Men and Women - does not compute?

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I don't agree that men generally have a higher sex drive.

And I don't agree that men are generally less loyal than women, studies tho that infidelity is almost equal despite the difference in the causes/reasons.

The real reasons are what Wind and thewhitrbbit said.

I rarely meet a girl who's single not by her own choice too.

Common reasons men say why they're single (Online, because in real life they less likely to admit why):
- No girl likes me.
- I am not attractive.
- I've asked out many but everyone is rejecting me.
- I am poor or I am broke or I am too fat.
- All women want successful and good-looking men while I am not.

Common reasons women say why they're single:
- I didn't find the right man yet.
- I want someone who's X, X and X...
- I got bored of losers.
- I can't find a good man in my area.
- All men in area are losers and/or ugly.

The reasons given by women shows that there's no lack of admirers/interested men but there's a lack of men who fit their criteria. While the reasons give by men often show they are not even on demand.

Reasons given by men often indicate that they have shortcomings in life, while reasons given by women don't indicate they have shortcomings but they see a lot of shortcomings in their admirers.

It's very rare to see a woman saying "because no man wants me".

I've seen women say that on this forum but I see men saying "because no women wants me" alot more & I've said that one myself.


I've noticed that but also noticed that lots of em have kids & I've also noticed that younger women like that also tend to have kids. The older a woman is the more likely it is that she has/had kids so it may seem like age is a huge factor when having kids is just as much if not more of one. There are plenty of exceptions out there of coarse thou.

I am very glad for you both. However I think it is misleading to suggest to people that what has worked for you will work for them - because while it might, it also might not. All people are different, as you say, age is just a number, so it doesn't mean that all women in their 30s will be as you describe.

That's what I'm saying, age shouldn't matter, it's just a number.

I have always found older women to be more forgiving, understanding, patient and tolerant towards any differences caused by my Autism but if someone finds that in a younger person, good for them.

except for the ones that have been watching hard core porn online since they were 11 and think real women are supposed to look like porn stars, should be willing to have anal sex, be abused, berated, and willing to take a "money shot" in the face as well as any number of other indignities.

other than those guys, sure.

Is there some way to tell those guys from afar? Or some test you could give them that exposes them for that type of person, because I suspect most of those guys like to pretend they are regular kind of guys and then slowly bit by bit try to persuade you into allowing more and more stuff you are not comfortable with..

i wish there was some "tell"--then maybe i wouldn't feel it necessary to avoid dating altogether.