dating is competive. ( rewording)

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28 May 2013, 9:10 am

Bill, go to Japan!

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28 May 2013, 11:18 am

Desperation is the biggest turn off in the world. Relax.

Oh, and "all you get is a new female friend"? As we all know, a woman's personality is nothing but a sh***y consolation prize... :roll:

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28 May 2013, 11:49 am

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Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

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28 May 2013, 12:12 pm

Yuzu wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

It isn't meant to offend! I love Japan, and was just thinking ladies would be interested in him there then here, not implying anything at all.
Just saying going to Japan might increase his wow factor, I know I would be happier there, with a job, a car, and a Japanese visa with a driving license, I could do voice overs or deliver baked goods or something. Sorry if it hurt your feelings, all I said was go to Japan.

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28 May 2013, 12:45 pm

appletheclown wrote:

Yuzu wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

I don't know why you think Japanese women would be interested in him more than Americans would. How would it increase his wow factor? just by being a foreiner?
You might be right, but if you have never been there you shouldn't assume things like that.
It just irks me that American men think Japanese women are easily impressed by them.

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28 May 2013, 12:56 pm

Yuzu wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Yuzu wrote:

appletheclown wrote:

Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

I don't think that. I am just saying seeing new faces might help. It would be the same for him moving anywhere. I don't think that I could easily impress a Japanese woman very easily, In fact I like the idea of having to go out of my way to impress any one, as long as I was able to do it. I may never even be graced by even seeing a Japanese woman in her homeland at all, and going there would be an honor to me, having the company of any woman in love with me a godsend, so don't worry about it. I doesn't mean I won't give up going there and finding out.

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28 May 2013, 1:09 pm

appletheclown wrote:

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Yuzu wrote:

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Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

Maybe I was too hard on you. You're just a kid still. I just didn't want you to become one of those men who pursue women in Asia because they can't get anybody local.
I hope you'll visit Japan someday and if you do try to impress them not by being a foreigner but with your personality and sincerity.

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28 May 2013, 1:51 pm

Yuzu wrote:

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Yuzu wrote:

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Bill, go to Japan!

What the hell does that mean?

Will do.

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28 May 2013, 6:19 pm

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since my original thread, might have offended some people. I decide to delete it. I wasn't trying too.

I try to reword so it won't be as offensive: but it does sucks when you so many men out there,who have better social skills than me, smarter and make more money than me.
that also likes the same type of women I like.

Not all women are equal either. Dating really isn't competitive. Where problems start is when people are not self aware and do not know the right fit for them (I am quite guilty of this as well). Most dating problems can be traced to lack of self-awareness.

my dating problem are two thing
1- Im too eccentric for many women
2- but the women who are perfect for me, are dating other guys.
If men stop dating the women I like, I would have a better chance of romance.

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28 May 2013, 6:22 pm

That's not your problem - as Tyri0n pointed out, it's your complete lack of self awareness that is your problem.
Continue to blame everything else but you is the easy way out, and you'll never get anywhere by doing it.

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28 May 2013, 6:23 pm

girly_aspie wrote:

Desperation is the biggest turn off in the world. Relax.

Oh, and "all you get is a new female friend"? As we all know, a woman's personality is nothing but a sh***y consolation prize... :roll:

if I was desperate, I would being going after ugly girls I don't like. I am going after girls I like.
I never said having a female friend is a consolation prize. where do you people get these thing from any ways.

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28 May 2013, 6:27 pm

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I do blame myself, Im eccentric male, which alot of women don't like ( or date guys who are eccentric) and it's very
hard for me to fake a different personality.

but there are women who do like me, who do enjoy talking to me, but they are married. I am serious.
it just the perfect women for me, are dating other men.

I just run into married women all the time, I don't why, it just how it is.

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28 May 2013, 6:30 pm

Those women wouldn't date you even if they were single - it's just a convenient and true excuse so they don't have to tell you the real reason because they don't want to be "mean".
Don't delude yourself.

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28 May 2013, 6:35 pm

Kjas wrote:

well, I think your wrong.

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28 May 2013, 6:38 pm

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I don't think you have ever met any of these married women I know.

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28 May 2013, 6:45 pm

it like god forbid, any women could actual like me, of course not, married women who get along with me very well,
are just faking it. yeah, they really hate my guts. Yeah, whatever.

I admit I have faults, but come on, You folks are making it look like, that no women ever could like me, ever.
I have female friends for crying out loud, are they faking it too. Do they hate me,too.

maybe 90% of women will never date me, but perhaps there are 10% of women that would.
and I have had 2 ex girlfriend before too.

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