Where can i find a AS girl at???

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I don't know any other AS girl irl so I was speaking about NT girls as a general. I feel just like one of them~

My closest friend is Erin, she has a passion for singing and a gorgous voice to boot, hence the reason why she has a great spot in the chorus. She can always be found writing poetry or delving into the arts of music. She has a bit of a temper so it's kinda fun to poke at her but in the end we are always sappy and hugging.

Bianca sits by me in band; she's rather fun to talk to but is always known for wandering the halls when she should be playing. Since we both play flutes we would jokingly compete for first seat and always share a bunch of laughs. Today I shown her my sex, nonshaven bone-white legs and it was pretty funny x3

Kristen is a friend I only knew in 6th grade and moved far away before I could get any address from her. When we knew one another she was bullied quite a bit and had no friends, but I eagerly took her in as a surrogate sister. I still miss her to this day and hope she remembers me too.

Trisha is a bit on the hefty side but she is a super nice girl. One could never imagine her having a mean bone in her body. She used to scold me while playing in band because I overblew on the flute but that's all in the past now. She and her friend Kristen kinda admired my art so I gave them some pictures of it :3

Jessica is the other girl who sits by me in band, we chat every now and then but I like faking my whiney voice for s**ts and giggles. She admitted why I annoy her, it has something to do with my facial expressions but I really don't mind it at all

Bryanna is a passive and quiet girl, a bit of a bookworm and always drawing from her manga how to books. She won some nice ribbons for raising bigs in animal biology and I got to see her horses. I have had her over a few times at my house before and it's quite interesting to talk to her.

Jen is my brother's girlfriend and she is always nice to have around. She likes to cook brownies for all of us and bring home goodies for me. One time she was a bit sad and was going to leave but I offered her my support and a shoulder to cry on. She and I are pretty tight now as friends.

Liz was her friend and living with us as well; she took up the challenge of caring for the kids, something I was glad I didn't have to do with her around. She and I had lots of fun together in the pool and hot tub, talking girl talk and an occassional naughty thing.

Kim is my stepmother who brought a bit of a feminine touch into this house-hold. Thanks to her my family has been expanded to have two stepsisters, a step-niece, and some dogs :3 She keeps this house really nice and clean, and along with my father gives me the support to believe I can make it through college

My mother was going to be in college but chose to drop out to be with my dad. I think even now, though she works very hard to make ends meet, she does not regret her life. She strives to make life the best it can be for me and my brothers and sister, and I believe that she has been doing a good job at it. Whenever I had a problem I would confide in her, and I know in the future I can always turn to her for support.

These are just a few that come to mind in my life, most of these girls are my age and others were once my age, but you get the gist that they are not all the same.

I thought we'd been over this subject before. The way you meet local Aspies is to join your local Autism Society. There is one in every state in the union and many states have multiple chapters. Even if you don't live close to where they hold meetings most of them have private email lists where you could get acquainted with other Aspies your age. I know an Aspie girl your age, but she would not put up with your attitude Unknown.

Even more we've had variations of surveys before and the general consensus on WP among female Aspies is the majority would not want to date an AS guy. Therefore, seems absurd to limit yourself to looking only for an AS girl. I think AS guys would do better with sympathetic mothering type NT gals. I know an AS guy that has such a woman.

But you're going to have to get over your anger because talk like that scares the s**t out of all girls. Talk like that makes a guy sound dangerous to be around. Just chill out okay.

I forgot to mention on the flipside I know girls and boys that are absolute c***s, but that's the thing, everyone's different. You have to take the incentive to actually get to know people before passing judgement.

Also I remember the ratio of girls to boys with AS is about 1 to 4. That means there's 4 times as many guys as there is girls. However, there are more girls altogether than men in the world so if you choose to go with any girl you found yourself liking it may end up being more successful.

Eheh, there's not really any malls where I come from. Even then, if you were invited to go it wouldn't be the end of the world. Actually, I went to the mall with my boyfriend and my family in the past and it was rather relaxing. The walking makes my body feel good, and I like going to the Yankee Candle to indulge in the scents. Really, if you're spending time with someone you care about, wouldn't it be worth it?

It seems you may need to see a counselor to learn to cope with that. Even I know that I can't live my life in seclusion, and not every social interaction will end in disaster.

Then you've already given up. Why do you want a girlfriend when you don't even want to get out and socialize?