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29 May 2014, 3:35 pm

I am quite opposed to the idea there is a connection between autism and bein a misogyn, as much as I am opposed to the idea that women get discriminated more because of their sex than men are - at least in most western countries. There is still alot to do when it comes to gender equalit, but one of the reasons I am very critical about feminism in the sense that the whole idea has warped too much, away from equality and more towards female superiority. Equality should not be reached by force, and I find the trend alarming that people, not just feminisits, boosting their self-esteem by puttin down that of others. THe idea should be to put men and women on the same level by elevating women to the level of men, not by elevating themselves there and simultaneously pulling men down where the women were before.

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29 May 2014, 4:49 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

... so I extend my most sincere apology on behalf of all us men here...

Even if we have nothing to apologize for ???

If you have something you want to apologize for then take responsibility for your actions and do it.

But don't for a minute think you speak for me, or anyone else for that matter.

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29 May 2014, 6:00 pm

Apologies are pretty worthless. A person can harm, then apologize, then continue harming, apologize again, etc.

If you want to do good, show it through your ACTIONS, not your words.

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29 May 2014, 8:57 pm

mezzanotte wrote:

Apologies are pretty worthless. A person can harm, then apologize, then continue harming, apologize again, etc.

If you want to do good, show it through your ACTIONS, not your words.

This, 110%.

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29 May 2014, 9:11 pm

Toy_Soldier wrote:

AspieOtaku wrote:

... so I extend my most sincere apology on behalf of all us men here...

If nobody wants to take responsibility for their own actions then ill have to take responsibility for theirs as well.

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29 May 2014, 9:15 pm

mezzanotte wrote:

Apologies are pretty worthless. A person can harm, then apologize, then continue harming, apologize again, etc.

If you want to do good, show it through your ACTIONS, not your words.

Well im planning to take action for it, I am considering on becoming an ally to the feminist movement and no longer be a pest or place blame also do charity work as well. If nobody else wants to take responsibilities for their own actions more valuable WP members may up and leave as well. That's my stand on it![youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WibmcsEGLKo[/youtube]I will strive to follow Charlie Chaplins speech *also add in women in that speech in my mind*. End the hate.

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29 May 2014, 9:40 pm

An apology does seem like a good place to start. I reserve my greatest contempt for people who apologize and then repeat the same behavior that they apologized for, though. Keep up this positive attitude.

I think it makes sense to apologize for other people when you feel like their actions have demeaned you by association.

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29 May 2014, 9:46 pm

jrjones9933 wrote:

An apology does seem like a good place to start. I reserve my greatest contempt for people who apologize and then repeat the same behavior that they apologized for, though. Keep up this positive attitude.

I think it makes sense to apologize for other people when you feel like their actions have demeaned you by association.

Its a major driving force because somebody has to also the fact a lot of the women are feeling hated a lot some harassed and stalked even and because of that many decent WP members are leaving and no longer feel safe anymore. I wish to contribute to reducing the hostility towards the women here and maybe help convince other men to rethink their actions and the harm they are causing others by doing so later on in life they are causing harm to themselves by allowing the hatred to consume them.Hate leads to more hate it causes fear and suffering it sometimes gets its grasp on every one of us once in a while and we end up being corrupted and consumed by it, I feel it is my duty to try to find a way to end the world of hate but sadly I don't know how I wish hate never existed it tears people apart and keep people in fear. Last of all Hate creates people like Roger Elliot!

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29 May 2014, 10:58 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

Toy_Soldier wrote:

AspieOtaku wrote:

... so I extend my most sincere apology on behalf of all us men here...

If nobody wants to take responsibility for their own actions then ill have to take responsibility for theirs as well.

Dat projection.

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29 May 2014, 11:09 pm

TheGoggles wrote:

AspieOtaku wrote:

Toy_Soldier wrote:

AspieOtaku wrote:

... so I extend my most sincere apology on behalf of all us men here...

If nobody wants to take responsibility for their own actions then ill have to take responsibility for theirs as well.

Dat projection.

I wish to create a good one and not a bad one even if it means me catching flack from other men in denial of their bitterness towards women, I want to do whatever it takes to end the hate, end the suffering and prevent any other possible violent killers from emerging and killing many innocent people!It is a horrible thing to watch and deal with this hatred corrupts everyone and creates monsters. I dont want to see or hear another possible Roger Elliot Massacre or New Town Connecticut massacre or Virginia Tech shooting and all being placed on Autism! At times I have been bitter I have been trollish but I dont wish to kill innocent people! I also dont wish for several members to leave either out of hate and sexism neither do I want to deal with stereotypes that autism in males instantly means sexism towards women!

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29 May 2014, 11:18 pm

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I feel very safe with my boyfriend who has AS and he is feminist. He respects me and so I love him even though he is slightly overweight and doesn't have a lot of time for me :heart:

Well thank goodness you love him even though he's "slightly" overweight?! Whats up with that? Are you a swimsuit model or what? Or is he too much of a feminist (ie. slightly overweight p*ssy) to be able to point out any of your faults?

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29 May 2014, 11:21 pm

Maerlyn138 wrote:

Cafeaulait wrote:

I feel very safe with my boyfriend who has AS and he is feminist. He respects me and so I love him even though he is slightly overweight and doesn't have a lot of time for me :heart:

I think its because he is a kindhearted man who loves her for who she is and that us other men must also must learn and take notes! Good looks aren't everything if you have a nasty personality I would rather look average or below average and be a kind person than be a supermodel with an arrogant attitude and a shallow personality! What matters is in the heart not always looks most women prefer a kind man who treats her right who isn't an egomaniac or an as*hole but also who isn't an insecure coward either I mean there might be some women who like insecure cowards too out of the wanting to build him up and make him stronger there are many different women with preferences so don't give up I am no longer giving up either! Women are people and most of them have hearts and are kind hearted its just a lot of them are sick of having to take blame from mean abusive women they have nothing to do with!

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30 May 2014, 2:17 am

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Misogyny is a natural symptom of autism.

Why would you expect people who don't understand other human beings to even begin to know how to respect women?

Women are humans too.
You don't have to understand someone to refrain from being a massive douche.

At least you've become more subtle since the days when you kept telling everyone how ugly they were and how attractive you were. While refusing to post pictures.

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30 May 2014, 4:28 am

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If nobody wants to take responsibility for their own actions then ill have to take responsibility for theirs as well.

The last guy that did that got crucified for it. You got those kinda balls?

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30 May 2014, 5:20 am

Maerlyn138 wrote:

Cafeaulait wrote:

I feel very safe with my boyfriend who has AS and he is feminist. He respects me and so I love him even though he is slightly overweight and doesn't have a lot of time for me :heart:

Why the hostile reaction to something so innocent?

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30 May 2014, 7:29 am

Cafeaulait wrote:

Why the hostile reaction to something so innocent?

I think it was because the way that you worded that statement. It was as if I were to say, I love my girlfriend, she doesn't even have body image issues even though if you looked at her you think she would, she is comfortable with her weight. (This is an example and in no way reflects my opinion of my factitious girlfriend)

I also found that statement to be a poorly worded veiled jab, even if that was not your intention (which I think it wasn't)

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