, 4:54 pm

By doing sex wrong?



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15 May 2013, 4:55 pm

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By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?



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15 May 2013, 4:58 pm

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By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


As soon as I read that I did an involuntary kegel.


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15 May 2013, 4:59 pm

I wish.
I didn't even get that far. :lol:

Some years ago there was a total hunk who ended up hitting on me and I was in a rather capricious mood and really did not give much of a f*ck about anything - so I decided, if I was going to try it, why not try it with the perfect specimen? (and really, he was absolutely gorgeous, with a great body)

Things went relatively well until we got to the hotel - once we got in the room and started kissing, and then he tried to take my top off, was the point at which I totally freaked out and shut down......... ran into the bathroom. Came out, said "I'm sorry, I can't do this", ran out of the room, sprinted down to the lobby - paid for the room (it was the only decent thing I could do) and left the poor dude there wondering WTF just happened! :lol:

Proof that Kjas really does run away from dudes she likes. :razz:


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15 May 2013, 4:59 pm

Kinme wrote:
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By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


Do you live in Michigan too?



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15 May 2013, 5:01 pm

meems wrote:
Kinme wrote:
PsychoSarah wrote:
By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


As soon as I read that I did an involuntary kegel.


LOLOLOLOLOL.



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15 May 2013, 5:02 pm

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Kinme wrote:
PsychoSarah wrote:
By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


Do you live in Michigan too?


Kind of. I come here to visit scubasteve (boyfriend from WP).



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15 May 2013, 5:02 pm

PsychoSarah wrote:
Kinme wrote:
PsychoSarah wrote:
By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


Do you live in Michigan too?


I do, what da ya know! :lol:


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15 May 2013, 5:02 pm

What is a kegel?



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15 May 2013, 5:03 pm

Kjas wrote:
I wish.
I didn't even get that far. :lol:

Some years ago there was a total hunk who ended up hitting on me and I was in a rather capricious mood and really did not give much of a f*ck about anything - so I decided, if I was going to try it, why not try it with the perfect specimen? (and really, he was absolutely gorgeous, with a great body)

Things went relatively well until we got to the hotel - once we got in the room and started kissing, and then he tried to take my top off, was the point at which I totally freaked out and shut down......... ran into the bathroom. Came out, said "I'm sorry, I can't do this", ran out of the room, sprinted down to the lobby - paid for the room (it was the only decent thing I could do) and left the poor dude there wondering WTF just happened! :lol:

Proof that Kjas really does run away from dudes she likes. :razz:


Wow, lol.



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15 May 2013, 5:03 pm

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What is a kegel?


It's an exercise for the... kalamazoo.



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15 May 2013, 5:04 pm

appletheclown wrote:
PsychoSarah wrote:
Kinme wrote:
PsychoSarah wrote:
By doing sex wrong?


Maybe she put fireworks in her....... kalamazoo....?


Do you live in Michigan too?


I do, what da ya know! :lol:


Three people in Michigan? MEETUP TIME!



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15 May 2013, 5:06 pm

Yay :P 8)


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15 May 2013, 5:08 pm

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Yay :P 8)


Well, actually, 4 people.