Every girl I meet...

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It's not meant to talk to the opposite sex "politely". Just look at the silly nicknames they have for each other. "Strawberry". And that's just a drop in the bucket! Seriously though, this long-term trust building seems wrong. There have to be better ways. Trust building is silly because the two genders feel awkward around each other.

Not to worry, for soon, you'll make a new topic. Called "Every girl I meat"

no..... you really need to say for yourself, "I feel awkward around womyn" not EVERYONE is uncomfortable around the other gender. If you are that dysfunctional with the opposite gender, try relationships with your own. I don't have relationships with men but can be fine around them in non-sexual ways.

I'm actually one of the most confident people, you'll ever meet. And I do as well as possible with women. So well that I know how well you can do. My views are based on years of research. Unlike general psychology. I'm also the sunconsciously chosen male pack leader so it figures a female would respond.

1. Bitchiness is a problem but the thing is that many women are bitchy up front because they have had to deal with punks, creeps, weirdos, and gross guys from a very early age. Their initial response to meeting a guy even if he's nice...is b***h first, nice girl later. That is VERY intimidating for nice guys who probably are just saying hi. The key is that if you know up front that she just has shields up for now until she sizes you up then you just have to be persistent.
2. Some girls are possessive but I have a lot of friends who are not and I am not...so that is not a GENERAL thing with girls...but girls are suspicious of other women because they know how women think and there are tons of women who would jump at the chance to date a guy whether attached or not
3. There are lots of nerdy girls out there. Most nerdy girls are not the hottest girls. Nerdy girls prefer to spend time on their hobbies and spend less time on the beautification projects that many other women take part in but means that they cannot spend much time on gaining some knowledge of the world....a LOT of girls are smart.....you just have to meet them in their natural habitats (not the mall)

Girls are complex, just as men are complex. If you are looking for a girl who shares similar interests then try and go to those places where those types of girls hang and the old rule is still true pretty much everywhere that a guy has to approach a girl and make the first move and that makes it hard for guys who are particularly shy and so on.

There aren't other fish in the sea. They're all dead, or polluted...