Reasons why I never will have a boyfriend.What do you think?

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At least you're not ugly and you have good physical hygiene

i`m beautiful.Really.

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Based on the responses to this thread, you have about 6 candidates.

My cousin told me about my love life: "You are a gold mine!" Sometimes, I get the feeling that isn't true because of the 413 thing associated with me.

What 413 thing?

I thought the same thing years ago. I ended up dating someone with aspergers syndrome like I as well

There's a good chance you're going to get happier as you get older. Many of the things you're describing as issues are typical to any teenager, whether neurotypical or aspie.

The reason you'll get happier is that you'll learn most of the things that set you apart are good things; and that the fact that they set you apart makes you better than most people, not worse.

The reason you want a guy to dominate you physically is because you're used to receiving flattering attention from older people, which gels with you saying you're attractive. Subconciously, your looks are your "social asset" and you want to protect them by being with someone strong. Dominating you physically shows they have aggression in them, which tells your subconscious that person can protect you when its needed.

But in reality, you'll be happiest if you find a "Jock/Nerd", that weird hybrid of braniac and "reasonably co-ordinated". I'm married and way too old, but I'm a decent example. Despite having aspergers and clumsy handwriting as a child (so bad they thought I was dyslexic at one point), and despite having an elongated torso and short legs, I'm reasonably good at sports and stayed active when younger. But I'm also a complete geek: love history, wikipedia, video games, PBS etc.

Just remember that one person can never fulfill all of your expectations as both friend and lover. YOu need to broaden your friend circle (at least a little!) over time by making friends who fill specific roles in your life, whether it's just playing video games with, or talking about books over coffee, or whatever.

2. Your unique!

5. Marry me?

6. Who does?

8. ...And you're single, how?

11. Unless you want an aggressive, controlling BF, that's no issue.

13. Lol and you think guys are all Mary-Poppins neat?

I can relate to these a lot.
I'll add other reasons why:
-I get very jealous very easily (like, if I saw him talking to another girl or just looking at her I'd probably get ferious)
-I don't dress "sexy"
-I am creepy
-I want to be dominant
-I am very moody
-I tend to show my love through facts rather than words (aka I'd rather help someone with something than tell them "I love you")
-I am oppositional and defiant
others but these are the main ones.

I bet she has a bf already, she didn't come back to this sub forum.

So do they really hate you? Are you sure there was NO way you ever offended them?

I do dress sexy.And my difficult character is not about that I`m angry person.I just have strong opinion how people should behave and what is right.But nowdays,people don`t care about anyone,have this disgusting arrogant`cool`attitude tahat I hate.And I woluld never be like that,I would help ones who need it.Do you see how I care about my cats?They never insult me,they give me love.

You are such a big idealist It`s not that easy how you think

I never offended them first,but they treat me like I m someone who doesn`t know nothing about life and needs to be corrected.Some of them make really rude comments I rather would not repeat.i do insult them back when they are like that,because that`s the only language they understand.You have no idea how it`s difficult to me.In three months I will finish high school,and then I will go to study psychology.

Well, I used to be bullied. Now it turns out I'm an alpha male and they only bullied me because they thought I was bullying them. Now every male in school knows me. Even the females kind of are but that's because I get such attention from males but they don't really matter because I'm not an alpha female. Alphas are pretty rare. Some people add me on facebook and recognize me in real life. I just stopped offending them. And I was confident enough at that point to know that throwing papers in my face was not an offense. All a subconscious thing. I do "weird" things sometimes (human things but you consider them weird also) they say it's weird, don't do it themselves, but are not bothered by it either. They even kind of like it. This is what Jessica and I have been researching in our quest for a utopia. So please consider that they didn't really bully you ever. We've actually researched far enough to be able to remove crime, bullying and everything. Not corruption but we can remove it through a different method. All are peaceful ways and what not. She's an alpha female so you can see what it's like if you're interested in psychology. Also works online.