We need to get real about expectations

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11 Dec 2013, 1:53 pm

I've experimented with all kinds of weight in my time. My last ex famously said once: you look hotter when you are skinnier, but the sex feels better when you have more weight on.

I think this is probably true for many. You just have to decide whether you are more bothered about what the thing looks like or what it feels like :lol:


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11 Dec 2013, 2:09 pm

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My last ex famously said once: you look hotter when you are skinnier, but the sex feels better when you have more weight on.

I think this is probably true for many. You just have to decide whether you are more bothered about what the thing looks like or what it feels like :lol:


Too much weight on a man can soften the pelvic region and decrease the stimulation provided to the clitorus. Decreasing the pleasure of traditional sex. Likewise, too much weight on a woman can "pad the stimulus region, desensitizing it to standard methods. I'll agree that more feminine" fluff" (to an extent) makes it more pleasant for the male, but at what cost to the female?


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11 Dec 2013, 2:15 pm

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This is what I'm saying:


The modern gals are refusing to hide their man butts and man waists. In other words, they are flaunting their masculinity as ok. They are refusing to conform to barbie. All of those in the first set of pictures are great examples of the "men with breasts and vaginas". All of them in the second set are perfect examples of photography tricks to disguise their man waists


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11 Dec 2013, 2:34 pm

What about pornography? Many young men these days learn about sex or get their sexual expectations from pornography, which is totally unrealistic.



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11 Dec 2013, 2:39 pm

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What about pornography? Many young men these days learn about sex or get their sexual expectations from pornography, which is totally unrealistic.


Already covered under the more broad term "media".

Besides, what is so unrealistic about expecting a woman to be pumped full of silicone, twist herself into a human pretzel while talking filthy and begging to be called a b**ch while demanding to be ravaged anally? (sarcasm alert)


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11 Dec 2013, 2:55 pm

FlanMaster wrote:
em_tsuj wrote:
What about pornography? Many young men these days learn about sex or get their sexual expectations from pornography, which is totally unrealistic.


Already covered under the more broad term "media".

Besides, what is so unrealistic about expecting a woman to be pumped full of silicone, twist herself into a human pretzel while talking filthy and begging to be called a b**ch while demanding to be ravaged anally? (sarcasm alert)



Em_ts, are you saying that women don't sleep wearing their heels? :o (sarcasm alert)



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11 Dec 2013, 3:02 pm

Of course all women sleep wearing heels,and they wake up with a perfect hair do,makeup, and no bad breath. :D Sometimes their breasts even grow during the night.


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11 Dec 2013, 3:05 pm

And we're always up for it.

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11 Dec 2013, 4:00 pm

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Of course all women sleep wearing heels,and they wake up with a perfect hair do,makeup, and no bad breath. :D Sometimes their breasts even grow during the night

Kezzstar wrote:
And we're always up for it.

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You forgot the sarcasm alert and I take things literally unless otherwise indicated. So I am inclined to believe you. Are either of you available? (humor and sarcasm alerts)


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