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Tyri0n
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17 May 2013, 12:38 am
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You shouldn't settle for unattractive girls (someone who's a 4 or worse). I did once and it was not a happy relationship. Some ugly girls are completely oblivious to their own lack of qualities and will gladly hit on men more attractive than them; also, since these girls get hit on less than other girls, they're more likely to take the active role.
Many men with AS are kept in an artificially low league because of poor social skills. The best thing you can do, is to find a workaround for this. Every social flaw (i.e. the smaller your friend circle, the less you like to party etc.) is something you somehow need to compensate for. Sadly, finding girls who aren't into partying, clubbing, binge drinking and all that can be a tough task...
Not if you go to the gym. There are tons of girls that stare at me, some of them smile, actually quite a few. The only thing I need to get past is noticing what the heck the ladies are doing when I am around them. I feel quite clueless sometimes.
I've always interpreted staring as "man that guy is f*****g weird as f**k."
19 May 2013, 2:14 pm
You shouldn't settle for unattractive girls (someone who's a 4 or worse). I did once and it was not a happy relationship. Some ugly girls are completely oblivious to their own lack of qualities and will gladly hit on men more attractive than them; also, since these girls get hit on less than other girls, they're more likely to take the active role.
Many men with AS are kept in an artificially low league because of poor social skills. The best thing you can do, is to find a workaround for this. Every social flaw (i.e. the smaller your friend circle, the less you like to party etc.) is something you somehow need to compensate for. Sadly, finding girls who aren't into partying, clubbing, binge drinking and all that can be a tough task...
Not if you go to the gym. There are tons of girls that stare at me, some of them smile, actually quite a few. The only thing I need to get past is noticing what the heck the ladies are doing when I am around them. I feel quite clueless sometimes.
I've always interpreted staring as "man that guy is f***ing weird as f**k."
Eh, yeah me too - or at least I've spilt something on me.
Tyri0n
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19 May 2013, 2:50 pm
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29 Jun 2013, 4:45 am
You're average looking
A better haircut and a bit of gym would work wonders
29 Jun 2013, 5:22 am
29 Jun 2013, 7:21 am
You look fine. Definitely better then a lot of guys
And I understand that about the gym. I find it depressingly boring as well :')
29 Jun 2013, 1:39 pm
Hah - a little while after I posted that I went out for a stroll.
I don't know if it was sleep deprivation that made me imagine this but I got called out on the holiday beard I have grown (it grows very quickly). Walking along a street in Bloomsbury some random stranger who must have been in her late 30s or 40s - and short enough to be able to sidle up to me without noticing pointed out I'd end up like some old fellow across the street with a white beard if I didn't shave. I was woken from a reverie so merely grunted a monosyllable back. She walked on ahead of me and seemed to smile at me with a sort of half-pert, half-sardonic smile and then said something about how I shouldn't hide my '[some adverb ending with ly] face', to which I intoned 'really' with a degree of incredulity, to which I got the response 'of course'. She looked back for a while and started walking off, I had gone as red as a beet and decided to walk off into a side alley to avoid any more embarrassing conversation. Not quite sure what kind of joke this was but I pretty much failed the rapid-fire repartee game (again). I need time to compose words and alcohol...
The ironies of life.
