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Personally I see rape as worse than murder. When a person is murdered their soul is freed and can return home. Rape, however, can Destroy a person and do lasting damage to the psyche. The only crime worse than rape is child molestation, rape of a defenseless child that can damage them beyond repair. I'd rather be murdered than raped.

That said I do understand rape fantasies, its a dominance thing. I am a submissive person and would have no problem acting out a rape fantasy with a safe word in place. But to find ones self actually calculating the rape of a stranger is sick and should be addressed by a shrink before something awful happens.

Even if you no longer have such thoughts and impulses the fact you are bringing it up here tells me you still have an unresolved issue that needs addressed.

@OP: I don't know if there are any additional issues you haven't mentioned, but if you feel you are a danger to yourself or others, please get help ASAP!

Find help, this is something really bad.

Yes, anyone feeling this way needs to go get help.

This is awful and sad, and as the mother of a daughter I prefer not to be pushed into supporting concealed-carry laws.

Oh I'm lovin' it. Comments like this that throw out insults and ad hominems are generally indicators that an indivudal lacks any actual arguments. I'm sorry, but science fails to conform to the standards of political correctness. If you have an alternative hypothesis to why it is that men with rape fantasies tend to have a history of verbal abuse by the opposite sex, I'd love to hear it.

You have absolutely nothing to back that up besides your own psychosis. Blaming violent criminal tendencies on your victims is right out of Serial Killer 101.

Note where I bolded in your post. I didn't say your "studies" were stupid. I said its stupid to think that feminists are to blame. What do you think feminists are? A group of evil women who abuse men?

The problem with crubs's comment is this, what does crubs mean by his studies ?

Does he mean what he has read on the subject, if it is something he has read he should cite a reference to the book or academic paper or whatever it happens to be.

Does he mean some evidence he has gathered while working on the subject, is he a PhD student or postdoc working on sexual issues within human sceinces ? I have heard of PhD projects in human sciences on things like porn.

Does he mean something he has thought of.

Does he mean something else ? Like something written on the back of a cornflake packet.

I think that until we know what he means a sensible discussion of his idea is impossible.

I'll take "Hours of Reading 4chan" for 500, Trebeck.

Well the idea of getting the idea as a result of reading 4chan at length is interesting to say the least, as a rule here strongly regulates the discussion of what goes on another site (What happens on another site stays on the other site, my paraphrase).

I will not share with you my thoughts about 4chan

Well after thinking about a rule, I feel the urge to go and check it and I was right.

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I think it is best I do not make a comment about 4chan in an attempt to be funny, but the idea of a person getting a grand idea from there rather than from a more conventional information source is rather interesting.

By the way despite my mention of a rule, I am not a mod and any resemblance to real mods, living or dead, is purely coincidental.

Man, I just made a joke in a very troubling topic. There's no reason to read into it any further than that.

I hope this is a joke because now I feel like avoiding you and Im a guy!

http://m.sapac.umich.edu/article/196

Apparently I didn't read well enough, and the OP already answered some of my questions before I asked them.

So, to clarify:

You don't have rape fantasies
You don't really take any enjoyment thinking about it
This happened years ago
It was more of a physical reaction, and that sparked the risk analysis of rape in those situations


Overall, I'd say if your hormones are really out of whack, it might be possible for some men to have a strong physical reaction like that. I'm not sure they'd jump into calculating the scenario of rape in real time, but it might happen. Regardless, I think a certain population of males do this. They are the rapists, and it probably starts in teenage years. However, these men are often manipulative and use alcohol as a tool. They also don't magically stop being that way when they have sex for the first time.


Well, I'm really glad your first time having sex made it go away.