Aspie Overthinking = Forever Alone

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auntblabby
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30 Sep 2013, 2:38 am

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I don't work out as often as I should, but I found out Wednesday (at the doctor's) that over the past year and a half I somehow managed to lose 30 pounds without dieting or doing much strenuous exercise. So if I did take it more seriously, maybe I'd stop looking like Jonah Hill.

I hope your doc checked your insulin/blood sugar levels.



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30 Sep 2013, 2:38 am

Over thinking causes a lot of my problems. Pity it's hard to fix.



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30 Sep 2013, 2:39 am

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Do you sh** money?

More or less.

I mean I'm not rich but if a girl is honestly expecting to me pick up a miserable 9 to 5 somewhere just so I can take her on a vacation then I'm probably better off forever alone.



You have your own business you mean, that equals job or even better.

Honestly, sh*****g money describes it better than business. :lol:

Let's just chalk it all up to a very kind late relative that I'm forever in debt to.


Umm.... I am not sure whether you're entrepreneur or freelancer or thief lol

but what about the other things?

None of the above. :lol:


*scratching head*
um, whatever.

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I have a car and my own place. I don't work out as often as I should, but I found out Wednesday (at the doctor's) that over the past year and a half I somehow managed to lose 30 pounds without dieting or doing much strenuous exercise. So if I did take it more seriously, maybe I'd stop looking like Jonah Hill.


Aha, now go away and do some running.



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30 Sep 2013, 2:40 am

They did bloodwork but it'll be a little while before the results come back.



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30 Sep 2013, 2:51 am

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being in a relationship is how I learned what overthinking does to romance even though it might be less applicable. Everytime I overthink something, it causes problems.

Basically, I agree w/ u, and that is why.


I knows. Thinking wins VS Love. That's why my chess club is full of highly ranked bitter old men. Welcome to team Letch. Or... MetalLetch.

Its a giant robot version of me with laser beam eyes, that shoot love.

If you had a robot that shot love, ppl here would be paying you to shoot them. That would be awkward.

Does this team have a mascot? or is it the robot?


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30 Sep 2013, 2:55 am

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This is a heck of a list. Maybe your partner is dumb.

she most certainly is NOT. :hmph:
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Maybe you love your partner.

she is the first person outside of family I was able to love. :heart: because she accepted me just as I am. :mrgreen:
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Maybe thinking is bad and you should stick with the love part like you're doin', and keep settin' a good example. It seems to be working out swell. Welcome to team Letch... well... you were already on this team since getting hooked up :D

glad to join up :hail:

If your partner is smart, you might want to trash your list. Thats the point i was getting at.
I prefer the word 'liked' to 'accepted'. Accepted is negative.
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30 Sep 2013, 2:57 am

Be an emotional trainwreck? That is much too easy, I mastered that years ago. It's so much more challenging trying to be sane.

Oh, and I don't have any pesos, do u accept alternate methods of payment?

Rigor, I hope it turns out to be nothing serious.


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30 Sep 2013, 2:58 am

Listen to your heart, but never forget your head for the heart is deceitful and blind.


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30 Sep 2013, 3:06 am

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Be an emotional trainwreck? That is much too easy, I mastered that years ago. It's so much more challenging trying to be sane.

Oh, and I don't have any pesos, do u accept alternate methods of payment?

Rigor, I hope it turns out to be nothing serious.


Being an emotional trainwreck is the first step. I guess you're farther along.
I accept bits of string. Like the red thread of love. Google is a thing, hint, more Japanese stuff.

@Rigor: You're regularly part of this board. Stop pretending you dont feel you want it. I don't think so lowly of you that i assume the entirety of your posts are venting. As for the current discussion: i did alot of bloodwork, they thought i had diabetes too. Turns out i just have LeLetch.


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30 Sep 2013, 3:09 am

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Listen to your heart, but never forget your head for the heart is deceitful and blind.

Cute n' poetic. Notice that the heart comes first/is primary. You may join the team :P



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30 Sep 2013, 3:11 am

LeLetch wrote:
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Listen to your heart, but never forget your head for the heart is deceitful and blind.

Cute n' poetic. Notice that the heart comes first/is primary. You may join the team :P


I'm a poet and totally know it. :P

And yes, I do agree. Not with the "tell her she's pretty" comment, though. Anyone can say that to me whether they mean it or not.


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30 Sep 2013, 3:18 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
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Listen to your heart, but never forget your head for the heart is deceitful and blind.

Cute n' poetic. Notice that the heart comes first/is primary. You may join the team :P


I'm a poet and totally know it. :P

And yes, I do agree. Not with the "tell her she's pretty" comment, though. Anyone can say that to me whether they mean it or not.

I was pointing out that there are lots of people in relationships, and they're not geniuses. Basically, there's little relation between logical insight, and gettin' the girl. Hence, the stupid advice quote.



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30 Sep 2013, 3:18 am

lol I know. I'm just being pedantic.


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30 Sep 2013, 3:22 am

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Rigor, I hope it turns out to be nothing serious.

Lol no it was just part of the checkup. I'm not expecting any bad news, outside of maybe a higher than normal concentration of lard.

I've eaten like an idiot my whole life and I haven't had any health scares. Aside from the whole fat thing.



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30 Sep 2013, 3:24 am

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I've eaten like an idiot my whole life and I haven't had any health scares. Aside from the whole fat thing.


That is so not fair! I eat very healthy and I'm in terrible shape. :(


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30 Sep 2013, 3:29 am

You're in California. Might be time to make use of those In-N-Outs.