Interracial Dating and double standards

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My gosh it sounds like you had a lucky escape, to be turned down for a date by such outspokenly critical and racist women.

Okay. Why did they say that? Do they really not want the men they despise and reject to be happy?

It's the same concept that was behind southern white men lynching black men who were rumored to have had sexual relations with white women.

White people are f*****g stupid.

When I see a White chick with a Black dude, I'm happy for both of them.

That particular site is geared towards Western men seeking non-Western (including particularly Asian, South American, and Eastern European) women--not specifically Asian women, although Asian ladies are prominently featured. But, the site is more about escaping Western civilization and finding happiness abroad--and, of course, the local ladies do figure significantly into the equation.

Perhaps I should mention (or maybe I shouldn't) that when I see an Asian chick with a White dude, my usual reaction is "Wow. She is GORGEOUS!"

Yes, WHY?

Yes, enlighten us!

Really? I see plenty of mediocre looking Asian girls dating white boys.

I was thinking the same thing. Is she gorgeous because she's with the white dude???? Do only gorgeous Asians get with white dudes????

Me too. A lot of Asian women in their home cultures have a propensity to starve themselves and avoid the sun. So unattractive!

The modern ones who eat normally, work our, and go I the sun can be good though.

At the risk of being convicted of sexism, I've mulled over my own theory this afternoon.

It isn't really racism at work: the ladies would have reacted the same way if Fnord had suddenly brought home a lovely and gorgeous Ukrainian wife, or even some Hollywood starlet.

Women in America (and possibly elsewhere to varying extents) tend to be ruthlessly competitive and excruciatingly status-conscious.

These particular ladies regarded (and still regard) Fnord as being below them socially. They felt that Fnord's solution should have been either to get himself a similarly-low status White woman, or to spend the rest of his life feeling sorry for himself for not being good enough.

Now, with a lovely Filipina, Fnord has sidestepped their social expectations, their hierarchy, and smashed their social superiority. Their expressed hatred of Asian girls, for "stealing" men that they didn't want in the first place, is merely a futile attempt to defend and reassert their social superiority.

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" is as true today as it was when the phrase was coined and when people actually believed in the existence of a literal Hell.

Also, it really annoys these ladies that Fnord has rejected their social expectations for him, and that he truly has no reason to feel bothered by their looking down on him and considering him to be an inferior specimen.

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Oh, most of them look mighty fine to me.

À chacun son goût.

I already knew this, but after reading/ going to that website tyrion posted it is soo true that love and dating sucks in America for 90% of the men. I like foreign women too, I'm now planning out my career to where I'll be able to travel abroad now thanks to that website.

Enjoy!

Well, except for the racists, I think that if the situation involved a White woman who had no chance of mating with a local White man (for whatever reason--perceived low social status, morbid obesity, mental retardation, or whatever), and if this White woman found love and happiness with a non-White man, then most White men would simply say "good for her!" They wouldn't feel at all threatened, wouldn't ask "why are these so-and-sos taking all of our women?", and really wouldn't want her either to hold out for a White man of similar status or to stay alone and feel bad about herself, just so that the White men could continue feeling superior. If they don't want her, they don't want her, and that's all there is to it.