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MR_BOGAN
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02 Mar 2014, 8:09 pm
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
If I came across this lady she would already have been getting it.
this is rape culture on display for the whole world.
Nah, it's just a bit of humour. A simple play on words that the op didn't realize were an unintentional innuendo.
Besides that, the chances of that are slim to none seeing as I'm gay.
Get over it. It was just a simple joke. Lighten up & have a laugh.
Unlike you, I don't find rape funny. Cathylynn is right, this is a horrible example of our rape culture, and I really don't know what the point of this thread is.
How do you or anyone who's posted about this before you equate my comment to rape?
I never said or implied anything about nonconsensual sex.
The phrase "she was asking for it" and comments about how a woman was dressed are commonly understood references to rape. Your comment, quoted first above, is sexually aggressive and that you are gay doesn't alter that.
come on he just made a joke that he throught she was attractive, so she must be all ready taken. How the heck do you get rape from that.
Plus he's gay so would probably be more interested in the guy on with the motorbike.
jokes about rape or demeaning people for their appearance or assuming anything about what it means you are allowed to do to them IS "rape culture" and encourages people to think of others as objects and is what has allowed for so much abuse and damage.
no one "asks for it" unless they actually come out and say, "yes I want to have sex with you"
He wasn't making a joke about rape.
Personally I think just being a man and breathing equals "rape culture".
02 Mar 2014, 8:13 pm
02 Mar 2014, 8:15 pm
MR_BOGAN wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
If I came across this lady she would already have been getting it.
this is rape culture on display for the whole world.
Nah, it's just a bit of humour. A simple play on words that the op didn't realize were an unintentional innuendo.
Besides that, the chances of that are slim to none seeing as I'm gay.
Get over it. It was just a simple joke. Lighten up & have a laugh.
Unlike you, I don't find rape funny. Cathylynn is right, this is a horrible example of our rape culture, and I really don't know what the point of this thread is.
How do you or anyone who's posted about this before you equate my comment to rape?
I never said or implied anything about nonconsensual sex.
The phrase "she was asking for it" and comments about how a woman was dressed are commonly understood references to rape. Your comment, quoted first above, is sexually aggressive and that you are gay doesn't alter that.
come on he just made a joke that he throught she was attractive, so she must be all ready taken. How the heck do you get rape from that.
Plus he's gay so would probably be more interested in the guy on with the motorbike.
jokes about rape or demeaning people for their appearance or assuming anything about what it means you are allowed to do to them IS "rape culture" and encourages people to think of others as objects and is what has allowed for so much abuse and damage.
no one "asks for it" unless they actually come out and say, "yes I want to have sex with you"
He wasn't making a joke about rape.
Personally I think just being a man and breathing equals "rape culture".
strange - the men all find "joking" about this stuff just fine
but call us womyn out as "haters" for simply admitting the reality that you guys are out to get us and the culture will not defend us
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02 Mar 2014, 8:37 pm
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
If I came across this lady she would already have been getting it.
this is rape culture on display for the whole world.
Nah, it's just a bit of humour. A simple play on words that the op didn't realize were an unintentional innuendo.
Besides that, the chances of that are slim to none seeing as I'm gay.
Get over it. It was just a simple joke. Lighten up & have a laugh.
Unlike you, I don't find rape funny. Cathylynn is right, this is a horrible example of our rape culture, and I really don't know what the point of this thread is.
How do you or anyone who's posted about this before you equate my comment to rape?
I never said or implied anything about nonconsensual sex.
The phrase "she was asking for it" and comments about how a woman was dressed are commonly understood references to rape. Your comment, quoted first above, is sexually aggressive and that you are gay doesn't alter that.
come on he just made a joke that he throught she was attractive, so she must be all ready taken. How the heck do you get rape from that.
Plus he's gay so would probably be more interested in the guy on with the motorbike.
jokes about rape or demeaning people for their appearance or assuming anything about what it means you are allowed to do to them IS "rape culture" and encourages people to think of others as objects and is what has allowed for so much abuse and damage.
no one "asks for it" unless they actually come out and say, "yes I want to have sex with you"
He wasn't making a joke about rape.
Personally I think just being a man and breathing equals "rape culture".
strange - the men all find "joking" about this stuff just fine
but call us womyn out as "haters" for simply admitting the reality that you guys are out to get us and the culture will not defend us
I'm sorry you feel that way. but that's not the reality. Predators are out to get you. I'm not out to get anyone.
The law doesn't defend rapists, I'd be more than happy to deal to one and would never defend one.
Just don't put all men in the same box.
goldfish21 and me defending him are not making jokes about rape.
02 Mar 2014, 8:40 pm
MR_BOGAN wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
Marcia wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cathylynn wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
If I came across this lady she would already have been getting it.
this is rape culture on display for the whole world.
Nah, it's just a bit of humour. A simple play on words that the op didn't realize were an unintentional innuendo.
Besides that, the chances of that are slim to none seeing as I'm gay.
Get over it. It was just a simple joke. Lighten up & have a laugh.
Unlike you, I don't find rape funny. Cathylynn is right, this is a horrible example of our rape culture, and I really don't know what the point of this thread is.
How do you or anyone who's posted about this before you equate my comment to rape?
I never said or implied anything about nonconsensual sex.
The phrase "she was asking for it" and comments about how a woman was dressed are commonly understood references to rape. Your comment, quoted first above, is sexually aggressive and that you are gay doesn't alter that.
come on he just made a joke that he throught she was attractive, so she must be all ready taken. How the heck do you get rape from that.
Plus he's gay so would probably be more interested in the guy on with the motorbike.
jokes about rape or demeaning people for their appearance or assuming anything about what it means you are allowed to do to them IS "rape culture" and encourages people to think of others as objects and is what has allowed for so much abuse and damage.
no one "asks for it" unless they actually come out and say, "yes I want to have sex with you"
He wasn't making a joke about rape.
Personally I think just being a man and breathing equals "rape culture".
strange - the men all find "joking" about this stuff just fine
but call us womyn out as "haters" for simply admitting the reality that you guys are out to get us and the culture will not defend us
I'm sorry you feel that way. but that's not the reality. Predators are out to get you. I'm not out to get anyone.
The law doesn't defend rapists, I'd be more than happy to deal to one and would never defend one.
Just don't put all men in the same box.
goldfish21 and me defending him are not making jokes about rape.
don't invalidate 97% of womyns experience
we get raped and the men go free
when I got raped the police just laughed as I tried to report it, many of my friends have the same experience
02 Mar 2014, 8:41 pm
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02 Mar 2014, 8:46 pm
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
MR_BOGAN wrote:
onewithstrange wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
onewithstrange wrote:
Like I said earlier, I do understand wanting to look good to feel good about yourself. What I don't get is how a girl being flirty should be interpreted as anything other than, "Hey, I think she likes me." That wrecks my head.
becaue you are misinterpreting social clues like we all do.
just because I want to play a game or pass the time does not mean I want anything more serious or that you are anything more than one part of the game (not ME in particular - this is the thought process)
Okay, that's plain manipulative and wrong.
Women like to be validated. They flirt when they are not interested to get a confidence boost, they like to know that they are desired. That's all they are interested in.
That's what it all really boils down to.
not just womyn both sides get validated
It can be like trading self esteem. If someone leads someone else on. They get a self esteem boost from getting validated the other can get rejected and losses self esteem.
I'd never flirt and pretend to be interested in someone I wasn't just to make myself feel good about myself. That's a pretty low and sad thing to do IMO.
